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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Elliot2(m): 8:52am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:bro, every guy wey don fall mugu for girl hand go tell u sey dem see d signs even though its subtle. Buh na love(lust) n sex dey cover their eyes. I no go lie u, dis particular girl give me sex wey blow ma mind,d girl good! and na de only tin she sabi. 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 9:01am On Apr 18, 2018 |
I feel your worry bro, its not insecurity as some girls will unjustly claim against you. I have the same issues too, though I didn't buy the fone. I told my woman maturely that I don't like her social media too much involvement cos she is on every platform chatting with her old male classmates and you know guys always wanna talk to women the way they won't want theirs talked to. I once saw some chats asking to see her ass again! she is not cheating, but she is enjoying the flirting and gossips going on on social media. e.t.c If you take the fone back, she will get another and from one of her chat pals and that's invite for nude pix exchange. if u tell her to stop, she could agree or refuse, if she refuse, know you don't have a bright future together cos she is the type that you can't control for good. MY ADVICE: Tell her what you want and see her response, the response will tell you what to do but don't take back the fone. MY CASE: My woman stays up to 12:45 am chatting and browsing, we lay after dinner and I sleep off as she continue glued to her fone. she don't miss a month without subscription, she is on auto renewal, I am not using any of the media cos its creating a gap between us, she won't stop or moderate her usage, her fone is pasworded but thats piece of cake for me to break,so my plan is a grand plan to make or mar. I have set a one year target of waiting...(I want it to complete a year since I begged to quit or minimise).In 3 months time I will act peacefully on the matter but outsmart her! Don't fight bro, just talk. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Donopsiano(m): 9:02am On Apr 18, 2018 |
tracking ur partner's social media activities involves two things, either you want him dead by commiting suicide or he runs mad via psycological depression marketer100: 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Elliot2(m): 9:03am On Apr 18, 2018 |
OvaSabi1:So buying her a phone is not a mutual love? what is love if not every action that one does to make the other better n happy? I only pity guys who spend on women; i learnt in the painful way! truth is,guys don't understand that there is nothing u will give to a girl that another nigga can not give her; but that other nigga may not have the same intention of love u have for her which is beyond the gifts,so it is does not make sense to allow emotions of love drive u to invest in a girl who will not appreciate ur intentions,but judge u by the momentary value of ur sacrifice. There is no excuse on her part as to why a device he bought for her in good will will consume more of her time than what she spends on the relationship! That is cheating,and it just a matter of time before she does it with other guys and that is if she hasn't started already. |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Emily22(m): 9:05am On Apr 18, 2018 |
dejisilva: Pm me |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 9:12am On Apr 18, 2018 |
OvaSabi1:I beg your pardon lady. How did you process what you wrote? If I invest in anything bebit time, money, or otherwise, I have every right to be insecure and watchful of how events unfold especially where expectations differ from actual outcome. That's a basic and universal principle of investment. How I spend my hard earned money or limited time and drastic emotions is a concern of uthmost importance. Easy for you to say because you probably get freebies. Maybe when you start working you'd understand. Try again. 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by bholuwatifhe(m): 9:15am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Victorakats:I concur Wit Yu 100% 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 9:22am On Apr 18, 2018 |
LIFEisSIMPLE:the attention she's now getting is new to her. she will see better richer guys, of course all professing fake love but she will be carried away and you will become small in her eyes. it's the sad truth. every growing girl passes this phase. unfortunately the man with her at that time suffers. it's the one who come after that usually enjoys cos by then she would have learn the vanity of all those things or she would have grown bored or realised that most of what she hears or sees from guys on sm is fake. she would def have made mistakes, been used, treated like garbage and much more. most girls experience this. so for now u will suffer emotional turmoil. just be strong ehn. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 9:22am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Even most of the ladies here are surprised... Na wah o Bro u Bleep up 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by lifestye: 9:40am On Apr 18, 2018 |
LIFEisSIMPLE:you dont need to worry, just track her activities on the phone, read this http://www.damibiz.com/2018/04/how-to-track-if-your-spouse-is-cheating.html?m=1 |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Oreofepeters: 9:41am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Elliot2:There are girls like that, I can relate they are only good at sex. In my own case she wan spoil me with sex, atimes she go come 3times during the week for sex. One day I just sit down think, why' she cum like sex like this?. I wasn't just comfortable, knowing fully we are not legally married. But still my heart filled with doubts, after sometimes I let go of the limp in my heart. I planned to settle down with her. Na later I cum discover no be only me dey bang her. Her bangers full streets, only that my own joystick tastes different. Bro since then girls just tire me. 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by clemmonce(m): 10:11am On Apr 18, 2018 |
LIFEisSIMPLE:you suffering from insecurity. if you continue like this you will eventually lose her. Work on your insecurity, read books on it, it helps not only in relationship but in all areas of life. Give her space, let her meet people, have fun... she meeting people doesnt mean she will leave you... NO.. Work on yourself bro |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Barzinime(m): 10:13am On Apr 18, 2018 |
And Mark Zuck. is dealing with his own problems now.....I wanted to call him about what to do about your problem LIFEisSIMPLE: |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Barzinime(m): 10:16am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Lol....Which one is security and Insecurity issue again ra4fo: |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Elliot2(m): 10:18am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:na same tin happen to me. Na when the bobo call me for phone dey warn me sey make i leave him babe. dem plenty wey dey bang her. |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Elliot2(m): 10:21am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:na same tin happen to me. Na when the bobo call me for phone dey warn me sey make i leave him babe. dem plenty wey dey bang her. Niggas gat learn sey plenty girls wey dem dey take as gfs na oloshos in gf attire. So he better u go for d confirmed oloshos n spend less,cos if na sickness u dey avoid,just know sey no one dey safe including d oloshos in gf attires. just ask any potential gf to run health test,plenty go rather run. |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by ebby9z(m): 10:22am On Apr 18, 2018 |
prince3009:I swear, Bro. The way guys act around girls sometimes baffles me. You see rich handsome guys demeaning themselves before trashy girls and those ones will be using them to score points. I don't understand how guys have such low esteem |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Smartii(m): 10:23am On Apr 18, 2018 |
People are investing in their future, career, you're investing in a woman that can leave you anytime, better invest in your family instead if you are confused on what to spend your money on. |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by ebby9z(m): 10:26am On Apr 18, 2018 |
No matter how much I claim I like a babe, I always control how I spend for them. Honestly as a guy, when you love a girl you'd want to buy things for them. That's natural, but you have to check it. Only give them things that you won't regret giving, things you could give any other person. Especially when you're dating a girl between 20-25. They usually have a lot of 'toasters' in that period because it's their prime. They have toasters from young people to old men who lie to them to have a taste of their fresh toto. And they usually fritter from one person to another believing it's a better deal. This is why they grow up to become bitter unmarried feminists online. |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Assassin101: 10:34am On Apr 18, 2018 |
social media;......ruining relationships since 1900 |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:00am On Apr 18, 2018 |
OhiOfIhima: The guy is a learner in the game |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by vickylincon(m): 11:04am On Apr 18, 2018 |
blackpanthar:wao. Nice one. How do you invest in your mind |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Bryan88(m): 11:09am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GUY GO COLLECT YOUR PHONE BACK 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by centboy123456(m): 11:24am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by lilyheaven: 12:11pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
SAMAYODELE:Amen |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by DONADAMS(m): 12:51pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Victorakats:lol..same here bro..I just shook my head and smiled now...I had even forgotten I got the fone for her..and na the same fone she use in cheating on me with the same Fbk I opened for her..chai..life is unfair sha..and girls wicked sha... I'm counting my loss and trying to move on tho 1 Like |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by DONADAMS(m): 12:55pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Emily22:lol...my own na Fbk oh...I couldn't believe my eyes..chai..as innocent as she looked...she no be olosho sha..buh things I saw made me almost cry |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 1:18pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Same here with me.facebook did not only destroy my relationship but also my life |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Emily22(m): 1:42pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
DONADAMS: |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by TSingerr(m): 4:01pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
OvaSabi1: But when a guy doesn't buy his babe stuff, you girls will come on Nairaland and ask people to define stingy and ask why Nigerian guys are stingy. Confused bunch |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by koffsman(m): 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
b0rn2fuck:Na so bro 7 years no be moimoi I don't even wanna go into details but it's well |
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by koffsman(m): 4:15pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
lilyheaven: I wish I can I don't have the strength to go through anoda relationship her parent are trying to settle it but right now my focus is getting anoda job asap Bcuz av been out of job for 7 to 8 months so focus is else where 1 Like |
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