My Girl Friend & I , Are Of The Same Age , I Plan To Marry Her , Later On. Is That A Bad Idea , or Should I Go Ahead With My Plans. She Is Also Quite InTo It, But Atimes , She Feels A Bit Uncertain , But She Is Not Complaining Much. So What Do You Guys & Girls Have To Recommend , Pls Be Very Constructive. Thanks

The fact that you guys are of the same age is not a reason enough for her to be "a bit uncertain", my advice to you is that you guys search yourselves and find out if you have the potensials of being married
the love, the happiness, the undersatnding, the compartibility, the passion to be husband and wife because from where i'm standing it seems there are other factores here .

It seems there's something wrong somewhere, but i can assure you that "this wrong thing" has nothing to do with your age

A man gets married to a woman older than him and they live happily ever after not to mention couple of the same age, i don't agree to that

Both of you seem undecided and that's not a good start

thanks cute-ass for your reply, from my stand, i guess i know, what i want( which is her ) .she loves me , that i can say for sure, to the best of my knowledge, but most times, she feels that the age thing might not work, she sometimes wishes i were older by a yr, but i told her that what matters most is the love and not the age. gave her instances as u sighted above, but i don't want to be d one to decide for her, i want her to make that decision by herself( is that wise) which i believe will make her feel a lot better with the idea. Thanks

y NOT --U CAN GO ON & MARRY HER

@ nkc

You're damn right, its the love that matters not the age

She might want to know that atimes, opportunity comes but once , , what if she walks out on you and never finds love again??

What will it benefit her if she finds someone older than herself and she's incapable of loving him the way she loves you , it might then be too late for her to come back to you

But sweetheart, if her heart is not made up, i'll advice you not to marry her, and don't force her into it because a relationship where both partners are not sure will probably not last too long  ,  but do give her some time

If she's meant for you, not even she can stop it your "thing" will never pass you by

thanks, cute-ass and jay baby, i appreciate yur comments, as u said cute-ass, i won't force her, i will allow her to make up her mind, i pray she makes a positive one though.thanks one more time

You're very welcome.
I hope it works out for both of you cos you sound like a very understanding guy, and i hope she finds out how lucky she is before its too late .

I wish you all the luck in the world

Me and ma boyfriend are agemates too and he intends marrying me next year (AMEN), Im even older with a week and some days but dat dont mean a thing to me cos i give him soo much respect dat sometimes i forget we're agemates,

Its not about age but compactibility and understanding, trust and love, let dem decide for u sweety!

i personally can't marry someone the same age or 3 years older than me, i just feel that they wouldn't be as matured as i am, i prefer 5-10 years older than me, then i know they are more up to my standards and have the same opinions as me.

ima1:

i personally can't marry someone the same age or 3 years older than me, i just feel that they wouldn't be as matured as i am, i prefer 5-10 years older than me, then i know they are more up to my standards and have the same opinions as me.

Dearie, that might be quite dangerous. Plus, I have a nasty feeling that by the time you finally fall in love, youll throw the guy's age to the dogs.

@poster

I happen to know a couple (a pastor and his wife) where the wife is older than the man. And when they talk to you about courtship and dating and marriage, you'd think they invented it.

na wa o, that sound like such a fickle reason to be unsure if you want to marry the person you love. ur girl needs to stop looking for excuses, im sorry. I can testify to the fact that older doesnt necessarily mean wiser.