From your narration, it seems you are the only one reciprocating the love. I advice you to cease from calling her for the mean time and if you have the desire to communicate with her through phone, simply send text message. Allow the love to balance 50 - 50 likewise devote much of your time to something more tangible than this your girl. I pray you wouldn't fall a prey.

the most annoying part is that after every call i make to her she always ends with [b]"i'll call u later" [/b]and i really like this girl but this call issue is a big problem for me

Man. . . u don't need to push it too far. .

It's obvious she doesn't like u anymore. . .

I wouldnt even advise u to send any text message,

Stop callin her until she starts callin and if she doesnt. . . . . thats to show you that the love aint there anymore. .

I guess she is still a student. Why dont you do your best and leave the rest I mean call her when its convinient for you, one mistake we guys make is leting girls no our despiration for them. one thing is for sure that she will keep running back if you are too despirate abiout her give her the feeling you dont need her in the reklationship. AND give her the notion that other girls are intrested in you. pROBABLY KEEP A FEMALE FRIEND (casual frienship)let her know and possibly she will run after you if the friend in question is pretier than her. Just STOP ACTING DESPERATE

I suggest you find out why she does not call before taking actions.

@poster
If you have the balls (which I knw you don't unfortunately) don't call her for 6 months!
Some women can be so selfish; always want to be on the receiving end of care.
Boy stop being a mugu which you are
I have been there and done that. She will never call you by a hair's breath; no need discussing it again.
I insist, don't call her for 6 months! Only if you have the balls
And you will see her either killing your battery with phone calls!
Or going her own way, which is equally good riddance!
Only if you can have the balls my friend!

bobo o ti e le wo bo se fese pale pale niwaju omoge

How can u love someone without calling them from time to time just to see how they are doing?

as long as she calls other guys, date someone who calls u

thanx 4 all ur replies, i think i actually posted dis topic cos i couldnt take it anymore
if i ask her y, she neva gives a tangible reason
mayb we r not meant 4 each other

@

Usiola:

as long as she calls other guys, date someone who calls u

mayb i need 2 move on,

opokonwa:

Or going her own way, which is equally good riddance!

i v invested a lot of my tym n effort not 2 talk of $$$ into d relationship, but i guess i just failed 2 read d writing on the wall

@smarta
stop self pitying yourself.You have helped the girl(about bringing the girl closer to you,did u pay and pave her way into the school) a lot and if she hasnt appreciated you in calls(cos thats what u r after).she then isnt being fair.If on the contrary you are expecting her to call to test if she loves you.I'd rather you wait for like 6 months(without calling her)
Probably(it is obvious) she doesnt want to give you the green light,(cos thats what u want).
She has a bf(a fact)
give her time ok
dont just break up,and conclude she doesnt love you,cos thats immature
play the game

Wait a minute,I thot I saw,6 months in u r initial post.You doing the calls without reciprocating.As per that level.I just would advice u to minimise on ur calls or totally stop calling(i think its better)
If you really love her,wait for her
The best things in life are free and available to everyone

hollandis:

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@hollandis
thanx, i'v stopped calling her for 2 wks now, during which she called once n i didnt pick her call

Y?

lets just wait n see (play d game)

@poster
It is obvious the girl doesn't like you, pls my brother don't waste your time

shekenah !

@ Poster

I had similar experience. My Ex-boy calls me once in 3months, I do the callings everytime. If I asked him why he doesnt like calling me? He always reply: He is not working in Celtel or Mtn.

This is one of the challenges I endured for more than 3 years.

But as time goes on, I noticed he calls some other babes. Which means he doesnt love me. So I called it a quit between us.

@kemisuga
heya ,
sorry for that o
- 3 years too much

@Poster n others wit similar exp

Why not discuss your feelings and fears with her as a friend? Let her know you cherish her friendship but you are worried she might not be comfortable with your presence in her life, citing her refusal to call you frequently as reason for this conclusion. From her response you will know what to do next.

However, despite the popularity of GSM some people are still not enthusiastic about it. The lack of enthusiasm doesn’t often translate to lack of interest. You may find that you are making a very big mistake coming to that conclusion without first sounding her out.

Besides, the onus is on you, for now, to do the calling because you are questing for something from her. You are the one who wants to win her to your side, who wants to change her thinking to tally with yours; such desire requires time and patience to materialise. For now, whatever pleases her until she is sufficiently convinced that you have the strength of character she wants in her man. Don’t forget that unless you pay for something you desire, it is still open to other negotiations.

In relationships, persistence, tolerance, patience and endurance are what a man need to totally wean a seemingly difficult woman. So, what if she isn’t calling you as frequently as you would like? So, what if she tells you she would call and never does? For now, the call is still hers. If you understand this, you will overlook this minor defect and concentrate on the relationship.

Whatever happens, learn to declare and discuss whatever fears you have concerning the attitude or behaviour of whomsoever you are dating. It saves a lot of mistakes and problems in a relationship.

No calls no love . . . end of story

she is not interested and you are only trying to force her, just let her be and if she is your's she'll come back and hopefully thing will be different

stop calling.

Bros pitch ya tent somewhere else ! HOPE YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE THE WRITTING ON THE WALL ? She is tired of you or maybe she simply doesn't want to tell you off to your face so i'll advice that you let her be for just a month to clearly know if she really wants to dump you or better still, why not drop in on her uninvited.

Bros keep calling man!
MTN is organising a reward 4 regular mumus

Stop calling her. If she doesn't make any attempt to call you, call it off.

TALK TO HER. just find out why she neva calls .it cld be credit wahala or any other thing

. . . end of story.

@Poster!
Bobo wake up ooooo!How can you say u love someone and the person is not reciprocating th elove abeg!Abeg, get a life, she is not the only Lady oo and you 9ja girls, If den never enter Uni, den go love u so tay but once dey enter like ds, na so their eyes go lift up !Its obvious she still likes you but does not love you enough, someone else on Campus is deceiving toasting her! But from experience,she will definitely still come back once her eyes don open and den campus boys don clear ground finish!
Bros in short move on with your Life

@poster
guy I be like say you dey pursue the girl as fly dey take pursue shit. .if na so,no be like that oh.It makes them feel more important than they are.give her a long break.if she doesnt reciprocate.shift your base with dispatch.