zicoraads:

But it's not an opinion nau. It's an uncontested fact

biacan:
Martin don't quote me wrongly I said one of the major key not all..... now you get where I'm coming from

You guys should stop using that words......that ladies don't know what they want in a relationship.......like I said earlier if you're not ready to give in don't expect miracles biko
Martin you just lie there....... for the fact that you know everything thing about your ex doesn't mean that you know everything about ladies........

Those type of ladies where not into the relationship in the first place so don't generalise


Ehmmmm wait I dey come nah me you talk say u go slap

biacan:
That means you let yourself to get influenced by what most broke guys say here...... listen Martin give in you all in a relationship and don't take advice from guys here cause they don't know where they are heading to some of them are frustrated who can't decide for themselves.......they are all over these forum

Sorry for bringing your ex into these...... but I must say that those ladies where been played by men........one thing about men is that when they see ladies put in their all in a relationship......they would just take advantage of them which is why it is hard for a lady to trust a guy talk more of loving him......


Martin you guys can act like fools just to get the honey pot...... but when angry all the beauty of the lady will fall on deaf ears after you've given her a factory resetting slap.......so men can do anything to hot the one they claim to love when angry



Leave me jor put a ring on it

Proudgorgeousga:
men are scum of the earth.

They are full of trash

They are wicked

ok guys let's call it a night bye

Reasonabledoubt:
Haven’t met anyone in a while that will make me want to take that step.

Not like I’m picky, but lots of guys these days have no depth to them.

I don’t expect to find everything in one man, but he should at least be able to hold a conversation.

Have an open mind, not be too religious. I dislike overly religious people, most of them tend to be hypocrites, and I don’t want him giving my children’s future to his pastor. They don’t look at things from a logical perspective.

At the end of the day, I guess I just haven’t found what I’m looking for. I’ve actually tried, but not there yet.

I know lots of people came from dysfunctional homes, evident by the adults we now have, but I want a good marriage.
My parents were a very happy couple, I saw that growing up, my dad is a very kind man, he loved my mum.

He is a very intelligent man, kind, humble, growing up we didn’t have work that was meant for women. He could do everything we were expected to do. First pepper soup and alcohol I tasted was from my dad. He taught me how to cook soup sef.

He protected, provided,supported. He made sure we all grew up to be independent adults, irrespective of our gender.

My father has depth. I guess Growing up around such a male figure has made it hard to settle for less.

Proudgorgeousga:
men are scum of the earth.
They are full of trash
They are wicked
ok guys let's call it a night bye

Zykod:




Wow this is deep, but you need to examine the content, to actualize it's " depth ", meet more people and you can sort...don't you think ?

Reasonabledoubt:



Lol @sort, men are not paper na.

To be honest though, that initial get to know each other stage has become quite stressful.

But it will happen eventually. I intend to have kids.

ladygudhead:
Be the right guy yourself, don't be quick to ask a lady for dating, always first cultivate pure friendship,don't fluent money but PURE love.Don't make your vulnerability be easily noticed, relax n don't let being single be something that bothers you.Check for your flaws n shortcoming n work on them,embrace n admire your strenghts.Love yourself like never before. Then tell your maker what you want every morning. NB: Don't crave 4 luv on social media, it does'nt work 4 everybody! cheers!

biacan:
Any man wey want better wife material nor go run from me..... my problem nah money I nor fit marry poor person.... cause I nor won surfer for marriage..... poor guys dey give person headache too much......

Ab025:

Lol..... Thanks though. Cheers

mhisbliss:
k its your opinion and you're still entitled to it

Zykod:



I kinda agree. It's one of the reasons i've opted not to date/mingle recently, that stage seems too stressful if it doesn't hit target...and come to think of it, it can be confusing knowing what some ladies want, I want a deep, intelligent, honest, this n that, and when the guy with the spec comes, unecessary issues arises, why is he so true, why is he so good to be true, this and that and before you know it, one's drianing in insecurities.I kinda disagree with you on the part you spoke about people in ministerial positon, i think you stereotyped people and you just wouldn't know where life would take you if you ever mingled with one. These kind of stereotypes does nothing but reduces our chances for happiness

As for me, i'll never ever in my life say hello to a non-seasoned xtian lady again. Never

Omotaday:
Oh, good for you. Would you mind to talk or stay connected maybe you can find the missing something?

Amakavula:
Had this discussion today. What's the true reason you are still single ?

pick one :

Too high a taste ?

Zero financial ability ?

Awkward and introverted, hate to go out ?



U excluded disability

Low self esteem ?

Don't want you race ?

Village People ?

parents ?

Ambition ?

Others ? Explain.. below.

Amakavula:
Had this discussion today. What's the true reason you are still single ?

pick one :

Too high a taste ?

Zero financial ability ?

Awkward and introverted, hate to go out ?

Low self esteem ?

Don't want you race ?

Village People ?

parents ?

Ambition ?

Others ? Explain.. below.

Reasonabledoubt:



Lol...I understand your views. As per my stereotype, I have dated someone like that, hence my decision to not date or marry anyone too overly religious.

Maybe I am too serious, but I do not get the mentality of lots of Christians these day. The ability to choose what sin to commit on a regular, and then which to condemn.

It’s just like the Christians that condemn gay couples, but are comfortable fornicating. The ability to preach fire and brimstone, while comfortably living an opposite life, has always been beyond me.

To each his own, at the end of the day.

CaraJewel:
lol
it's not easy to find
but no p
u can pm

Reasonabledoubt:



Lol...I understand your views. As per my stereotype, I have dated someone like that, hence my decision to not date or marry anyone too overly religious.

Maybe I am too serious, but I do not get the mentality of lots of Christians these day. The ability to choose what sin to commit on a regular, and then which to condemn.

It’s just like the Christians that condemn gay couples, but are comfortable fornicating. The ability to preach fire and brimstone, while comfortably living an opposite life, has always been beyond me.

To each his own, at the end of the day.

reservd:

Una no dey marry outside ur church

Zykod:



No sister we go need relate. This is an over-a-cup of coffee chat... Are you in Lag? Age range please...Just a harmless hangouts..Mind you, i don't do smallies o...

Reasonabledoubt:


Coffee in lag sun?

lefulefu:
Don't want to get high blood pressure yet

Rozaytee:
are u d jealous type

lefulefu:

if its a casual relationship i dont care who she sleeps around with...in fact she"s very free to meet other guys but if its a serious relationshp or a wife...hmm sista a sane man should care.

Rozaytee:
lol...mine separated from me cus he thinks am shady and not trust worthy ..lol...despite d fact i proved him wrong by making him believe he can trust me...but..he insist...

Rozaytee:
lol...mine separated from me cus he thinks am shady and not trust worthy ..lol...despite d fact i proved him wrong by making him believe he can trust me...but..he insist...

gloria34:
my dear, its difficult finding a guy like that but I'll wait