ubunja:
marriage is another bad deal for men.

Elder001:


I'm telling you... don't kill yourself with burden because of ego..

women in civilized countries share bills and still submit to their husbands it's only in Nigeria that women equate sharing of bills to being unsubmissive.

adontcare:
it is only a black man mentality to carry all d burden all in d name of ' I don't want my wife to have money more than me' ish. When you and ur woman work, it ease d burden from u. Instead of fighting ur wife from working or trading, y not support her. Head of d family?

Elder001:


I'm telling you... don't kill yourself with burden because of ego..

women in civilized countries share bills and still submit to their husbands it's only in Nigeria that women equate sharing of bills to being unsubmissive.

ubunja:
marriage is another bad deal for men.

Saff:
then don’t get married. Is any body forcing you?

UDUJ:
Truer words have never been said bro.

The trials we go through as men

Some of us spend over 70% of our income taken care of others, sometimes you ask yourself if you are working for them or yourself.

It's a Rat Race bro, Rat Race

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TRUE STUFF.

TonyeBarcanista:
It is wise to setup a trade for your wife or fix her up to support the family but not takeover the primary responsibility of the family. A virtuous wife gives supporting hand no matter how little.

Headlesschicken:
Makes u grow older than yuh age.... While yuh woman would be looking like yuh daughter...

tunjilana:
It is wise for a woman to work on herself and be productive prior seeking a man to marry. It is also wise for fathers to understand that their daughters will need to make financial contributions when they get married, thus they should educate them, guide/help them towards gainful employment or setup meaningful businesses for them prior marriage. It is not the responsibility of a man to setup a business for a woman in the name of marriage. Except she is coming from a bad place in life or she does not have reliable parents. Stop inheriting other mens' liabilities in the name of marriage. If a man has raised his daughter to be dependent on a man, leave him to enjoy what he has raised till old age. So emancipated men can use him as an example of how not to raise the girl child

ubunja:

no one forced you to read my comment. take your own advice.

Saff:
it’s a forum, your stupid comments will be responded to. Get with it.

ubunja:
funny how you forgot that when you first texted me.

tunjilana:
Why do you think men die before women in most marriages

UDUJ:
Truer words have never been said bro.

The trials we go through as men

Some of us spend over 70% of our income taken care of others, sometimes you ask yourself if you are working for them or yourself.

It's a Rat Race bro, Rat Race

Elder001:


I'm telling you... don't kill yourself with burden because of ego..

women in civilized countries share bills and still submit to their husbands it's only in Nigeria that women equate sharing of bills to being unsubmissive.

Deji63:


Elder 001 alias Ubunja. For your mind you dey garner support. The same you under two monikers supporting your rubbish post. Don't go and work. Your bones will soon fail you as the symptoms of old age will hit you like a bomb.. You will realise sooner than later that you spent all your life wasting away.

You probably are a ritualist as they say or how can you have this much time on NL and expect to make anything reasonable out of your life? I am sure you can't even feed yourself not to talk of feeding a family of your own as old as you are. Thats the height of disgrace for the menfolk. I remember telling you that you are not a man but a mistake.

You are what the Yoruba's call alainuronu, elerotirin okunrin. Men like you are quick to bring out their dicks as that is all you have to offer because deep down you know you are not ready to take responsibility. Men like you who complain about money are gigolos in reality. Women don't submit to gigolos they submit to men.

I have a daughter and don't pray for her to meet a man like you but I know if you have daughters they will end up with men of similar character as you. Then you go know say you be every woman's nightmare.

Deji63:

Ubunja is deadrat. He is upsetgirll too. You think say we no know. We go soon tell Seun to track you so we go see the face behind these monikers. Then we will understand why you always sound so frustrated. Na dat time you go no wetin dey. He creates threads pointing to his frustration on his wifeless situation. Ubunja and his lonely di.ck. Chronic bachelor. E fit be one old baba wey don day get hallucinations o.

UDUJ:

My bro, it's been a long time. Always good to see you around

YEAH.. THANKS.

Deji63:


Elder 001 alias Ubunja. For your mind you dey garner support. The same you under two monikers supporting your rubbish post. Don't go and work. Your bones will soon fail you as the symptoms of old age will hit you like a bomb.. You will realise sooner than later that you spent all your life wasting away.

You probably are a ritualist as they say or how can you have this much time on NL and expect to make anything reasonable out of your life? I am sure you can't even feed yourself not to talk of feeding a family of your own as old as you are. Thats the height of disgrace for the menfolk. I remember telling you that you are not a man but a mistake.

You are what the Yoruba's call alainuronu, elerotirin okunrin. Men like you are quick to bring out their dicks as that is all you have to offer because deep down you know you are not ready to take responsibility. Men like you who complain about money are gigolos in reality. Women don't submit to gigolos they submit to men.

I have a daughter and don't pray for her to meet a man like you but I know if you have daughters they will end up with men of similar character as you. Then you go know say you be every woman's nightmare.