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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:38pm On Feb 20, 2018
Lionessza:


Lol@ cottonwool balls.

Lol. when you say it , mean it and show me you mean it . Once in a while blast my ego and don't grovel after grin...not having my way kinda gets me going grin. Perhaps I really have that condition I described yesterday which is heavily influenced by Leo traits lol.

Lol maybe. Nothing bad with that. We're all twisted, some more than others tongue

Yeah, that's the only down side about meeting your match. The battle of wills. For some reason I find that part draining.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Lionessza(f): 1:56pm On Feb 20, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol maybe. Nothing bad with that. We're all twisted, some more than others tongue

Yeah, that's the only down side about meeting your match. The battle of wills. For some reason I find that part draining.


grin true phofu grin.


True about the draining part . For me , an exact match and I ayinosebenza shame , tried that one before and failed lol . I prefer an inbetweener but more on the assertive side though coz I see a meek man as an energy vampire grin.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by tosyne2much(m): 2:01pm On Feb 20, 2018
Lionessza:
I personally wouldn't go for any guy who doesn't have a formal job ( both civil servants and private sector are welcome) or a formal business ( I don't play around with hustlers).
This is the most absurd and ridiculous statement I have ever heard from a lady.

You mean you can only marry someone who has dedicated his life to work for someone else?

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by MhizAJ(f): 2:06pm On Feb 20, 2018
Tracypacy:
why?

Most of them are poorly paid
Their reward is always in heaven

I can't be doing the job of a husband in my matrimonial home

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:08pm On Feb 20, 2018
Lionessza:



grin true phofu grin.


True about the draining part . For me , an exact match and I ayinosebenza shame , tried that one before and failed lol . I prefer an inbetweener but more on the assertive side though coz I see a meek man as an energy vampire grin.

LOL! An energy vampire how? Is it because you can't let off some steam or?

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Lionessza(f): 2:10pm On Feb 20, 2018
tosyne2much:
This is the most absurd and ridiculous statement I have ever heard from a lady.

You mean you can only marry someone who has dedicated his life to work for someone else?


My God!. * rolling eyes* . Where did I say the bolded ? . I said " formal business owners ( not hustlers ). Or ( someone who has a formal job at either public or private sector ) . Options boy , options.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by tosyne2much(m): 2:15pm On Feb 20, 2018
Lionessza:



My God!. * rolling eyes* . Where did I say the bolded ? . I said " formal business owners ( not hustlers ). Or ( someone who has a formal job at either public or private sector ) . Options boy , options.
No be today una don dey come Nairaland come form wetin una no be.

The funniest thing is that, at the end of the day, people like you end up embracing the street hustler you castigate

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Lionessza(f): 2:39pm On Feb 20, 2018
XhosaNostra:


LOL! An energy vampire how? Is it because you can't let off some steam or?



Lol, don't know how to put it without sounding rude. But I hate a bytch of a man lol. I can't stand a passive guy , as a friend yes but as indoda yam ..hell no . I can be quiet domineering, so having an energy vampire who wants me to take control of everything and never objects to my rulling would drive me to commit suicide cheesy. Although I also can't stand chauvinism.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Lionessza(f): 2:40pm On Feb 20, 2018
tosyne2much:
No be today una don dey come Nairaland come form wetin una no be.

The funniest thing is that, at the end of the day, people like you end up embracing the street hustler you castigate



Ok.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by samsam69(m): 2:41pm On Feb 20, 2018
adaksbullet:
sweer in ur live na say u are no go 1759, NEPA, signsion, chopriite too carried babe angry angry angry




Alagbere oshi angry angry angry



All the gilrs that u haved bangeds on ur life, his she ur gf alone? angry angry angry angry

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by CaptainStephen(m): 2:43pm On Feb 20, 2018
Tracypacy:
Lol! Why?
because it won't work for either of us, me and her could end up deployed with little or no time.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Lexusgs430: 2:51pm On Feb 20, 2018
Tracypacy:
I recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself. What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?

Unfamiliar location for you..... Used to seeing you on the other side.......
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by stillseth: 2:53pm On Feb 20, 2018
I won't marry someone that works in a bar, hotel, and even hair stylist too...my opinion.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Siddeek: 2:53pm On Feb 20, 2018
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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Lexusgs430: 2:54pm On Feb 20, 2018
Tracypacy:
I recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself. What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?

The only profession that would bar me is a commercial sex worker or reformed commercial sex worker......

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by holafloyd(m): 2:54pm On Feb 20, 2018
Tracypacy:
I recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself. What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?
Police

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Apination(m): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2018
Love and compatibility are the only standard s needed .
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by mykalls(m): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2018
MhizAJ:
Teacher

You mean Lecturer?

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Fongido(m): 2:57pm On Feb 20, 2018
Computer programming.
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by collinometricx: 2:58pm On Feb 20, 2018
Go to english class yhu will b running, u thought u were doing yhur teacher... Now look at what u typed and tell me u finished pry sch
adaksbullet :
sweer in ur live na say u are no go 1759, NEPA, signsion, chopriite too carried babe angry angry angry




Alagbere oshi angry angry angry



All the gilrs that u haved bangeds on ur life, his she ur gf alone? angry angry angry angry
ECO88

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by biacan(f): 2:59pm On Feb 20, 2018
Military men,nurse bankers,teachers cool

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by chigoziem10(f): 3:02pm On Feb 20, 2018
I won't marry a policeman for any reason in the world!

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by litaninja(m): 3:03pm On Feb 20, 2018
Those against male nurses....thinking they're gay and all that are the perfect example of why "Bad boys" will continue to get the best chics.
I'd imagine a Male nurse will be able to show the amount of affection and caring that most females constantly claim they want.
Yet, we can see clearly here that females dont want that. Females want Bad Boys!!

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Khalilsneh29: 3:03pm On Feb 20, 2018
I would love to mingle with alot of girls but hey......I wouldn't want to marry a.............








































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I won't marry a woman I don't like cos I don't like what I hate and I don't hate what I like.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by biacan(f): 3:04pm On Feb 20, 2018
MhizAJ:


Most of them are poorly paid
Their reward is always in heaven

I can't be doing the job of a husband in my matrimonial home
Mhiz tell them cheesy
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by pedrilo: 3:04pm On Feb 20, 2018
zero love for military or paramilitary.
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Mayflowa(m): 3:05pm On Feb 20, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Exactly my point! It's just so...gay. What do they even call them in the wards, "Sister"? I honestly don't find it attractive or manly. It's good that they help people & are gainfully employed though, but ha.a. No.

Yabo! You get it. There is something very hot about that type of a man. Jack is a very good example. I thought I was the only one liking a bit of vavavoom & passion.

Women are funny. They want men to see them as equal yet they emasculate a man they feel doing a mostly women job. More so, many people do not understand the work of nurses. They think they are cleaners. LoL. There are neurosurgery nurses as there exist different specialist nurses that offer specialist care.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by octopusfreaky(f): 3:05pm On Feb 20, 2018
Soldier, I loved him so much but I dare not bring him home

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by MhizAJ(f): 3:07pm On Feb 20, 2018
biacan:
Mhiz tell them cheesy

What will i be doing with a man that earns N15,000 per month

It's not even enough to buy ones foundation self

Make them rest

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by RexTramadol1: 3:08pm On Feb 20, 2018
Nairaland girls







Dey r d worst.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by maestroferddi: 3:09pm On Feb 20, 2018
MhizAJ:
Teacher
Why?

But you were taught by someone...
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 20, 2018
MhizAJ:


What will i be doing with a man that earns N15,000 per month

It's not even enough to buy ones foundation self

Make them rest

lecturers are teachers too
Plus some teachers earn a lot in lagos
I am just staying

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