She doesn't allow me to look into her phone, does this mean I can't trust her or she is hiding something from me?

Seriously is she ur gf or ur Fuckmate. And how old are the two of you.

*Hisses*
Kids!!!!!!

Seriously she is my Gf nd even planning T̶̲̥̅Ơ̴͡ marry her...

A̶̲̥̅♏ 27 nd she is 23

oriyominani: A̶̲̥̅♏ 27 nd she is 23

She is 23, planning to get married to you and doesn't allow you to hold her phone?

*Singing "Fire on the mountain" by Asa. . .*

She is playing hard to get
And she is F around you

There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

Scash: There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

Lolz @ put your body on the ground. Do you mean to say farabale? That is why it is kinda difficult to interpret yoruba with english.
@OP, pele she is obviously hiding something from you, but that doesn't mean she's cheating on you. Just trust her and if you feel you really want to know what she's hiding from you, whenever she is with you and she carelessly drop her phone, sneak it out of the room and secretly go through. But pls don't commit suicide after reading the content of her messages.

you said two of you are planning to get married and she is this secretive...im laughing in maori language...

Yeske, boron10... Take it easy is too small. Put ur body on d ground is better

@op
I will like to ask u this tiny little question, WTF are u looking for in her phone?

cindyrella: @op
I will like to ask u this tiny little question, WTF are u looking for in her phone?

Does he not have his own?
Seriously, we are beginning to forget the meaning of something called PRIVACY. If some BF see what their GFs say on NL, they will think something else is going on but it is in a bit to have fun.
Here is a tip, loc up your phone and don't give it to her too

What do u want to do with her phone?
I dont let anybody touch my phone anyhow

The no. of dirty secrets stored in someone's phone is directly proportional to how quick they grab it from you when you take it.

@ op its called MIND UR BIZ!!! Put a 22 carat coloured diamond ring on her finger den come back and post this thread, den u ll b justified. Till den put up or get out

P.S my ex used to allow me go thru his fone sha.

Sapphire86: @ op its called MIND UR BIZ!!! Put a 22 carat coloured diamond ring on her finger den come back and post this thread, den u ll b justified. Till den put up or get out

P.S my ex used to allow me go thru his fone sha.

Sis
You know what a 22 carat colored diamond ring cost?
You are send the dude to do arm robbery
Check it out the cost
Why 22 carat colored diamond ring?
What about nice ring Nigerian Women OOOOOOOOOOO

boron10:
Lolz @ put your body on the ground. Do you mean to say farabale? That is why it is kinda difficult to interpret yoruba with english.
@OP, pele she is obviously hiding something from you, but that doesn't mean she's cheating on you. Just trust her and if you feel you really want to know what she's hiding from you, whenever she is with you and she carelessly drop her phone, sneak it out of the room and secretly go through. But pls don't commit suicide after reading the content of her messages.

i feel that she is afraid you may see some thing that may bring separation between you and she. It is up to you to make her mind relax.

stop creating problems when there are none. u think this is sth to get worried about? she loves you yet a little fault, you'll take it personal. leave the phone issue and look at the bigger picture cos if she finds out, you'll get sth bigger than this

I don't just get it!
They are getting married for f**ks sake!
The bible says you 2 become ONE and all other things..

Why would she be hiding her phone from her fiance!
These are things you should talk about!
And about the inbox thingy..if the r/ship is based on love and trust there should be nothing to hide!

OP Have you confronted her about it!

But then again..getting married @23??

^^
two become wetin? What if she is not Christian? Does the bible also apply to her?

IF(she is) a nigerian.. it is in the koran and i guess the traditional folks believe it 2!

It is okay for bf & gf but for 'about to weds'!..How Now?

Mynd_44:
Does he not have his own?
Seriously, we are beginning to forget the meaning of something called PRIVACY. If some BF see what their GFs say on NL, they will think something else is going on but it is in a bit to have fun.
Here is a tip, loc up your phone and don't give it to her too

#Gbam well said!

i just tire as people dey call dis marriage...."we wanna get married" , even wen u guys no sabi una self well,

Op,
try sabi yur babe well

Mynd_44:
Does he not have his own?
Seriously, we are beginning to forget the meaning of something called PRIVACY. If some BF see what their GFs say on NL, they will think something else is going on but it is in a bit to have fun.
Here is a tip, loc up your phone and don't give it to her too

There is no such thing as privacy in relationship!!!! If you are committed to somebody, you should allow that person to know your deepest secret, share you fear and trials with that person. That is where true intimacy and trust built from. Her acts are suspiscious. I would ask her why she is doing that!!! And I would lock up my phone to see her reaction too...

pharmking:

There is no such thing as privacy in relationship!!!! If you are committed to somebody, you should allow that person to know your deepest secret, share you fear and trials with that person. That is where true intimacy and trust built from. Her acts are suspiscious. I would ask her why she is doing that!!! And I would lock up my phone to see her reaction too...

Na wa to you-- all you have just said are based on Utopic ideals.. real-world G.. Privacy must be maintained even in marriage.. not everything must spill out of your mouth because of Trust.. Go buy a cheap nokia phone and leave it at the office -Runs Calls Only

Scash: There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

Coded! Wa gbayi!

Babe on a reals tho, u have spoken well. But! Ur write up get small comma o! We not certain ur talk is d case of d poster, we can only assume she's devoted ya no! If d babe dey cheat nko? Imagine! 1min she dey para! Hmmmm......

Why would you want to hold her phone? Her phone is her private property, let it remain that!

pharmking:

There is no such thing as privacy in relationship!!!! If you are committed to somebody, you should allow that person to know your deepest secret, share you fear and trials with that person. That is where true intimacy and trust built from. Her acts are suspiscious. I would ask her why she is doing that!!! And I would lock up my phone to see her reaction too...

If you both are too open and you don't have a emblem of yourself, you will get frustrated. Everyone needs to be reminded that he/she is still human and still has a personality

Mynd_44:
If you both are too open and you don't have a emblem of yourself, you will get frustrated. Everyone needs to be reminded that he/she is still human and still has a personality

i pressume u guys see chaeting as privacy too, truth be told, theres nothing to hide if theres nothing fishing.

my girl leaves her fone open, if i see any funny text, she explains it to me and i understand that guys would always come around her, its normal, but when a girl starts getting secretive, then she is either cheating or on the way to do so.
when a woman loves u genuinely, she does so with everything, its a natural thing with women.

What do you want with her phone? Dont you have yours? . There's this thing called PRIVACY you know?

Floxyluv: What do you want with her phone? Dont you have yours? . There's this thing called PRIVACY you know?

i pressume u guys see chaeting as privacy too, truth be told, theres nothing to hide if theres nothing fishing.

my girl leaves her fone open, if i see any funny text, she explains it to me and i understand that guys would always come around her, its normal, but when a girl starts getting secretive, then she is either cheating or on the way to do so.
when a woman loves u genuinely, she does so with everything, its a natural thing with women.