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Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by sisisioge: 7:24am On Jul 07, 2018 |
zedman1: na thunderstorm of a slap. 1 Like |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Isaacmacdon(m): 7:29am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Sad as it can be. Beating up a lady isn't the best of things to do. Don't get it wrong. We are humans. We make mistakes. Women bridle your tongue. Men control your anger. |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by yashau(m): 7:39am On Jul 07, 2018 |
AntiBrutus:what do you means by a lot of you, can you please explain that line? |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by gonkin(m): 7:49am On Jul 07, 2018 |
A man is not and never supposed to hit a woman. Just cuz you are stronger as a man. Imagine if your sister has a partner always beating her. Its so wrong. In this modern day. You claim u love her and u beat her and she cries. If u are willing to make your woman cry then i wonder how deep your love is. 1 Like
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Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by mcstan18(m): 8:08am On Jul 07, 2018 |
donstan18: donstan18? 1 Like |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by ApolitiCal: 8:15am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Well, I can see that most of the comments here are from young guys and singles or those in courtship. Let me make it clear. There are evil, irresponsible men who don't know any other things apart from smoking, taking alcohol and womanizing and then fail in their responsibilities at home. At slight provocation, they resort to beating their wives. These kinds of men are nothing but animals in human forms. However, we should also note that every thing in life has two sides to it, but people only take one side and perhaps never willing to see the other side. There are evil women who don't see anything good in whatever their men do. Nagging, ingratitude, making decisions for their husbands at home, not listening to their husbands, wastefulness and in the worst part of it, being public toilet are some of their attributes. If you, as a man, cannot tolerate any bad attributes from your wife, and you try to correct her and she fails to adjust, don't endure. The moment you start enduring, you have started living a miserable life and you may die young. You have right to be happy in marriage. DO NOT BEAT HER. Just take her back to her parents. Tell them you are no longer interested in the marriage. There is room for separation in the marriage even when there are kids. Inform the concern relatives. If a man does not fail in his responsibilities, not womanizing, or involving himself in any act of criminality, he should be a respected head of the family and whatever he says must hold sway. Women too have right to be happy in the marriage. You should know the terms of agreement of the marriage. If you are a Muslim and you marry a Muslim husband, he can marry more than one wife. If you detest that, don't marry a Muslim or you force him to go and make the agreement in court that he will not marry another wife before marrying him. If you can't cope with some of your husband's bad attributes while in marriage, don't harm or kill him. The process of separation is very simple. Please leave the marriage instead. Marriage is not prison for anyone to be living a miserable life. That is my take 2 Likes |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Respect55(m): 8:41am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Toks2008:Ototo. It's not my fault if ur intuition is dead 2 Likes |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Toks2008(m): 8:43am On Jul 07, 2018 |
bobkezel: Lol! You no well.l 1 Like |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Toks2008(m): 8:45am On Jul 07, 2018 |
sisisioge: What about sounding?...the type our mum use to give us in the late 70s and early 80s Lol! |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by DMerciful(m): 9:50am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Everybody is saying no man should beat a woman under any circumstance. So who are those beating their women? Hypocrisy as always |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by sisisioge: 9:54am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Toks2008: You know my mom! She carried hers into the late 90s sef before God ministered to her |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by MicroSweet(m): 10:19am On Jul 07, 2018 |
It's HABIT not HABBIT 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Toks2008(m): 11:44am On Jul 07, 2018 |
DMerciful: Lol! Those who do it know it is wrong. |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by davillian(m): 11:47am On Jul 07, 2018 |
samir101ng:You right bro on every aspect but for someone like me. I don't know how to control my power be it male or female I strike with full venom and the damages can be very fatal . If I hit a woman with full venom she go faint and fit reach heaven from there . I try as much as I can not to get involve in a fight with a woman but the day I got pushed to the wall I smashed her head on the door until she fainted and after that I ended the relationship. Every man has a limit to what they can tolerate from a woman and once they reach that limit hell will be let loosed . |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by 912(m): 11:52am On Jul 07, 2018 |
zedman1: Interesting story. Now, I'm not saying some ladies are not evil. On the contrary, what I'm saying is that you don't have to turn into a beast and desend so low as to put your hands on a woman. Once you see that a relationship is toxic simply end it. Most guys will see clearly that a lady has a very nasty attitude and instead of ending it they will be trying to change the person. And the problem with trying to change someone is that most often than not you are the one that end up changing. Just like the story you gave, you clearly saw that she was toxic and unfaithful for a long time but you kept the relationship. My point is do not put yourself in such relationship because you will end up being frustrated and doing something you won't be proud of. Same thing goes for the ladies, once you notice that someone is exhibiting behaviours that are not healthy for you (mentally or physically) just leave before its too late and you turn into a punching bag. 1 Like |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Toks2008(m): 1:38pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
davillian:
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Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by zedman1(m): 2:45pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
912:Hehe, "and I kept it", sounds pretty easy. You're right bro, I've actually changed and I know it, but in cases of depression or suicide, most times we do not know what the victims are/were going through but the general reaction when such mishaps occur is to lebel the victims as being stupid. But then again, my playboy friend is in a relationship with his supposed 'main' girlfriend and he treats her like fowl poo. I look at this girl and in my mind I see how foolish she is for still hanging on to my friend. She has called severally to tell me its over between them, seeking my opinion but always, I contribute nothing. Who does'nt know my friend is a chronic cheat? Yet they both won't let go. She is his main sqeeze after all. See? Now that I'm out I think someone else a fool.They should'nt "keep it". Some of such relationships arent that easy to walk out from. Some persons are fortunate never to have gone through such so it's quite easy giving advice about it. I wish I could tell this girl to leave but I would'nt, never! She's foolish, hehe- see again? Though as guys I've told my friend to let go if he is'nt ready to step up and be a responsible chap for once. Lets hope she does'nt pull a trigger on him some day. Relationships come in different shades and a toxic one is'nt one anyone should wish for anyone.....one love 9one2. 1 Like |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Adamummya(f): 3:39pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Toks2008:what's that bikonu |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Toks2008(m): 5:08pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by 912(m): 9:59pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
zedman1: I get your point though. You seem to have quite a number of practical experiences 1 Like |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Nobody: 12:11am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Constantiney: As long as I didn't die when she hit me, she definitely won't die if she get hit. If you punch a man be ready to get punched If you slap a man be ready to get slapped If you insult a man be ready to get insulted. Who gives a fvck about Rhianna and Chris Brown? If you hit me I'm going to hit you in the same manner. Chris Brown was hit lightly instead of doing the same he hit heavily and even did more. You're just an overfed and sentimental waste.. C'mon get out from my mentions. What will I do with a reply from a nobody like you? |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Adamummya(f): 2:12pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Toks2008: a teen ? I'm not a teen plss |
Re: Once Is A Mistake,Twice Is A Habbit. by Toks2008(m): 4:17pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Adamummya: You dont mean it...then You are definitely below 25 cos you look so young and innocent. |
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