Angelawhite:
By default, I'm not the type that walk up to a lady to drop few punch lines to woo her. But I can walk up to her and initiate a conversation. Trust me, when we get talking, she will have no choice than to leave her number.

I'm not the type of guy a lady sees as a devourer ( even though I might be inside). I like winning her trust and innocently request for her number.

You know,there's how you'll play your game and she'll be like, "this guy no wan collect my number".

On one occasion, I was about leaving a girl after a hot, argumentative, interesting chitchat and the girl asked me, "How are we going to meet again?" and I smiled inside. And pretended I forgot


I'm not an advocate of chasing women around... there are many ways to catch them... their shakara too much... I won't say much before these girls go use am against us

ANGELA SO YOU BE MAN!!!!!
YOU AFF EXPOSED YASELF TODAY

TheSuperNerd:
Looolll.... I have heard this one too when my sister turned down a couple of guys. She told me and I was like... Woah! Hahahahahahahahaha... Silly men who cannot handle rejection.

Lady, keep to your Principles and the right guy will surely show up. Don't bend for these coded Bleep-boys everywhere hiding behind the character of "nice, cool and smart". I hope you know we guys are fine actors indeed. A good man is not every where... But if you hold closely to your principle I assure you that you will meet the right one. Never feel bad about saying no to guys who wanna cajole you into having your number.

TheSuperNerd:
Loooolll... Did you just say "Can't happen in Nigeria"?

Stories I have heard myself? I think the world is not so small afterall... It is much bugger world out there Mr Physics... A much bigger world.

This is not even close to over thinking anything. I am telling you real happenings here.

Seen ladies who got brutal attacks verbally and physically just because they refuse a guy.

AND hey.. get used to my epistles. They are a part of me everywhere I go on NL. And it cannot be forgotten because they contain valid points too.

PerfectlyPerfect:

ANGELA SO YOU BE MAN!!!!!
YOU AFF EXPOSED YASELF TODAY

mrphysics:

Bros, if I will advise you, I will only recommend you forget about this battle you are about to start.

Let everyone air their opinion bro, they have the right to and we should not forbid them from doing that.

Having said that, the lady you are about to start the battle with is equal to the task. Ever heard of antibrutus? . It literally means [b]aunty brutal. Just in case she decides to eat the food you presented to her, kindly accept my condolence in advance [/b]

lefulefu:
sound like an agbero

Ekiseme:
Seriously man? Nonsense

blackbeau1:
This just happened a week ago.He said ' he only wanted to manage me as ugly and shapeless as I am. And that I've just lost out on the opportunity to hustle with him and get married in the next four years'. I was literally in tears because I was laughing so hard.

Neatboy:
I asked a lady out in church. As at that time I knew that like three other guys were asking her out. Instead of she to tell me say she no want, simple! But she chose to use the wrong words, "You are not in the picture." I cried inside ooo. In fact, I cried out then. And I loved her then like life itself. I knew that those guys didn't love her cause they all had serious dates. I was just begging for one. Now, all the guys had gotten married, not to her, except one that had left the church. Nevertheless I still kept her as a friend. Now we are so closer than five and six and she is dying that I talk to her again. She don show me green light tire. For where! I no gree. You know why? Because she had pushed me out, and I have gone wild in terms of my choice of woman. She even get scared with the kind of babes that come my way. My dear, indeed, The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born. Chill! I am getting marries this year to one of the damsels. No kill yourself because of a woman!!!

pocohantas:


LOL. It's not really shakara, it's caution. Would you like your girlfriend to keep giving her number to every guy that indicates interest? That's how distractions start.‎ I don't like distractions. ‎

If I were you girlfriend and I keep doing that, you come on NL to open a thread...these same guys calling us confused, will come tell you I am leaving my options open, typical hoelosho .

It's not an easy decision to take, especially when you kinda fancy the guy's company. But every conversation, mustn't lead to closeness.

mrphysics:

Seems like you enjoy flexing muscle with women online bro? It's not necessary. I was just calling his attention to the fact that he mustn't react to everything he reads here and you see "smiling emojis" used all through the post.

But if you think he should take everything said here personal, then goodluck to both of you.

I believe we have got more things to do offline than come online and argue with ladies we all know enjoy internet not for anything but for chatting. I really do not enjoy when people engage in e-wars

TheSuperNerd:



Well said lady Pocohantas. I admire such disciplined decision especially when you are in a serious relationship. A lady cannot keep giving out her number to every guy (no matter how cool or nice he seems to be- we always almost are on the surface because we wanna impress) just in the name of "friendship" when we both know that more than 85-90% of the time, these guys will provide unnecessary distractions and won't mind attempting to compete for your attention and time with your man or other important people in your life.

Our ladies must be disciplined because I know that naturally ladies enjoy the attention of having guys want to get close to them. But if they can understand that they must not open the door for every guy especially when they are in a relationship, then they would avoid a lot of drama and complications.

You have spoken well.

Gangster1ms:

I don't stalk mahn... it happens i always stumble on her posts.. especially on topics that make front page.. i never mention or talk to her.. today is the first.. and it's because it's beginning to disgust me.. let her post her pic lemme see if her words match her looks.

mrphysics:


Seems like such incidents which you experience everyday is the only happenings not reported in Nigeria. I do not doubt the fact that guys go hard when rejected, I only opined that they are empty and most times results to only verbal insults.

I strongly think you are overthinking it. And if you are not, kindly ignore both my words and me, thus, treat as not important.

Lastly, I don't doubt the validity of your points, I only said you are over thinking the issue

jaxxy:


I agree with u partly bt there are sm gals who don't have any thing serious going on and keep acting and talking like they do. I think its either ego, indecision or sm type of principle they stick 2. Its good in a way bt has its disadvantages also.

Tinalex:
What's the big deal an bout you sef, my girlfriend fine pass you. It was then I knew he was a real fool, whom silence is required on his matter.

Grayjoy:
It sounds like a movie to me. Is he a psycho??

TheSuperNerd:
Hmmmm.... I wonder why of all the many people who comment on FP topics, it is just her, alongside some other monikers i am sure you also take good note of, that you seem to notice out of many. I think her words leave quite an impression on you Sir Gangster... Doesn't it? You should think about it eh...

And her words are beginning to disgust you? So you couldn't hold it in anymore? Hmmmm... Well man... I am pretty sure you also disgust someone else with some things you say. I mean I am also sure I too disgust someone here on NL just by standing by words I say. We all have different backgrounds and come with our unique perspectives and characters. We cannot please every damn person on this forum and beyond.

I think in the end, you should just try to not let things people say here get to you on a deep personal level. I think some of the things she said which you know of (which I don't) may have been borne out of her personal experiences in life. And you cannot blame her if she insults men... I mean, seriously speaking, most men are really scum. No offence. Almost Every where you turn to, you see examples of men screwing the med folka over with their unfaithfulness, promiscuity and lame attitudes. Making it look like we dont have real good men anymore. It is just the truth. But I understand your anger at seeing what you perceive as her insulting men and acting kinda aloof... (Not on this thread though... I refer to threads you know of...I am just speaking from your angle).

If some lady monikers here on NL label all men as bad, dont blame them. They are just reflecting their personal experiences. What you should do instead of attacking them is just to show them that not all men are bad. That we have the few who are good and will remain good.

About her pic... I think you have no right to ask to see her face. It is her decision to make. It is her cyberspace and profile. I think you should just respect that and not assume that she is ugly. because thing is, you may see her now and start uhmmmm... Tripping big time.. loooll... Just teasing ya...

Cool it okay. No need labelling her ugly for stating a sound opinion. She made sense man. Focus on the message and not the moniker.

lefulefu:
there was this story i saw on investigative discovery channel where this beautiful lady narrated how she was beaten up by a guy and eventually the guy used his Prado jeep to run over her three times all because she rejected his advances. Her spinal cord got broken and she's now a cripple for life.When i watched the story i almost cried.any man who feels like doing physical harm to a lady cos she told him she ain't interested is mentally sick and a psycho. If a babe say she no want just waka and let her be.other babes boku.

quinSonia:
but y harass a woman cuz of noba

JudgementHammer:

You don't have to exaggerate the matter. A defense mechanism is different from a psycho problem. We all have different defense mechanism and different ways to handle rejection.

pocohantas:


You get the point. Maybe when I was younger, it was fun to have so many guys to keep calling and giving one unnecessary attention. Now I am older, I really don't think we [the guy and I] should put ourselves through such stress.

The highlighted is the truth. I wanted to type that, but I didn't want some guys here to misconstrue it. That's how it starts, 'just friends'...then people start catching feelings. Before you know it, you're cheating on a loved one, emotionally...or even physically.