kunleweb:



An autonomous soul is self destructive no doubt, however the law shapes the practitioner to become lawful by nature not requiring observance of the law as maturation builds up.Constant need of the law is for an un-improving soul.

Hanseel1:


exactly what I said...

99% of the women who believe they aren't equal to their husbands are women who're heavily dependent on their husbands.

Madam you better step up.

You were born from a pussy, a man is also born from the pussy
stop deceiving yourself...

laudate:

Go back and read what you wrote in your previous post, and you would see that chauvinism is the word that best describes the traits you mentioned, in men. I was just trying to help you out.

Hanseel1:


exactly what I said...

99% of the women who believe they aren't equal to their husbands are women who're heavily dependent on their husbands.

Madam you better step up.

You were born from a pussy, a man is also born from the pussy
stop deceiving yourself...

princfred:
Madam no mind them . Man senior woman, spend money marry her, house woman, feed her, cloth her etc then she open mouth dey claim equality with me. Infact the converse of what they are saying is the truth. Na men who depend on the woman for any of the above that claim she is equal with them.

princfred:
When it comes to marriage, there cant be two captains in a ship. One must head the other.

princfred:

Its also about living by the book even as the bible wrote it. Here we are telling the exact reasons why many men abandon their wifes and so much baby mama and instead of learning whats the men are sayin is or will likely drive them to this thing you are more inclined to running around it. Even with imaginary scenarios which are more of remote exceptions than the norm. No man is interested in right dragging or equalization with wife. That's not what he married for. The neck is below the head and anyday it tries to be equal with it, there will be problem.

kunleweb:



An autonomous soul is self destructive no doubt, however the law shapes the practitioner to become lawful by nature not requiring observance of the law as maturation builds up.Constant need of the law is for an un-improving soul.

Hanseel1:


exactly what I said...

99% of the women who believe they aren't equal to their husbands are women who're heavily dependent on their husbands.

Madam you better step up.

You were born from a pussy, a man is also born from the pussy
stop deceiving yourself...

Deejaygold:
It's better to remain a single mother then to stay with a murderer

chillychill:





OK. I hope n pray u marry a feminist (dats if ure a man behind dat monicker) den Ull love your 50-50 marriage

princfred:
Madam no mind them . Man senior woman, spend money marry her, house woman, feed her, cloth her etc then she open mouth dey claim equality with me. Infact the converse of what they are saying is the truth. Na men who depend on the woman for any of the above that claim she is equal with them. Their cant be two captains in a ship.

Hanseel1:



It should end here so that it won't generate into another thing..

chillychill:



Lol most of em don't know what live is all about

princfred:
Also, there are concept beyond acute implementation of the law required for a great life which they dont teach lawyers. Such concepts as grace, love, forgiveness are mot captured within the limits of laws hence introduced in the second testament for better human experience etc.

ImaIma1:


I do not use imaginary or remote scenarios. Just plain real life. And my issue is with men using submission as an excuse to bully their wives.
While demanding respect, she needs to be loved and treated right.

Besides, how do i learn from guys here...guys who always label "Nigerian girls" trash and can't see past a lady's boobs or backside.

princfred:
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I asked before how many percentage of women pay groom price, house, feed and cloth the man that makes such cases not to be remote? . I dont not subscribe to men bullying their wives.

LivingFree:


I don't accept bride price and I can fund myself so am I exempt from your rule? Or do I have to fund him (an adult) to be exempt from your rule

princfred:
Your case is an exception, a remote case as i said earlier, not the norm as a 1000 to 1 woman accepts and demands pride price. And even at that, are you also willing to house, feed and cloth a man as the thousands of men do so as to clain/"earn" captainship?

Water101:
Some of the ladies keep the father of their child in the dark because they don't love the dad and prefer to raise the child alone.They don't want to be under any man,they love their freedom.so many more reason but i choose to pen this down.

LivingFree:


Lol! So I am not exempt until I feed and clothe a grown man? Even if no man has ever fed or clothed me

There's no winning in your logic.

madridguy:
1. The society need restructuring

2. Ladies should stop thinking they could tie guys down with pregnancy

3. POVERTY: To me this is the leading factor. A guy at 35 years of age will still be running from responsibility, not that he's not willing to have a family of his own but Nigeria situation is not helping matter. The female counterpart at that age may not have other option than to be looking for donor ( Baby father ) when she observes time is going.

Brb

justtoodark:


you are talking nonesense,its all over the world the same situation....

the traditional marriage thing is breaking down worldwide....

its not even about money sef....

princfred:
Of course, if you want to earn being a captain then why not be ready to fulfill the obligations if one to earn it while expecting men to fulfil such obligation because men dont wait to be first clothed or fed by women before undertaking such roles. I should even tell you neither should other women who aspire to be captain be told. Just go ahead cuz that's exactly what men undertake to do subconsciously if its by earning it.

LivingFree:


You make no sense... you move the goal post to suit your argument so you win... I wish you a pleasant day

princfred:

I asked before how many percentage of women pay groom price, house, feed and cloth the man that makes cases you used not to be remote?. I dont not subscribe to men bullying their wives. Am only saying two captains cant run a ship and captains dont get swapped in marriage. If you doubt, tell a man or even give him attitude that you are now equal as head with him and see how that goes.

ImaIma1:


In a lot of cases,both husband and wife contribute to the wedding. They split the expenses.

A man's place as the head is not negotiable; even the Bible states it.

A marriage where the husband always wants to lord over his wife and shut her uo or down everytime is not a healthy one

princfred:
How? You said love and respect and captainship should be by earning this or that, I said it should be solely by earning. You insisted . So i gave you what it takes to earn it which men naturally undertake (which they may be successful at or not) and said if you want it based on earning then you should also undertake those functions. Also, how will you feel if while you are at it, your man makes it clear he only respects you based in your ability to successfully achieve those functions? Also what if you lose your ability to cater for even yourself will it be ok then for your husband to no more respect you as he will be feeding you and paying your rents? Since love and respect must be earned based in your law. Thats why i told you such empirical human laws are not capable of leading to a sustainable human relationship. Now you make me feel bad cuz i don't like when a lady makes me feel like am "oppressing" her into submission. The aim is not for one person to win. Its for us to understand better and so win together.

LivingFree:


Mate! know who you are quoting and who quoted you saying what... I never said any of those things. It's like having a conversation with a mad man! You are mixing me up with ladyhip... something. You have put all our opinions together. Have an amazing day, I'm done trying to chat to you.