pocohantas:


Which energy are they saving?
I honestly do not understand this particular reasoning. Some ladies have sex with their bfs, he spends on them...then time to cook, she says she is saving energy for husband? Which energy pass the one she burnt on top bed?

These things are nothing. As long as he doesn't put a gun to her head. If you love someone, you won't see these things as anything.

You won't go about thinking your effort will be a waste if he 'dumps' you. You just do you best while you can and leave the rest.

victorian:










That's a brilliant question .
You may think she doesn't do anything . The work she does is ? Shes a machine on bed . That's why good girls don't marry early but bad girls ,even oloshos marry fast !
And you wonder why are men still crying foul after marriage .
You can't turn a hoe into a wife overnight .

The reason why divorce cases are high is ? Men marry because , she's a machine on bed and possibly she's from my tribe and before few months , belle don enter . Immediately belle enter, he's like lemme marry her ,she's a sweet girl . Forgetting marriage is not all about sex .

After enjoying all styles and million rounds of sex ,he's now like OK, I like home made meals . Nkiru or Basira, what's for dinner ? She looks at you , like u are speaking French and she's like am very tired , please let eat out , have been waiting for u sef.
He will be like what? So all day u didn't cook?
And wait how come everywhere is scattered ? Are u this lazy?
She will be like please ! Am I your maid? You don't complain like this before o!

If this place is not clean enough for u ,biko there is broom in the kitchen, start sweeping . I don't need this stress .. She will then hiss and walk away.

He looks at her with disbelief .lol
After the birth of their baby, he can't cope anymore and he complains bitterly and start searching for his ex, Rose who used to clean,cook and even lend him money when he's down. But because she doesn't want sex every morning and night as gf, in his mind she's not a wife material .

That's where all these divorce cases starts from and majority of women now understand , be a machine on bed , give it to him how and when he likes ,send nude pics, pussy and boobs , pretend to be respectful and viola! She has the ring .

punisha:



Naaaaa let's leave her to learn the hard way.

IamD18:


Did you just type this?

Holamscoh:


Truly that's for most nigerian men, but not me though, because beauty and sex or whatever u call it is always the last thing i always crave for in a lady. Love & Undrestanding, Kindhearted, Intelligence, Wisdom, Finance, Knowledge are what really matters to me.

victorian:










That's a brilliant question .
You may think she doesn't do anything . The work she does is ? Shes a machine on bed . That's why good girls don't marry early but bad girls ,even oloshos marry fast !
And you wonder why are men still crying foul after marriage .
You can't turn a hoe into a wife overnight .

The reason why divorce cases are high is ? Men marry because , she's a machine on bed and possibly she's from my tribe and before few months , belle don enter . Immediately belle enter, he's like lemme marry her ,she's a sweet girl . Forgetting marriage is not all about sex .

After enjoying all styles and million rounds of sex ,he's now like OK, I like home made meals . Nkiru or Basira, what's for dinner ? She looks at you , like u are speaking French and she's like am very tired , please let eat out , have been waiting for u sef.
He will be like what? So all day u didn't cook?
And wait how come everywhere is scattered ? Are u this lazy?
She will be like please ! Am I your maid? You don't complain like this before o!

If this place is not clean enough for u ,biko there is broom in the kitchen, start sweeping . I don't need this stress .. She will then hiss and walk away.

He looks at her with disbelief .lol
After the birth of their baby, he can't cope anymore and he complains bitterly and start searching for his ex, Rose who used to clean,cook and even lend him money when he's down. But because she doesn't want sex every morning and night as gf, in his mind she's not a wife material .

That's where all these divorce cases starts from and majority of women now understand , be a machine on bed , give it to him how and when he likes ,send nude pics, pussy and boobs , pretend to be respectful and viola! She has the ring .

xendra:
lol.... I hope she has trained herself to handle heartbreak? because na dis kind people heartbreak dey kill. she won't see it coming

jessca048:
all what she has listed is good, but she should have one thing at the back of her mind men are unpredictable she shouldn't be surprise when that same nigga leaves her for a Chic that can barely even measure of to her

IamD18:

Will you shut up!

How about wishing her well since you can never be like her? You ladies are so much filled with envy.

Look at you saying men are unpredictable and she might be cheated on, how many ladies are like her in this country? You think every lady must have the stupid mentality of an average Nigerian lady in a relationship? Or you think a man can just loose such a unique lady?

If reverse was the case, would you have made such silly and envy-filled comment?

Next time you find it difficult to control your jealousy, kindly ignore such thread than to end up spilling rubbish.

jessca048:
all what she has listed is good, but she should have one thing at the back of her mind men are unpredictable she shouldn't be surprise when that same nigga leaves her for a Chic that can barely even measure of to her

MISEDUCATIONS:

you really took your time on this response. nice one.

so in essence what the girl is doing is right. but with many guys' mind focused on sex it wont get her a wedding ring. yet the same guys will miss her when they tire of sex with the sex freaks they chose over her! i agree. fully.

working from your point then the girl is better off being slutty in bed and reserving the housekeeping skills for marriage when the magic of sex wears off and her and hubby have to face the reality of marriage. mmhmm makes a lot of sense. let me think more on it

Ellabae:
I will do same o but I'm still searching for a man that deserves it

victorian:








Wait , you are from which country ?

Holamscoh:


Truly that's for most nigerian men, but not me though, because beauty and sex or whatever u call it is always the last thing i always crave for in a lady. Love & Undrestanding, Kindhearted, Intelligence, Wisdom, Finance, Knowledge are what really matters to me.

Holamscoh:


Disrespectful? Aunty how old are u? btwn Sho Mo Age Mi Ni?

MISEDUCATIONS:

emmahoney:
Stop searching, I am here for you.

wristbangle:


Oh really?

MISEDUCATIONS:
just listen to the rant of a bitter envious loser still wishing for marriage.
who will put a ring on such a bitter mess

Dyt:



Was that a complain?
Rolling eyessssss

Phoenix3x:


Good, happy Sunday to you

franchasng:
great men don't marry for beauty and sex, they marry a virtuous lady who supports their dream and helps them achieve their life goals; financial, business and family.

Non great men marry for beauty, sex and fashion and at the end, the woman ruins their life and squander the little money they thought they had and they go back to square one.

In our today world, what every young man should consider before marrying any Lady are:

1. Is she industrious and productive financially?
2. Is she respectful and well mannered?
3. Is she contented?
4. Is she a good home manager?
5. Is she a good cook; take it or leave it, this is a vital quality even if u are a billionaire man.
6. Is she compassionate about others and does she respect other people?
7. Is she neat and organised?
8. Is she a star; some ladies carry good star that attracts good while some carry badluck

Once a lady ticks the above qualities, wife her no matter her looks, once she is presentable, forget, u can help her become the most beautiful woman u desire, thank God for science and technology

Ellabae:
that's so sweet of u. U re such a darling

jessca048:
all what she has listed is good, but she should have one thing at the back of her mind men are unpredictable she shouldn't be surprise when that same nigga leaves her for a Chic that can barely even measure of to her

Holamscoh:


My dear believe it or not, I'm a Nigerian. This is not a matter of of flaunting a sugarcoated tongue, I mean it and I'm standing my ground.

Colourich:
Husband should enjoy these benefits not boyfriend.

franchasng:
great men don't marry for beauty and sex, they marry a virtuous lady who supports their dream and helps them achieve their life goals; financial, business and family.

Non great men marry for beauty, sex and fashion and at the end, the woman ruins their life and squander the little money they thought they had and they go back to square one.

In our today world, what every young man should consider before marrying any Lady are:

1. Is she industrious and productive financially?
2. Is she respectful and well mannered?
3. Is she contented?
4. Is she a good home manager?
5. Is she a good cook; take it or leave it, this is a vital quality even if u are a billionaire man.
6. Is she compassionate about others and does she respect other people?
7. Is she neat and organised?
8. Is she a star; some ladies carry good star that attracts good while some carry badluck

Once a lady ticks the above qualities, wife her no matter her looks, once she is presentable, forget, u can help her become the most beautiful woman u desire, thank God for science and technology

But sadly, we have very few marriageable ladies with the right qualities, reason many guys are still single and searching frustratedly like he-goats, ladies pls help the brothers and become marriageable ladies.

Get a job, if u can't get a job, learn a trade, start a business and be serious about it, believe me God will bless it for u. As a lady, try and make sure u are working or doing business or engaged in a trade that earns u steady income of at least 70,000naira.

Start a savings plan for your future family....start to save to support your husband even if u end up marrying a billionaire, he will love u more if u tell her how much u saved for your future family while single.

Stop wasting all your savings on fashion and irrelevant things.

Prepare to be a good wife and mother.

Your fine body alone is no longer enough to sustain a happy marriage in our today world.

Be a help mate to your hubby.....pray and work to be a financial support to your future husband, don't plan to be a leech and a money spender wife even if u marryba billionaire. Be a virtuous woman your kids will be proud of.

Wish u all the best as u strive to be good women8)

Holamscoh:


A better Version of my Perception. You've said it all my brother. May GOD continue to bless u with more wisdom and knowledge!!!

victorian:








Wow! Am surprised .
If truly u are deep down , then you've earned my respect . Your type look indepth and do not get carried away or sell their souls for sex and curves .
Nice one ! Keep it up, pls.

Don't change o,biko!

pocohantas:


Which energy are they saving?
I honestly do not understand this particular reasoning. Some ladies have sex with their bfs, he spends on them...then time to cook, she says she is saving energy for husband? Which energy pass the one she burnt on top bed?

These things are nothing. As long as he doesn't put a gun to her head. If you love someone, you won't see these things as anything.

You won't go about thinking your effort will be a waste if he 'dumps' you. You just do you best while you can and leave the rest.