people what can i do, if i tell my girlfriend how much i love and miss her, she will say ok.

Do you want her to lie

Does it means that she doesnt love me, coz im convinced in my heart that she does coz we do everything together

Possiblitiies are:
1.May be she does not love you as much as you think.
2.She does not believing in sweetmouthing her love by chorusing "i love u" all the time.
3.U are just a stop gap,the real man of her heart is somewhere and she has treasured the guy in her heart.

She s lukin 4 reasons 2 reciprocate ur luv.

What do you advice that i should do,

Giv her sum tyme and alwayz b d gud guy. . . .

Ok.Ive bn doing that and we are getting to understand ourselves better. its only when it come to that issue that she's lacking. And also she doesnt send text message to me any how. like the begining of a new month. if i encourage to be sending text message she will tell me that she will only send when she feels like sending one.

Just giv her dat time.

Ok, I think thatz the best thing to do

Gud luck.

@Poster,
She might be fond of you but it doesn't mean she loves you.
Sometimes people mistake like for love. They are two different things.
That you do everything together is not enough reason for her to say i love u.
Secondly, If she has been thru a bad relationship, it would be difficult for her to say it at the early stage.
You need to give her some time. Don't push her. If she loves you, you'll definitely know.
Just a matter of time.

cantell:

@Poster,
She might be fond of you but it doesn't mean she loves you.
Sometimes people mistake like for love. They are two different things.
That you do everything together is not enough reason for her to say i love u.
Secondly, If she has been thru a bad relationship, it would be difficult for her to say it at the early stage.
You need to give her some time. Don't push her. If she loves you, you'll definitely know.
Just a matter of time.

best advice so far, i concur , sometime others need time to profess their love, just continue to be yourself, hopefully things will turn out well in the end, all the best mate

Rhhyyt! Wudchu prefer her to sayyit in all sincerity or sayyit 'kuz yu wanna hearrit?

I think i will prefer it when its true and not fake

Let me rexplain further, we do things together because we already have a plan in place for us to get married in 2years time. we've started dating without her telling me officially that she is my girl friend. each time i ask her she will tell me in just a little while she will will give me what i want. ive started getting together with member of her family and my own family too.

dammywale:

people what can i do, if i tell my girlfriend how much i love and miss her, she will say ok.

Try this test, for the next 2 months DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER, but keep acting like a loving boyfriend. Ol boy if she neva tell u say she love u by then or neva ask u if u love her, Abeg find nearest aerocontractors BAIL!!!! It simply means she likes you like a friend(yucky!!!) and not as a boyfriend.

dammywale:

I think i will prefer it when its true and not fake

There! she's prolly not sure as of yet if what she has for yu is love or juz. . .

I think she need time to come out of herself,

Just try to be extra patient and maybe she'll warm up to you. I used to be like that at the beginning of my relationship with my
bf. He is a very affectionate person, but I was well the opposite
he used to talk all those sweet words (don't want to go into details) all I said was
"yeah" (mind you I love him more than you can imagine) still I used to pretend, well I was not used to all
that lovey dovey thing.I think he notice it, he cut down on the Affections, sometimes he wrote letter to me instead
of talk to me, cus I never used to talk much, as time when on, I became more and more comfortable with him, and
I can tell you today that am more affectionate then him.

My advice is, give her time, she will open up, Let her lead a bit more, make it obvious that you have chosen her not the other way around, in addition id say the more you say something the less it means, so dont wear I love you out. Most importantly though give her time. she
just isn't the type of girl whose into all the 'i love you' stuff. (some girls need to hear that like everyday from their partners to feel self assured not everygirl is in to it) btw how long have u guys been together?

Phew ruky, dat was long. Poster u don hear am nah.

lol simple. . . .she likes u and not love u!!! how long have u both being together? dnt tell me its like 2-3 months and u already chatting i love u!! coz its scarrrry when its too early and u say stuff like dat o

Hehe, this life sha, what you are experiencing is just oppsosite to me. If i no say I love you or say something as regard love to my GF , mehn na problem be that day o.

I suggest you give her time maybe one guy don break her heart sometime before u know.

Guy u really dont want her to lie do u. . . . I had a g.f. We dated for about 2yrs . . . And for a whole yr she said 'i love u' each time i told her without meaning it. . . So dont push it. If she doesnt come out of her shell ask her if she does. . . Its how she responds dat determines. . . If she doesnt guy just break up with her sharply b4 she does it to u. . .

we have bn together for the past 8months now. but i think we are growing together on a daily basis. I am very sure that everything will work out and she will soon be totaly committed. @ruky that was a great analysis. Thanks

i think she doesnt believe u

thats the type of response ill give to a man i dont trust as well!

stop trying too hard; declaring undying love wont make her believe u

just be natural- she probably doesnt feel the same way yet

dont expect too much, dont give too much

simple

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