Ladyhippolyta88:
You should be the one to learn not me.like I said earlier your comparison with my father goes beyond gender you cannot say you can achieve what he has because the both of you obviously have different life goals so you can't achieve what he has look for your own achievements and stop thinking about my father's.How myopic of you to compare yourself with him based on genitals.

diluewunmi:


This is exactly why alot of women choose to remain single. You men see women as your subject. I am a married woman and very happy but trust me, no man dare treat me like a piece of trash all in the name of *we can't be equal*. The same way you came into this world is the same way i came so i see no reason why i should be subjected because a gender feels superior.

FTrebirth:


what else is there not to compare?

ok, if he's more educated, is he richer?

is he more handsome?

is he stronger or more hardworking?

i'm sure your father and i are equals in some aspects so i'm making no mistakes!

never insult me again if you don't want me to insult your dada. period!

revolt:
why am I 99% sure , you're single ?!!!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
God forbid thank God Daddy is not like you.Daddy is gentle,caring,honest etc and he is a mentor.Those things you listed out there are flawed.Like I said insult me but not my daddy.

themonk:

Mutual respect, thats it. Men need more respect than love, women need more love than respect. Both of you have to understand that, the main thing in a relationship is understanding. Once you guys understand yourselves, there wont be issues.

If you meet a feminist( a true one) she is only advocating to have equal chances to get a job like you when both of you submit your CV and not to be the boss of the house or of a relationship. Its all about equality and fairness and once you guys understand that. You are good to go.

diluewunmi:


This is exactly why alot of women choose to remain single. You men see women as your subject. I am a married woman and very happy but trust me, no man dare treat me like a piece of trash all in the name of *we can't be equal*. The same way you came into this world is the same way i came so i see no reason why i should be subjected because a gender feels superior.

diluewunmi:


This is exactly why alot of women choose to remain single. You men see women as your subject. I am a married woman and very happy but trust me, no man dare treat me like a piece of trash all in the name of *we can't be equal*. The same way you came into this world is the same way i came so i see no reason why i should be subjected because a gender feels superior.

MrMystrO:

Saying the bolded sadly means that you're not in touch with the Reality anymore and Civilization has turned people into believing they live in a fantasy world. It's very obvious that Nature has equipped man to be stronger physically and mentally and that actually layed the ground work for men to dominate the world today. You will obviously agree with me that men dominate our present world and that's for a reason. Equality cannot be achieved no matter how hard we try believe me because we will always be different and the sexes will always disagree at some point so for Order to reign, One has to be above the other, That is what order is all about. Even in our society, all fingers are not equal, some people have to be Superior to some for ORDER to reign. I am only being Rational, and i believe you should drop that female sentiment and view the issue from a Rational Perspective. Take it or leave it, the so called "EQUALITY" Will NOT work because it doesn't exist in Nature. The End.

WORDWORLD:


My dear, its really about how we treat one another. The fight for equality is nothing but an INCONSISTENT FANTASY which is an outcrop of humanism the bedrock of this so called modern world. This fight for EQUALITY remains an inconsistent fantasy because Men and Women are not equal and the same. Women are created mainly to do what a man cannot do. And the difference in gender is meant for both sex to compliment each other and work together as one. Once again its really about how we treat each other with compassion and not the mutual rivalry which is but an unhealthy competition as we see today.

Amarabae:
We feminists make the best wives.
Yes we do.
Feminism mould the perfect woman who appreciate,respect and value herself as a woman.
Feminism is not a war against men but a war against anti women injustices and inequalities.
Period.

FTrebirth:


and who said i'm not gentle, loving, honest and a mentor to some persons? do you know me outside nairaland?

there are people who gain from me...and share similar love for me too.

you hurt me when you insult me, and as a feminist it's only normal for me to hurt you back. and since insulting your person won't hurt you i have to insult your father.

MensCabal:
Feminism has been on the rise in African countries ever since Oprah Winfrey achieved billionaire status. The movement which aims to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men has had its ups and downs and misinterpretations, especially in African countries.

Here in Nigeria, feminists are believed to be pained, single ladies who have been played in their relationships and seek revenge on men through arguments and verbal insults.

But that doesn't mean all Nigerian feminists are pained ladies, in fact, Nigeria has some high profile feminists who are struggling for the dreams of the girl child. The likes of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Muma Gee and Nwando Achebe (daughter of Nigerian renowned writer, essayist, and poet Chinua Achebe) just to mention but a few.

So, guys here are 3 reasons why We at MensCabal believe you should give feminists a try.

1. They Are Financially Independent

Or lets just put it as they are not completely dependent on your money for their survival.

Nigerian men have always complained that the ladies are always extremely dependent on them. If you are thinking about going into a relationship and you don't have money (or dead broke), then you should simply "hide your face". But with feminists its a whole different story.

Feminists are taught to be independent and self-sufficient. They struggle to make their own money and don't depend on anyone else especially men for their daily needs.

In order words, a feminist will be able to support you financially rather than depend on you for everything and suck you dry.

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2. They Are More Supportive

Compared to the ordinary housewife or lets say the house-girlfriend, who depends on you for her daily needs, a feminist knows whats out there and how hard it is to make ends meet, she will be more able to understand you, the stress, the hustle and be more supportive emotionally, mentally and like I said above financially.

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3. They Have More Control Over Themselves

There is an infamous phrase that goes "women don't know what they want", they say this today and do another thing tomorrow. It is believed that women want one thing but social norms and rules suppress them to choose another.

A feminist is someone who has broken away from society's norms and rules and built one for herself. So she will hardly pretend just to make the world believe that she is a good girl or just to make people see her that way, instead she will just be herself.

That would make things easier for you if you were in a relationship with her because she will be more likely to open up to you about herself and her emotions (and with a promise of wild s*x, which society force ladies to suppress).


Source: http://www.menscabal.com/2018/01/3-reasons-why-nigerian-men-should-date.html

Ladyhippolyta88:
Very true that is why I can't explain the fact why women are more religious than men I am still thinking but I can't get it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Stop relating Africa to backwardness and look at other African countries and the steps so far made concerning women's rights Tunisia,Ghana,south Africa,Liberia,Kenya and others.You clearly don't understand what equality means in this context check your definition of equality and you contradicted yourself earlier by saying you don't support feminism yet you support opportunities for women.

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is like you want to hear sorry okay I am sorry.You yourself do no know me outside hee so you can't call me foolish.Either way nor vex and please don't insult my father again.

donem:

I reterate my earlier stance, am pro feminist, to be acatalectically veracious, denial of women's rights in what ever formm aint only cruel but evil.

On me contradicting myself, i think u either misconstrued my writeup, or you mistook my handle.

the summary of the equality issue, is natures doing. A wiseman once said, "a fight against nature, can only be sustained, but would end up in vain".

Feeling sleepy already got to catch a nap, good night.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Mystro,mystro,mystro please read about equality.We all know our biological attributes but that does not mean it defines every gender out there.We have weak men Strong men and vice versa.Stop attributing equality to nature or gender.If it was a joke when the campaigners started we would not have gotten this far.Equal rights and opportunities is what we ask for and not you giving me those rights because of my gender.Do not limit me because I am a woman and you fell I am not up to the task let me prove my point and myself it is left for me to judge not you.If we do things by merit and not because of gender it would be much fairer.So I say to you equality or equity as some call it is not a joke or an impossibility more doors would be open for the female gender in years to come.

Amarabae:
We feminists make the best wives.
Yes we do.
Feminism mould the perfect woman who appreciate,respect and value herself as a woman.
Feminism is not a war against men but a war against anti women injustices and inequalities.
Period.

shaybebaby:

Same reason why Africans are more religious than the very Europeans who brought it to us. It is the tool of the oppressor, the oppressed clutches on to it like a blanket.

WORDWORLD:


My dear, its really about how we treat one another. The fight for equality is nothing but an INCONSISTENT FANTASY which is an outcrop of humanism the bedrock of this so called modern world. This fight for EQUALITY remains an inconsistent fantasy because Men and Women are not equal and the same. Our biological realities doesnt proof as so. Women are created mainly to do what a man cannot do and vice versa. And the difference in gender is meant for both sex to compliment each other and work together as one. The man is the head of the family but the woman is the head of the home is and example of power shift with respect to our divergent functionalities.Once again its really about how we treat each other with compassion and not the mutual rivalry which is but an unhealthy competition as we see today.

MrMystrO:


You are a Woman, And so i don't Expect 100% Rationality From you. You cannot see the World as it Really is Without any Sentiment Attached, And i cannot blame you, Of course Not!!! But i believe i have said all i have to say here as there is No need for me to Talk On this Issue Anymore. Have a Lovely night ma'am.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Humanism is not evil.Equality or equity is not inconsequential.Are we all humans yes or no?Are we worthy of the same rights and opportunities yes or no?

Elliot2:
like everything else,respect is not given but earned. the status of domineering we see and even of old were all earned by men: e.g in craft and war! the male folk has always shown his abilities to create and use power. and likewise history has never failed to celebrate the few female folks who distinguish themselves! the truth is, the male folk has been more disadvantaged by the society than the female folk but only that he beats his challenges more often than the female. feminism in itself will not work by mere ranting,but the willingness of each female to overcome her life challenges like every other male does.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Finally you are back where have you been I have rarely seen your comments.Hope you are good?

Snow02:
that's what they all say until they turn their husbands to house boys

WORDWORLD:


Are we not humans? Yes we are all humans is the answer and which is but a compound name for two differing genders meant to work as a team by complimenting each other. Same rights and opportunities is determined by our biological realities which makes all this struggle about EQUALITY an INCONSISTENT FANTASY because it doesnt apply to holistically to our human affairs. We need to understand that their are roles that women play where the are the ones in POWER while men have to be subordinate to them. One of such roles is the home. A woman is the head of the home while the man is the head of the family. IF ONLY WE CARE TO TREAT EACH OTHER WITH RESPECT AND COMPASSION SUCH UNHEALTHY COMPETITION WILL NOT ARISE. Humanism when inclined towards the SELFISHNESS in human is indeed EVIL of which SELFISHNESS is what defines most humans.

shaybebaby:

Lol, I've been around lurking but not really feeling up to getting involved.

Happy new year (even though its nearly the end of the month)

How have you been? I see you are on top form tonight holding down the forte.

Nobodys:
you have said it all sweethrt....we Shud all be feminist cause we need eachother....and we are all equal... I love u...


I would advise everyone here to go read about feminism... I too didn't like it until I read about it.... it's not about a woman trying to control the world....nawww ....it's about a man being equal with s woman and vice versa.... it's a movement for everyone .. for those that have suffered from gender discrimination and inequality........you can't get what u want cause you a man and she can't get what she wants cause she's a woman........all of these is what this movement have come to discourage and I see great improvement.... whether man , woman,trangender...we are all equal.......

Ladyhippolyta88:
I respect peoples opinions and this is clearly yours.I disagree with you a 100%.In a democracy equal rights are given irrespective of gender.You only seem to be talking about biological make up now let me ask you this does society and religion have a role to play in inequalities?Is it proven anywhere that men are more intelligent than women or smarter and others.Capabilities and responsibilities have nothing to do with gender prove yourself capable based on merit is part of humanism.As long as we all walk on land,breath the same air and are classified as human beings we are equal maybe unique in ouldn worth as humans.Humanism is not evil in my opinion because the issue of equality us more than biological attributes.Do not limit me because of my gender let me prove myself and be judged fairly.Earn what you get and not because of your gender or the fact that it was given to you on a platter of gold.