I really want to know what you will you do if you find out your boyfriend is cheating on you.

Thread duplication is an absolute waste of time!

@thread:

The world aint fair, it happens all the time. u can decide to live with it or kill him

@fynewaka:

is ur name ijeoma

Sorry am not ijeoma

katency:

Sorry am not ijeoma

I thought the question was directed at me. No, What is Ijeoma Whitelexi?

@ katency

There is no one way answer to your question,

Sweetheart, i can only imagine what you're going through because i know how painful it can be to find out your partner is cheating on you with someone else, you start thinking stuff like "am i not good enough"??, "what did i do wrong or what was i not doing right"??

But if it helps any, then you should know that it happens to the best of us lol, and you shouldn't waste your time asking why? because you're not the first and you won't be the last and no matter how much someone loves you, in some situations their flesh takes the better part of hem.

Now honey you have two options, either you find out you can't go on with him because his infidelity brings back bad memories or you forgive him and give him a second chance

Infidelity can never be excused so i guess the circumstances surrounding it is a very deciding factor

Confront him with it, his reaction should tell you what to do, if he sincerely apologizes then you might want to take him back but emphasizing on the pain and disappointment he caused you and that you hope to God it dosen't repeat itself.

Remember dearie nobody is perfect, but that still dosen't mean you should be taken advantage of. Follow your heart and i promise you it shall be well

fynewaka:

I thought the question was directed at me. No, What is Ijeoma Whitelexi?

Ijeoma means fynewaka

Wat kind of cheating u talking about my dear,

Am talking about the cheating of dating another girl

cute-ass:

@ katency

There is no one way answer to your question,

Sweetheart, i can only imagine what you're going through because i know how painful it can be to find out your partner is cheating on you with someone else, you start thinking stuff like "am i not good enough"??, "what did i do wrong or what was i not doing right"??

But if it helps any, then you should know that it happens to the best of us lol, and you shouldn't waste your time asking why? because you're not the first and you won't be the last and no matter how much someone loves you, in some situations their flesh takes the better part of hem.

Now honey you have two options, either you find out you can't go on with him because his infidelity brings back bad memories or you forgive him and give him a second chance

Infidelity can never be excused so i guess the circumstances surrounding it is a very deciding factor

Confront him with it, his reaction should tell you what to do, if he sincerely apologizes then you might want to take him back but emphasizing on the pain and disappointment he caused you and that you hope to God it dosen't repeat itself.

Remember dearie nobody is perfect, but that still dosen't mean you should be taken advantage of. Follow your heart and i promise you it shall be well

Thax 4 that

wen dat happens and u cnt leave with it as in forgivin him ,move on cos guys are not really worth the stress and pain.They are jecks and hearthless
Believe me

Since most guys have penis brains, u cant blame them all the time. i would find out if he likes the girl. Sometimes its just all about lust, they see a big arse and they want to hit it. After its over they are back to normal. If thats the case when they do it once, they can be forgiven. But with a little punishment, make sure they regret their actions and come crawling back.

Butt , if he shows affection towards the girl, thats the ultimate betrayal. he actually has feeling for her and u know its hopeless cos u cant force a man to love u. So just move on, break up with him, show him he really hurt ur feelings, by scratching his range rover vogue sport and poisoning his beloved doggg!!!

then ur even. Hit him where it hurts!!!

cut off his thing lol just kidding, but anyway there is nothing you can do but move on, except if you want him back, which is not gonna happen if i were in ur shoes, then you work it out with him

yea if hes cheatin
U dnt hv to stay and U dnt hv to leave

such is life its a mans world!!!!!!!!!!!

@topic if he's just a boyfriend break up with him

Na today, e don te

@ - poster, he is not the first nor wil be last. Life goes on.

Ask him not to do it anymore? Seriously you know the answer already.

@ post,
Seriously i wouldn't take it lightly, how could he do such rubbish &
expect me to just forge ahead with him! I would make sure i deal
with him mercilessly after which i would make him promise it wld neva
happen again, then of course I'll 4give him!!!

Well, it will really hurt me. But whats done is done. I'll sit him and ask him some questions. What did he see in that other babe that he doesnt see in me. What does he like in that other individual that he doesnt like in me. I will bombard him with questions and if he doesnt have the right answers, then he's a dog.

I would leave sharp-sharp. It's not like he's my husband and i have to think about our kids or the years we've spent together and how happily we've spent them,or even that we're married. As far as na boyfriend and girlfriend,i'l leave.

kill him

leave and dont look back, he isnt worth it

just leave the bastard,he does not deserve u,i know it hurts but u just have to move on,u try.Ur man will definitely come