Truckpusher:
Exactly!!

Whenever a relationship goes sour people tend to paint the other party black while exonerating themselves of any wrongdoing.

For any relationship to breakdown, both parties contributed immensely towards it either by their actions[b] or inactions .
Anyone making any finite statement about the man involved seriously need to see a psychiatric Dokinta. Except you've been fuccked and dumped for a better puccy.

Truckpusher:
Justice on your touch screen phone??

You really need an e-slap from me.

Chubhie:

I don't expect to see you around here anymore.

sisisioge:

[/b]
Be quiet! That's not what I was explaining there.

sisisioge:


Alaileko omo!

sisisioge:


Omg! You surely can't be lying too

Truckpusher:
Ordinary quote ,you can't even quote correctly.

Mumu girl.

sisisioge:


Don't even try throwing shades that way babe. The story is enough to make anyone skeptical especially when the object of discussion is not available to defend himself. Trust me, if any of your exes come here to open cans of worms on you and you aren't here to speak for yourself, everyone on here will stand up for based on our different perceptions of your character.

Meanwhile, all these new new monikers still haven't completely convinced me. The corroboration of the old known are the ones doing the trick.

shaybebaby:

What I find alarming at your tone is your concern for the man and none at the possibility that if it indeed true, there are three little children out there who are suffering.

Where is your concern for them, to atleast make sure they are okay?

Are you part of the "cover his unclothedness crew"?

Anabell2:
Still in doubt?

Hilda Baingana has deleted her Go Fund me Profile and post

which means Siena is aware of this thread

https://www.gofundme.com/profile/hilda-baingana-pqsk6

oyb:


https://www.nairaland.com/713292/ever-vehicle-stolen-broken-into/1#8721825

Anabell2:
Still in doubt?

Hilda Baingana has deleted her Go Fund me Profile and post

which means Siena is aware of this thread

https://www.gofundme.com/profile/hilda-baingana-pqsk6

UjuJoan2:


It's quite difficult to believe that the world is this twisted. You needed to have known this couple back then to understand where Efemena is coming from. I would have doubted this story myself too if I don't already have a chronic distrust for people generally (I was made this way )

As far as I'm concerned, anything is possible . . .

Besides I think this scandal is one too many for just one person. Is he the ONLY married man on Nairaland.

shaybebaby:

It's not shade but the truth. Please let's not turn a blind eye to the possibility that people are being abused because there are children involved. And there are facts that have nothing to do with his character which are verifiable.

1) He does have three children.
2)He is no longer with his Mrs.

Those two aren't crimes, people with kids go their separate ways all the time. Or have you seen me castigate his alleged actions as an individual as opposed to addressing the allegations that have negative consequences for the innocent children AND proffer possible solutions?

How does your stance or hers help in anyway?
There are two possibilities,
1) His kids are okay and being looked after and he is not siphoning money meant for their upkeep. That this thread is all hogwash. If that is the case, great! They are fine,apologies can be tendered.
2)The allegations are true and the children and mother are in dire straights but you peeps said "he is not here to defend himself", so do nothing.

Where kids are involved, I choose err on their side and be concerned until shown there is no threat to their wellbeing.

UjuJoan2:


It's quite difficult to believe that the world is this twisted. You needed to have known this couple back then to understand where Efemena is coming from. I would have doubted this story myself too if I don't already have a chronic distrust for people generally (I was made this way )

As far as I'm concerned, anything is possible . . .

Besides I think this scandal is one too many for just one person. Is he the ONLY married man on Nairaland.

sisisioge:


Hmmm...there are twelve people in a jury stand. Jury 1 here is convinced total. The rest of the jury members are still being convinced. Permit them biko.

Yes, there are kids there. One person said she's hoarding them from their father. Another said he's hoarding himself from her and the kids. Who do we believe? In fact, how does our believe or otherwise help the children? Neither of the primary peeps have said anything for or against the matter. It is well. May God Himself settle this.

Biko let us pray

shaybebaby:

You don't understand that you cannot keep kids away from their father in this country. He has access to the full protection of the state for this to be untrue. She doesn't.

It makes sense, he is the brit so he would be the one to claim any form of support from the government if he is on a low income, not her. If she is illegal which no one has disputed, she does not have access.

My own is even if he likes, he should live in Greece with his new squeeze, ko kan aye. But no chop the pikin money na. He has a financial responsibility by law to them, and even if he is not paying child maintenance, you wan chop the money wey mama Charlie dey give them join?

And for the wife, after over 10 years and squeezing out three kids, let her get her red P (she has earned it) so she too can hustle and keep the kids.

After that, who gives a flying fvck about the decisions he makes with his life?

My sister, where pikin dey involved, one doesn't think "what if it isn't true", it's "what if it's true".

sisisioge:


Hmmm...there are twelve people in a jury stand. Jury 1 here is convinced total. The rest of the jury members are still being convinced. Permit them biko.

Yes, there are kids there. One person said she's hoarding them from their father. Another said he's hoarding himself from her and the kids. Who do we believe? In fact, how does our believe or otherwise help the children? Neither of the primary peeps have said anything for or against the matter. It is well. May God Himself settle this.

Biko let us pray

UjuJoan2:


Don't forget to also pray for the guy's finances. Poverty is a disease mbok

sisisioge:


Omo Igbo liking money since time immemorial . Let there be peace first biko.

EfemenaXY:


The link to that go-fund page doesn’t prove anything. That page was created a month ago by someone claiming to be his fiancée. Anyone can create a page and claim to be anything they chose.

This looks like some cheap ploy to smear his name.

That aside, how does any of this help his family and kids??

Keepingitreal:


This is the thread to what the so called Siena posted on gofundme. That’s the screen shot of the lady that reported the account

Dyt:


The internet never forgets
The one who reported must have had a shady thing with him too

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2104966/Vicar-55-raked-30-000-conducting-250-sham-marriages-helped-illegal-immigrants-stay-country.html

wonlasewonimi:


How is this related?

Dyt:





Both definitely had something you might be interested in

This is really going nice

Shrugs

sisisioge:




You just no well. That one is Wosilat Ladipo, this one is Abolore Ladipo.

Dyt:





Both definitely had something you might be interested in

This is really going nice

Shrugs

wonlasewonimi:


Have you been taking codeine too

Dyt:


Yimu
Same person
Same story




But if she doesn't know Siena well
She wouldn't have reported that page
She even wrote about how he treated his wife

This is getting interesting