MissRaine69:

Has it occurred to you that it’s not a gift everyone has? Some people no matter how many driving lessons they have just cannot drive

Yes, it is something we learn. So, I can't understand why a woman will mature without knowing how to cook. Even a girl from a dysfunctional family should know how to cook.

Don't worry, if you don't know how to cook, I can marry you. But you must be willing to learn. I have zero tolerance for laziness and lack of curiosity.

MissRaine69:
My mother burns water
But 45 years on parents are still married and happily so.
Only a man with an archaic view of women would make that’s a priority when it comes to suitability.
If she cannot cook what’s stopping you from teaching her?
I bet it’s men who underperform or last 2 minutes and 3 seconds who make the most noise.

If a woman can't cook then the man should do the cooking. There's no where it is written that cooking in marriage is a woman's responsibility alone.

Women aren't cooking machines. Nigerian men should cook for their wives, this is the 21st century for God sake.

Elder001:


If a woman can't cook then the man should do the cooking. There's no where it is written that cooking in marriage is a woman's responsibility alone.

Women aren't cooking machines. Nigerian men should cook for their wives, this is the 21st century for God sake.

Nonsense!!!

Cooking is a good skill to have. No one said anyone should become cooking machines. It is for everyone's good to know how to cook.

BluntBoy:


Nonsense!!!

Cooking is a good skill to have. No one said anyone should become cooking machines. It is for everyone's good to know how to cook.

Can't you be polite and civil?

staytravel:


The funny thing is that .... on the list of things most Nigerian men want in a wife, cooking is the most important:

1) Good cook
2) Good sex
3) Give many children (especially sons)
4) Prayerful/Relationship with God
5) Kind/Doesn't nag
6) Hard working
7) Has money
cool Good body/attractive
9) Get's on well with my family/culture
10) Honest/Reliable
11)Other

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61LZWpmEdcY?t=4m48s

1-3 are subjective
Good sex is reciprocal
Good cook - based on whose standards? If I am a classically trained French chef does that make me a bad CHC because I can’t cook Nigerian dishes?
And if he is infertile?
4- being Prayerful ( not sure that’s a word but for the purpose of this discussion we will assume it is)
That does not mean the person will have a good heart.
5-He has to be the same who wants to be paired to a man who nags? There is nothing that so disconcerting than a man who talks too much!
6-10 All mutual traits
Can’t expect that when you don’t give any!
Good attractive body when you have a potbelly and man boobs? That’s hypocrisy right there!

Elder001:

Can't you be polite and civil?

What is impolite in my post, please

BluntBoy:


Yes, it is something we learn. So, I can't understand why a woman will mature without knowing how to cook. Even a girl from a dysfunctional family should know how to cook.

Don't worry, if you don't know how to cook, I can marry you. But you must be willing to learn. I have zero tolerance for laziness and lack of curiosity.

I can cook very well
I just prefer not to.

Humchi:

i am an ika-igbo from delta.

Happy Sunday man, enjoy your day.

MissRaine69:

I can cook very well
I just prefer not to.

Yes, that is very good. I can cook but I am lazy when it comes to cooking. It is the same with ironing. I can do them but always too lazy to do them.

staytravel:


So must a person do something that they hate??

How can you hate cooking ... it’s a basic skill for survival
Even boiling egg is cooking hope you know ....

BluntBoy:


Yes, that is very good. I can cook but I am lazy when it comes to cooking. It is the same with ironing. I can do them but always too lazy to do them.

Now ironing
I actually enjoy.

Lalas247:

How can you hate cooking ... it’s a basic skill for survival
Even boiling egg is cooking hope you know ....

Cooking is not a basic skill for survival.
Finding a clean source of drinking water is a basic skill for survival
Meat and eggs can be eaten raw

MissRaine69:

Cooking is not a basic skill for survival.
Finding a clean source of drinking water is a basic skill for survival
Meat and eggs can be eaten raw

staytravel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61LZWpmEdcY?t=7m3s



Is it really the same though?

it is. both rely on making the person do that very thing later on.

Elder001:


If a woman can't cook then the man should do the cooking. There's no where it is written that cooking in marriage is a woman's responsibility alone.

Women aren't cooking machines. Nigerian men should cook for their wives, this is the 21st century for God sake.

Nigerian men are not money machines,


our girls should also learn hw to bring legitimate money for rent,skul fees,food eta el. For crying out loud this 21st century.

MissRaine69:

Now ironing
I actually enjoy.

You enjoy ironing

God, I hate that chore. It is the most boring chore in the world, from my perspective.

Lalas247:

Don’t fret
It was in context of survival skills
I am sure you missed that part.

BluntBoy:


You enjoy ironing

God, I hate that chore. It is the most boring chore in the world, from my perspective.

I love it!

MissRaine69:
I love it!

mmm... different strokes for different folks.

BluntBoy:


mmm... different strokes for different folks.

It’s therapeutic
Done while listening to music
Ahhhh bliss

MissRaine69:

It’s therapeutic
Done while listening to music
Ahhhh bliss

Interesting

I see you mention therapies a lot. Are you a therapist? Or perhaps, you are a social worker?

MissRaine69:
My mother burns water
But 45 years on parents are still married and happily so.
Only a man with an archaic view of women would make that’s a priority when it comes to suitability.
If she cannot cook what’s stopping you from teaching her?
I bet it’s men who underperform or last 2 minutes and 3 seconds who make the most noise.

hia why u go think this kind thing eh, well nor worry I go enroll you for cooking school /Catherine /chef school...

BluntBoy:


Interesting

I see you mention therapies a lot. Are you a therapist? Or perhaps, you are a social worker?

Neither

Martin0:



hia why u go think this kind thing eh, well nor worry I go enroll you for cooking school /Catherine /chef school...

I don’t want to cook
Ever!

MissRaine69:
I don’t want to cook Ever!

u say weitin
na wa ooo, I hope nor be me u dey tell this sha

staytravel:


ahhahahah, is that your wife? If she doesn't want to cook, that is her problem.

so weitin make you think say na my wife!

come she's not my wife, na just my friend

staytravel:


You dey sure?

eee see gobe ooo, come whichever you are! she is my friend, simple, that is all I know she is to me! why you dey think like say u nor know say Na friends!!!

kwenu!