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Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Pavore9: 5:21pm On May 03, 2018 |
LivingFree: Yes I agree with you that a good number of women who are economically empowered prefer single motherhood as against dealing with the stress of a non-working relationship. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 03, 2018 |
lalasticlala this is an educative post. kindly move to FP |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Adamummya(f): 11:12pm On May 03, 2018 |
edoman2016: and who told you all those trash you said there ? how many single mothers have you come in contact with..? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by lilyheaven: 11:14pm On May 03, 2018 |
Run away and sleep under a tree, caught me edoman2016: |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by bigpicture001: 11:14pm On May 03, 2018 |
for.me,i am ripe for marriage, but not yet married cuz I gat no job yet.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:15pm On May 03, 2018 |
edoman2016:Let us hear word are the men themselves ready to love their wives.Why the blame game so men do not contribute to the divorce rate abi? because na only women marry And it is only women that make a marriage work or is it only feminist that divorce?Coming with baseless statistics that majority of our single mothers are feminist. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by erico2k2(m): 11:15pm On May 03, 2018 |
airmirthd1:I realy do not think marriage has anything to do with a woman being a single mother. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Hotzone(m): 11:15pm On May 03, 2018 |
Because our ladies mother(murder) their husbands maka ego! |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 11:17pm On May 03, 2018 |
1. Feminism! They don't want to be submissive to their husbands again. They want to have equal right with their husbands. Our African culture of submissiveness and respect to one's husband is now archaic to them. 2. Laziness, Greediness and Covectiousness They don't want to work for their riches, they want to go after anything that can give them money and they keep ending up with the wrong person in the process. Before you know it, the relationship is over and they become Single mother. They don't even call it single mother again, they've modernised it to Baba Mama. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by chillychill(f): 11:18pm On May 03, 2018 |
edoman2016: You just said my mind... U'll see dem arguing with you now cos dey it's d true. Y would a female think she has equal rights with her husband 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by NeekeyMarvey(m): 11:18pm On May 03, 2018 |
airmirthd1: This is not about marriage dear. Most of the single mothers you come across were not even married in the first place. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by OhiOfIhima: 11:21pm On May 03, 2018 |
Many ladies out dere now, wat dey think is bear a child n dey don't want to knw wat d outcome will be... Most of dis guys who shld perform a fathering role aren't close to ready. After all, d reality will now surface. Initially, lust have crave their so calling love forget dat d outcome is not a child play. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:21pm On May 03, 2018 |
chillychill:Maybe because she is a human being and has constitutional rights.Mind you not every relationship is stereotypically defined some people do practice egalitarian relationships.Neyoor the quote applies to you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Laysmt001(m): 11:23pm On May 03, 2018 |
Pavore9:Feminism wants women to have the right to be whatever they chose. It wants women to have power over their own lives and bodies. It wants women not to feel lucky for being given and allowed things they are entitled to in the first place. Feminism wants women not to have to censor their dreams or fine tune their ambitions so as not to be criticized or maligned. In pidgin, Feminism jus wan make woman sef dey fit chuk mouth and hand too. Make dem sef no send. Back to the thread, Feminism is not actually the problem. Feminism doesn't have problem, feminists are. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by mathinips(m): 11:25pm On May 03, 2018 |
Because the mum and dad we have now are
Shisha mum and dad
Clubbing mum and dad
Science student mum and dad 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by ShenTeh(m): 11:26pm On May 03, 2018 |
I. Have you taken note that the girls are mostly better employed. I live in Lagos and work on VI, most brand new cars are driven by ladies. With this financial emancipation comes the courage to choose between having a dependent baby or having a semi-dependent husband. 2. The allure of sex without responsibility. 3. I know a bank, where a lot of its unmarried very senior female staff are single mothers. Smart women don't loss on all sides. They have a good career but a bad biological time. They acknowledge they don't have the time before menopause kicks in and so while still 'believing God' for the knight in shining armour, they help themselves to a pregnancy or two 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by ipobarecriminals: 11:26pm On May 03, 2018 |
single moda thread again. Why dey nor go be single moda when they'll not listen to their parents. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ormorlehwah(f): 11:28pm On May 03, 2018 |
Our men are irresponsible and the women are not ready to endure in thick and thin. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by laudate: 11:28pm On May 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Erm... I believe you wanted to say that most men are chauvinistic? |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Nobody: 11:32pm On May 03, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Lol! Just one out of ten egalitarian relationships work out. I really do not like to debate this issue. Wait, does feminism contradict with African morals and traditions or not? |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by MMotimo: 11:33pm On May 03, 2018 |
Because more women are desperate enough to try to tie a man down with pregnancy. Fewer men are succumbing to that trick Because women are no longer pro active with contraception, gullible in the belief that it is "our pregnancy" when the guy does not have an agreement with you. It's your body, your future, your life that are more impacted than his . Why do skin to skin when he has not put a ring on it? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by felaismyhero(m): 11:34pm On May 03, 2018 |
edoman2016:ceriously?!,feminism! nah nah nah,nigerian aint reach dat level yet.thanks to religion,most gals think its normal to be submissive.a lot of gals sef wud tell u chimamanda adichie is not normal or ask if she is the boss in her home? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:37pm On May 03, 2018 |
Neyoor:Where did you get such statistics?(your first statement)Well I am liberal and progressive in ideology so I won't pretend to form African.I am African by race does not mean I behave like an African in person and I can never support or be a part of any African tradition that treats women like second class citizens.So I am grateful to the people who brought in the idea of democracy,liberalism and the age of enlightenment. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Plusstreet(m): 11:38pm On May 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Spotted. God did not see the meeting point while making the arrangement for a peaceful home.Na una go tire. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by infogenius(m): 11:38pm On May 03, 2018 |
Provabz:Simply because we have a lot of irresponsible randy men in our society 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Adesolomon2014(m): 11:39pm On May 03, 2018 |
Provabz: Premarital sex and Ignorance of some gals/ladies. Even me sef get baby mama. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by CanadianEnginee(m): 11:39pm On May 03, 2018 |
airmirthd1: Because you aren't married. |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by Respect55(m): 11:40pm On May 03, 2018 |
TSOM:What does it mean to be gamophobic |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by CanadianEnginee(m): 11:42pm On May 03, 2018 |
HUVKV 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by CanadianEnginee(m): 11:45pm On May 03, 2018 |
Sex have become so easy to get. Our girls needs to be advised to respect their bodies. Men would want it, you shouldn't always give it because you are intellectually lazy to make money with your brain. Most girls offer sexually services as their part time work. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Have A Lot Of Single Mothers? by felaismyhero(m): 11:45pm On May 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1:wow,you really are realistic nd sensible.let me add to wat u typed.i think a man must show himself worthy of respect;its a useless man dat wud be telling his wife 'why dont u respect me'.our fathers in d past married as many women as they desired and they still got them all to respect them! thats being a man. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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