I need your advice my NL pals, I happened to be at home one day sitting in front of my crib around 11 am. My friend's house is near mine. He wasnt at home; I actually saw him when he was going out. So his supposed girlfriend came around and saw me; I told her, "Your boyfriend is not around". She retorted sharply, "Who is my boyfriend? Razaq?. Is that what he's been telling you guys. It's all lies. I am in love with Uche and I love him so much"(Uche is another guy who lives on the next street). The next day I saw my friend and asked him if he loves the girl, his [b]YES [/b]was as strong as thunder. I asked him if the girl loves him, his YES again was as big as mount everest. Please what should I do now. Should I tell him what the supposed girlfriend said. Am confused. I like my friend and want the best for him. But I dont want to turn out to be the intruder in his relationship.

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its non of your business.

Let your friend find out on his own. Its time for him to be played(he's been playing girls.)

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Guess he played u as well`

Don't intrude, mind your business.

if u dare try it den u ar in a deep soup

You need to mind your own business, and anytime  A MAN TRYING TO GET IN THE MIDDLE OF A RELATIONSHIP IS JEALOUS OR WANT THE GIRL AS WELL,


Choose your friends wisely people!

Another option is to invite UCHE, RASAQ, and the [b]LADY [/b]to ur place or to an outing and see what will happen/How she'll act among them.

Na wa o

Just give him a hint or get the girl to confess again, record her words and then when U question Ur friend next time and he's striking thunder with his words, U can just play it for him.

I think it's best he finds out early. the hurt would be more bearable.

Like they all said, mind ur business cos if the relationship crashes based on ur information, u'l b blamed for it. . .

How certain are you that they're dating at all? No disrespect, but you know how guys distribute stories that aren't even true yet or might never be. Either way, just concentrate on your own girlfriend.

Tell him jor! Save him some additional heart ache that will happen to him later.

One of my friends once told me the same thing two yrs ago. It was painful at the time, cos I don love up for the girl gan at the time ( we had been seeing each other one and off for about 3 yrs). Turns out the girl confided in him that she was using me. He deliberated about it for a day before telling me. Till today, I consider him my most loyal friend, and will do anything for him. Today I hv moved on, happy and in a way better relationship (the new girl love up for real this time , hopefully )

Stay out of your friend's relationship! It's none of your business.

Siena:

Stay out of your friend's relationship! It's none of your business.

What relationship? The one that does not exist? You missed the part where the lady said she is neither dating him or in love with him. If it was you, would you want to know?

Guy, I'd advise that you let your friend know whats up o. Albeit in a subtle and thoughtful manner.

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I guess that someway somehow you've got to let your friend know about this. Try and work something out so that the situation will be win win for everybody. You are not just gonna sit down there and watch your friend been played are you? Otherwise what sort of friend are you?

deniyor:

Tell him jor! Save him some additional heart ache that will happen to him later.

One of my friends once told me the same thing two yrs ago. It was painful at the time, cos I don love up for the girl gan at the time ( we had been seeing each other one and off for about 3 yrs). Turns out the girl confided in him that she was using me. He deliberated about it for a day before telling me. Till today, I consider him my most loyal friend, and will do anything for him. Today I hv moved on, happy and in a way better relationship (the new girl love up for real this time , hopefully )

Guy, I think you are talking from experience here. You said you appreciated your friend even till this day for what he did. After reading everything here, I think I am more confused than before I posted this topic. Onchedu said I should record her voice. I think I would do that. I would try and ask her again and play it to my friend, What do you think guys? Would this be better. But I am not sure if it will be clear 'cos I am planning using my phone (Nokia 5300)

RECORD HER VOICE, ARE U DUMB OR A DETECTIVE? CUT THAT CRAP JOR, I'D APPRECIATE IF MY FRIEND TELLS ME SUCH, IF IT WERE ME, AND I

OBSERVE THAT THEIR R/SHIP HASNT BEEN LONG, I WILL TELL HIM, I COULD SAY, I STRONGLY FEEL HIS GIRLFRIEND DOESNT LOVE, THAT HE SHOULD

GIVE HER A TEST TO ASCERTAIN THAT FACT.

valacious:

RECORD HER VOICE, ARE U DUMB OR A DETECTIVE? CUT THAT CRAP JOR, I'D APPRECIATE IF MY FRIEND TELLS ME SUCH, IF IT WERE ME, AND I

OBSERVE THAT THEIR R/SHIP HASNT BEEN LONG, I WILL TELL HIM, I COULD SAY, I STRONGLY FEEL HIS GIRLFRIEND DOESNT LOVE, THAT HE SHOULD

GIVE HER A TEST TO ASCERTAIN THAT FACT.

U r not very smart are U? The guy is in love. It's Ur word against hers. U think he'd believe U more than he would her?

@poster plz tell him and let us rest, we are tired of waiting for u to tell him

Another thing happened. I was with another friend in the evening of Sunday around 9pm and we saw the girl on the street. My friend (Joseph) doesnt know that the girl is Razaq's girl. She came and greeted me with sheer ecstasy, and I introduced her to Joseph as Razaq's girlfriend. She claimed she came to see a friend on the street and not Razaq. She denied flatly and warned me never to call her that again in my entire life.

Now I have decided I am going to tell him tomorrow immediately I get back from work, and I will tell you guys about it.

Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate them.

PS
Forget it my people, that girl is immaculately beautiful. She looks like a model. Tall, fair and everything. You cant see her and not look twice. I think it may be hard for my friend to let go 'cos of this.

b carefull girllllll or deres more to dis ur friendshhip nii?

are you guys gay? if not mind ur fing buzzines

I am yet to tell him. I am in Ogun state (On bizz). Should get back tomorrow. I will tell you about it.

go close to his ears n shout, wake up ur fcking nob head d gal is just playing u 4 a mug, mug
make sure it is as loud as thunder

as u tolk loud na him d slap go loud reach.b carefull.did is love u tolkin abt

Strong one

^^^^ Now that's a true friend.