One reality of people like you esp. SAians is that you say it as it is. PURE.
However, size does not really matter. No matter how ''big'' it will always serve its purpose. Come to think of it; which size is as big as a baby's head?
The usage is of importance and if ''big'' the s^x position helps a great deal. But one thing I cant figure out is that shorter guls are more scared of sizes than taller ones.

XhosaNostra:


We "love" it in theory. I don't think anyone would want their cervix beat up on every time they have sex. It sounds painful. Mind you, we're talking length here, not girth.

Centimetres and inches? Just pick fucking one unit and stay with it. I can't imagine how tough physics must havr been for you