CimonJorr:

You must be young... your views are very idyllic...

you can say it again. Every one with their own opinions if you would prefer the guy that likes premarrital sex for your sister if you have one it is so left to you. I can be idyllic for all i care. ok?

I for one am a virgin and am very proud to say it, most guys do not like gurls that have been disvirgined/deflowered, and guys have made them useless and everything, it is just not right. Personally, I think a gurl should keep her virginity for that right man, it does not have to be after marriage, once u're sure u are in love with da guy, n u are ready, then u can go ahead.
But this is a piece of advice, do not do it, cos da guy pressured u into it, or nething, do it cos u want to, u are ready to, and u are absolutely, definately, 100% sure that u love this guy.
If a guy gets married to a virgin, then he should count himself lucky, cos she's not been used, and she's UNIQUE, A RARE GEM, and most of all different from all other gurls these days, who have made themselves useless,just in da anem of pleasure.
Virgins should be respected, cos they deserve it!!!

virgin

HAHAHAHAHAHA ,nddy how are you?

Z4M4eva:

I for one am a virgin and am very proud to say it,

E kaabo, u are welcome

Z4M4eva:

most guys do not like girls that have been disvirgined/deflowered, and guys have made them useless and everything, it is just not right.

who told u that? Seun or who

Z4M4eva:

If a guy gets married to a virgin, then he should count himself lucky, because she's not been used, and she's UNIQUE, A RARE GEM, and most of all different from all other girls these days, who have made themselves useless,just in da anem of p

The man that gets married to a virgin should send for Michael Jackson and Sunny Ade to sing and celebrate. After all, the guy who gets married to a virgin is sure of becoming his country's president in the nearest future and those that are disvirgined should forget about husband or wife because they gat no body that will love them. Right 

What a funny post. My dear Z4M4eva, if u a virgin u can't be my g/friend let alone my woman because u gat nothing to teach or offer except talk, talk and talk with no action whenever it"s time to have fun. You are going to be nothing but a novice and a pain in the neck. I will rather get married to a woman who gat experience, a woman that will make me always feel like rushing home any time I close from work, a sincere woman and not an Alum Woman  

U sound like sex is all you'll be having when u get married..

Z4M4eva:

Virgins should be respected, because they deserve it!!!

And disvirgined females should be disrespected is what your implying? because they don't deserve respect?

i'll be a virgin even if i get married when i'm 30, that's why any guy i'll date i would tell them already if they bring up any sex talk we're going to break. virgins ruleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. yep that's what i said. and i 've learnt a lot from this board keep on doing the job. i love this board. please girls don't rush into it. "steady u bone, make u beef nor shake" God bless all the virgin and when u get into temptation go and pray so that the lord may protect u.

l be Virgin oooo

Hahahahahhahahahaha*tired* shakes head*

Readin this thread has brought mixed feelings, sometimes im vexed at the way people reason other times i find it extremely  interesting.

Thing is majority of the people here are pretty young and have little or no indept experience in this subject so i think its a waste of time to even talk at all, a little time is all they need ehn brothers and sisters. me, i no fit shout 

virgins please show us your pics

goodguy:

This is the most reasonable post I've read so far. (Including some of Seun's and Einstein's.)
This is the most stupid comment I've read so far.
Personally, I'd prefer to marry a virgin - Reason based on pophoney's post.

@ goodguy,
Hehehehehe! Your'e makin me laff!

Personally, I don't care about people's opinions - as long as you leave my future wife alone and don't try to sleep with her!

I will be 4ever willing to MARRY a virgin. It will be an honour to do that, atleast that will make me treasure her as a wife and companion.
If after marriage she's not doing well on bed, we can then watch films, read books, and do some other things to improve on sex. I will cherish my lady the more if she is a VIRGIN.

Mckaycee, Ya know wat u talking abt!

Ken flavour, What i don't understand, is why ne guy would want to get married,to a girl that have been deflowered by either just one guy, or who knows how many other guys? So what She's experienced?

But think about it? Other guys have had their own share of your woman?

Xactly,seun!cos u don't want sumtin that another man has had his share of, MaN!!!that's is just D.I.S.G.U.S.T.I.N.G

n hey pple, if da gurl's been raped like sumone said, then i think that'z ok, it wasn't da gurls fault she lost her virginity.it's very sad

Well, good for u,NDUGOD.

uhhmmm,Nddy, y da puzzled face?u dunno wat that means?

some guyz really do not know what they want in life. If you really love your wife, you wouldn't let her be "the sampled".
Big apology to ladies.

Mckayzee, U R 100% RIGHT

L.O.L!

I am keeping myself for the right guy, and I would have sex with the right guy, within marriage when and how many times I like.

Tell em girl! I'm rooting for you!

Sorry to digress a bit here, but is sex after marriage important??

mckaycee:

some guyz really do not know what they want in life. If you really love your wife, you wouldn't let her be "the sampled".
Big apology to ladies.

How dare you be so judgemental? What do you know about my marriage to tell me I don't really love my wife?

You probably were in the first row when the stones were being distributed for casting, weren't you?

Nah, it's not important for SOME people, n it might not be for you,I dunno wat ya feels towards da issue, but wat i do know is, IT'S IMPORTANT FOR "ME", COS I WANNA BE VALUE, N CHERISHED, IN DA EYE OF DA ONE FOR ME

I hope that has ANSWERED ya question, CIMONJORR

Why I asked the question is because I find that view point quite intriguing..  

Please take a walk with me..

Everyone says that sex before marriage is not important.. that it's not desirable.. that it should be avoided.. etc, etc..

Now.. After marriage, everyone suddenly expects to have wild, romping sex with their spouses.. and have a great sex life from then onwards..

People tend to forget that some habits and tendencies are not inborn, but acquired.. We expect that a natural tendency should exist to have this sexual desire torewards one's spouse.. But quite a lot of marriages have shown that they tend to gravitate towards sexual stasis after quite a relatively short period.. with partners having to make the extra effort to make their sex lives interesting and keep them alive.. Since sex was part of the equation before marriage, why should it be of utmost importance after marriage??..
Many a female member of Nairaland has said in different fora that if their intending partner can not have a relationship with them without sex being part of the equation, then he had better step (to the curb..) and bounce.. I wonder if they would feel in similar manner after marriage if their spouses (male) tell them that they did not get married to them for sex..

If sex, was not an important issue prior to marriage, why should it be one after marriage.. ??

Z4M4eva:

Nah, it's not important for SOME people, n it might not be for you,I don't know what ya feels towards da issue, but what i do know is, IT'S IMPORTANT FOR "ME", COS I WANNA BE VALUE, N CHERISHED, IN DA EYE OF DA ONE FOR ME

I hope that has ANSWERED ya question, CIMONJORR

@Cimonjorr,Blah,Blah,....Blah

.. Oh my soul.. it is well with me...

LOL,Cimonjorr, u quite a funny dude,rele ,stay kool,love yaxxx