jmoore:

I like new things and must marry a virgin, i am a virgin myself. I am not going to put my thing into what another man has tasted, it won't work for me. Most of you that are saying how will a virgin know how to have sex, i have this question for you. Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast as a newborn baby? Who taught the animals how to mate? When you marry as virgins, you will have sex once you see each others unclothedness. It is inborn. Research shows that most virgins that marry each other don't complain of lack of satisfaction while those that have already had sex before marriage do complain and even go to the extend of getting a divorce. How do you want to present your body to your spouse after marriage? Is it brand new(virgin) or used one(tokunboh, 2nd hand, 3rd hand) the choice is yours.

jmoore:

There are virgins out there and i must marry one. You talk about love, what do you know about love? Do not confused love with lust. I can find a virgin who is virtuous and has moral values. Stop being negative, just because you have lost your virginity does not mean that virginity is not worth it. I am a virgin and must marry a virgin, nothing will change my mind.

C2H5OH:

Whether or not I am what business of yours is that? MYOB

jmoore:

I am 24 years old and still a virgin. Only a man can control his feelings, while male are controlled by their feelings just like animals. Who will congratulate you for having sex before marriage? Is it the devil or God?

jmoore:

@artenb, i pity for you. Righteousness will always take its place. Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast when you were a baby? It is inborn, when i marry my virgin bride, we will enjoy our sex lives. Of what use is the honeymoon when the honey has been eaten before marriage? Two advices comes from two being, God says do not fornicate while satan says go ahead and fornicate. I wonder which you are heeding to

Ardenb:

Personally I would not want to marry a virgin guy cos i prefer a man who knows what to do in bed and also do it well. Besides lets stop being all so righteous and deluding ourselves, sexual compatibility has a great,re-emphasise GREAT DEAL to do in marriage. Sex between a man and woman is wat differentiates their relationship from the ordinary,its d highest form of intimacy. I have heard alot of complaints from friends who jumped into marriage without finding out how compatible they are with the spouse and its all bitter. At the end of the day after all the sharing and hugsy cuddly u get to sack and its like wen its time for sex.

jmoore:

I can find a wife who is a virgin and still loves me. Moreover, i will tell her that after we get married and i found out that she is not a virgin, then i will divorce her immediately

Ardenb:

@C2H5OH, If u really read my post u wuld have noticed it started with personally and ended on a personal note as well.

And did u say my brain is only capable of grasping the sexual part of a relationship, gee u r so deluded my friend. Go back and read my post objectively before casting aspersions Mr.[color=#000099][/color]

C2H5OH:

All this loud noise.
You could have easily stated your preference and kept on walking. Stop lambasting those whose choice differs from yours, just because your brain is only capable of grasping the sexual aspect of relationships. Nobody has downplayed the importance of sexual compatibility to a relationship. . . you just wanted to inject your own twist. Your flawed assumption that a man who was betrothed as a virgin would not know what to do in bed, is your fabricated lie; your way of saying you would prefer an experienced slut to a virgin. Different strokes for different folks. . . yeah, we know. The non-virgins of today were the virgins of yesterday.
When others decide the right time for them to have sex is when they are wedded, try to respect their decision too.
There are experienced couples who end up having atrocious sex lives, just as there are inexperienced ones who will go on to share a similar fate.
No one pointed a .44 at your head, forcing you to marry a virgin.

Just like you promised that girl who wanted to rape you last month?