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Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by reversedrolez: 2:18pm On May 03, 2018
wizod:
i had a similar case, i found out dat she refused to change after series of warnings and i made her my intimacy gadget though without her notice even till date. One day she wil see me wedding card, why not do likewise.
and she will swear for you...been down that road before..Does not end well..Why not just call it quits with her?

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Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by IFNOTGOD(m): 2:29pm On May 03, 2018
Temysteve:
hmmm, well i got your point and i guess you mis-understood me. #POC am not a 'Relationship Expert' am just talking based on my experience.
I never said degrading a guy like me is the best way to win a girl heart and i dnt think i av ever done that.
What made the lady to go back to the ex was never disclose, but according to the 'OP' the lady was unfaithful. The guy also may be faulty or guity towards the unbalance relationship in one way or the other but the fact is ladies of nowadays can't be trusted.

Now u are talking, ladies cant be trusted, one has to sleep with one eye close n d other open. cause i have seen a lot from the very few girls i dated even as we speak i dont think dating a girl is part of my agenda.

i have come to d stage i admire dem but want nothing to do wit dem, before na serious love, bed n many more but now admire u but stay at d door no enter, even bed sef no follow again cos i learnt d very hard way.

i dont hate ladies but if she no get any thing tangible to offer apart from wetyn dey inbetween her legs make she fly.

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Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Confidant010(m): 3:57pm On May 03, 2018
Thank you all for your advice. I can boldly tell you that I extracted sense from ur different comments. She has even invited me over to come n know her parents, she will ever regret messing up with my feelings.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by lilyheaven: 8:15pm On May 03, 2018
Abang52:


I don't know who you're but let me tell you this lilyheaven
Yours will be more of a disaster
Your husband will never regard you as a human being
You will never have peace in your marriage
You will seek help and find none
Upon my mothers grave i inscribe this words
Mark them
You are a bad person, fault finder.
You first called some one mumu and pig.
Now you are crying on your mama that died long ago.
She is gone forever, my dear baby boy.
You are here on earth to fight your battle.
As I told you earlier, don't rush things of this earth, if you most make a good decision. You can keep spewing rubbish from your mouth.
My destiny' is not tied to anybody, learn how to respect people both young and old. It will help you in life.
I want to believe you are not this bad in real life.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by ebby9z(m): 9:08pm On May 03, 2018
reversedrolez:

Seconded bro... You got his book social intelligence and his talks about neural wi-fi?
I haven't read social intelligence. Haven't seen it around despite my repeated search. I've heard of neutral WiFi though. That sounds...intriguing
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by PasD(m): 10:19pm On May 03, 2018
I just left that place today brother and am devastated beyond repair. @OP.

It's well cos your story is just same as mine.

she will cry and beg u cos she really wants to be a part of your life and vision.

but just move brother... in time you will heal.

after u break up with her she will show u her tru color as a whor*e don't look back

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Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Reeberry: 12:12am On May 04, 2018
barallanee:
Ask khloe and tristan thompson
Do you watch basketball?
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by GrammarNazi1(m): 2:57am On May 10, 2018
mikaelangelov:
My nigga, please make sure you bang her TDB, then bang her again in the morn, by 12 noon and lastly by 4pm....

just escort her to her house and just tell her that due to her infidelity...its over between you guys
...it's...
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by pawpzman: 10:43pm On Aug 11, 2018
Wonders shall never end
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by hkidola00(m): 11:19pm On Aug 11, 2018
kadreeG7:
jst happened to me of recent.
my ex called me 1 day dat she wants to confess to me say someone had sex with her and her conscience is disturbing her cox she never do such with oda man b4.
u know wetin i do? I invited her ova bleep her... after dat i told her i can't continue with the relationship again.
u also shd decide
wao kadree, mine is similar, only that I've broken up, but she is still very much apologizing,she had a romance and a relationship with her cousin which I caught her through call recorder trap..... she once did one similar stuff, I forgave her, but this one is an upper blow, she still dey apologize and I'm confused too
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by paulpery: 1:01am On Aug 12, 2018
Is she your legal wife have you paid her Pride price.? Why worry your self.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:59pm On Aug 13, 2018
After God, fear ex grin
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:04pm On Aug 13, 2018
The Ex factorcheesy..

Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by phexx: 7:50pm On Aug 13, 2018
ekems2017:
Well it's not easy to quit a relationship without issues. That's what is happening to your girl. She loves the other guy more than you and I won't call him her Ex cos you are the one that wants to separate them cos you love her. The truth is that she will continue to cheat on you with him even when you marry her. Not because she wants to do it because she can't let go cos of what they share.
Let her go cos her heart is with another person.

It's a pity!!!

Indeed a pity

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Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by BemyG(m): 3:02pm On Jul 19, 2019
Insecurity in relationship is one thing one have to be very careful. If you don't trust her now is the time to quit. Not when you will be counting years. The earlier the better.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by elmagnifico411(m): 3:20pm On Jul 19, 2019
Just reading this... oga OP, so your fiancé told u that she called it quit with her ex then decided to go with your own flow? Who on earth would believe that?? Bros, do qweeek, use your tongue count your teeth, that babe no be your fiancé oh.. she belongs to the supposed ex. Make e no be sey she don dey collect money from u give the guy sef.. don’t be a mugu!
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Nature8(m): 1:13pm On Sep 27, 2019
Confidant010:
I met my fiancee for 6months now and when I approached her she told me that she was in a relationship then, after telling her my intention she decided to quit with her ex and be my own.

I later found out that she went back and Bleep with her ex again. When I found this out through the picture her ex posted in his timeline, she then admitted that she did it because she didn't know I was serious about the relationship and promised never to do it again. I pardoned her and ceased her connection with him by buying her new lines, except her glo line, which is linked to her account though she knew his number off head.

On Saturday she told me that she wants to go and see her parents, when I called her line throughout this afternoon it wasn't going through, when I finally got her online she told me that she just decided to switch off her phone, and the way she sounded, my instinct told me that she was with another man n I saw a text message by another man asking her when she's coming home.

Pls friends what should I do because I love her and she claims to love me too and I have already introduced her to my people and they all like her.

Pls your noble advice is of utmost importance nw, thanks.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Starz825(m): 4:08pm On Sep 27, 2019
See i realize ppl make mistake alot...
When u are not married to a lady... don't claim to love her yet....the level u are now is what i call pre-love level....i.e premarital level... where ur guy/lady is called fiancee/fiance....at this level you don't use the word love ...u rather use admiration or like.. because at this level u abt Knowing who they are... whether such person can fit in to be called ur love.....esp if u want to marry them...

You don't claim to love someone except u are satisfied with their strengths and weaknesses i.e their good and bad side....


That's why u see pple cut off their relationship with their fiancee even when their invitation cards are out...maybe they found out they aren't worth it...which is something I can also do...

Be happy that she acting like this..now...
It's left to you to use your wisdom now... whether u are satisfied with her not being straight forward or u are satisfied with her cheating with her ex...ask urself...

If u decide to give her sometime...still good no one is perfect ...but if u realize she is still doing shit...excommunicate yourself from her she's not serious about you...

All things being equal..Don't ever claim to love anyone except u are satisfied with their strengths and weaknesses....
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by ericangel01(m): 11:44am On Sep 13, 2020
Ugogabriel:
Do more research on her and if u find out she is not trust worthy, then you have to quit her without telling her. Just get a new gal and call it a quit with her
no need for more research she's a cheat, dump her before she'd dump you
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by KingLion007(m): 11:53pm On Mar 09, 2021
Trust no girl..Simple
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Judybash93(m): 3:43pm On May 02, 2021
Six months fiancee? grin grin it's easier for you to abandon ship now.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:07pm On Dec 30, 2021
Why some guys dey ask stupid question like this now. I use to say something some men need mental check up. When you know what to do you are still asking after you guy will come here and be talking of infidelity na wow for men o. Is like you guy treat bad girls well and the good one is the one you do anyhow with. I don't know what men even want self I swear una matter tired person self.
Confidant010:
I met my fiancee for 6months now and when I approached her she told me that she was in a relationship then, after telling her my intention she decided to quit with her ex and be my own.

I later found out that she went back and Bleep with her ex again. When I found this out through the picture her ex posted in his timeline, she then admitted that she did it because she didn't know I was serious about the relationship and promised never to do it again. I pardoned her and ceased her connection with him by buying her new lines, except her glo line, which is linked to her account though she knew his number off head.

On Saturday she told me that she wants to go and see her parents, when I called her line throughout this afternoon it wasn't going through, when I finally got her online she told me that she just decided to switch off her phone, and the way she sounded, my instinct told me that she was with another man n I saw a text message by another man asking her when she's coming home.

Pls friends what should I do because I love her and she claims to love me too and I have already introduced her to my people and they all like her.

Pls your noble advice is of utmost importance nw, thanks.
Re: My Fiancee Is Not Trustworthy, She Had Sex With Her Ex Boyfriend by finishmatter: 3:44pm On Dec 30, 2021
Work on yourself, find out what makes you happy, and then you can decide if you want to put up with someone else who is dedicated to making your life a living hell.

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