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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Biggers82(m): 8:25am On Nov 14, 2018
enshi:
I met this young pretty girl about two months now. It was love at first sight for both of us. She is a student and she is in her early 20s.
Recently I brought up an idea to help us know each other better. This idea allows us ask each other any question especially about our past ( relationship, experiences, ideas, beliefs, and lots more) but we must answer with all sincerity.
With sincerity of all intents and purposes, I just wanted to know what my gf could/would be capable of.

My first question was have you dated a married man before, to my surprise her answer was YES , I asked for how long and she said a year plus. She was just 18 at the time and she goes to his house to make love to him when ever the wife travelled. OMG

My second was have you had a one night stand with a guy you just met, again her answer was YES and it was just some months ago and she was still dating her EX when this happened.

At this point I was just too shocked that I started asking anything. Next question was have you had a 3SOME before, her answer was NO but she has slept with two cousins though they never found out.


I was just too afraid to ask her if she smokes cos I didn't want the shock of my life.

Pls guys considering her age and knowing fully well that the leopard never changes its spots, pls do you advise I Carry on with her as my intention was to make her my last gf.

you shouldn't taken that risk by asking anything
try and stop asking before she tell you that her father is the one that deflowered her
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Freeeanijor: 8:25am On Nov 14, 2018
Let me contribute small. Probably your reason for asking her those questions was to ascertain the type of girl you will be dealing with and to be sincere you were clever enough to achieve your desired result. The problem is you are stuck, you don't know what to do with the result. The truth is the babe is the fun loving and adventurous type of girl, she is not the serious relationship type, so if you are ready to be a fvck buddy you can tag along bet me when she becomes ripe for marriage she won't tell her prospect those secret.

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by fotadmowmend(m): 8:27am On Nov 14, 2018
Abort ! Abort ! repeat Abort mission ! I m sure you'd get more if you probe further. You can date her only if u can tolerate all of those ......... Next time you should be careful in digging to others' past

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by boomssey(f): 8:28am On Nov 14, 2018
Pls remember to ask her if she has also aborted before n we already know d answer to that too.

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Cityguy: 8:29am On Nov 14, 2018
AntiWailer:

You cnt stand the answer but your loud mouth dey ask question.

She is the most sincere girl in the hood.


Other girls after sleeping with 80 guys will tell you their friend's brother raped them and that was how they got deflowered.
That sincerity part is important. It also. Appears the lady in question doesn't appear to send. She knows what she wants in the relationship and that is what I think OP should try to find out to make up his mind. That's why some people are gains fishing about your partner's past. You may see things you wouldn't want and they may actually not define the person before you now.

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by AleAirHub(m): 8:30am On Nov 14, 2018
That girl is naive at age 18 & I will roll with her for voicing out the truth under a tight watch compare to those full grown adults that is still exploring their sexually life as lesbians & straight(Bisexual) angry

enshi:
I met this young pretty girl about two months now. It was love at first sight for both of us. She is a student and she is in her early 20s.
Recently I brought up an idea to help us know each other better. This idea allows us ask each other any question especially about our past ( relationship, experiences, ideas, beliefs, and lots more) but we must answer with all sincerity.
With sincerity of all intents and purposes, I just wanted to know what my gf could/would be capable of.

My first question was have you dated a married man before, to my surprise her answer was YES , I asked for how long and she said a year plus. She was just 18 at the time and she goes to his house to make love to him when ever the wife travelled. OMG

My second was have you had a one night stand with a guy you just met, again her answer was YES and it was just some months ago and she was still dating her EX when this happened.

At this point I was just too shocked that I started asking anything. Next question was have you had a 3SOME before, her answer was NO but she has slept with two cousins though they never found out.


I was just too afraid to ask her if she smokes cos I didn't want the shock of my life.

Pls guys considering her age and knowing fully well that the leopard never changes its spots, pls do you advise I Carry on with her as my intention was to make her my last gf.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by KunleSteel: 8:31am On Nov 14, 2018
She was honest with you. That ought to count for something, right?
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Dronedude(m): 8:31am On Nov 14, 2018
Na u initiate question with honest answers, Na you dey fear. U for ask if she don't kill before or if she be ritualist then u fit fear. This one u dey fire her with sex question, I wonder your own answers to ur question.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by skyhighweb(m): 8:34am On Nov 14, 2018
after asking about sexxxxxx u are afraid to ask if she smokes, cause smoking beat all d above smh.

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by homirefacuny(m): 8:34am On Nov 14, 2018
Biggers82:


you shouldn't taken that risk by asking anything
try and stop asking before she tell you that her father is the one that deflowered her
Mad cow grin grin
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by israelmao(m): 8:35am On Nov 14, 2018
So many people have cans of worms in the past opting to open them is to brace up for offensive odour in the present,people change from time to time,what is bad if we give them a chance when they have embraced opportunity to change for the better?

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by EricBloodAxe: 8:35am On Nov 14, 2018
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enshi:


I am sorry but it appears you'd be the last person I shall call a fool before the year ends..
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A Small gal in her early 20s is giving u shivers and chills. Am sure you're even in her friendzone hence the revelations. Go find a job or hustle and make money instead of disturbing us online with your mediocre insecurities. Oponu!

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by denitro(m): 8:36am On Nov 14, 2018
She's very honest and that's a plus. Help her to change.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by MikelIbe: 8:38am On Nov 14, 2018
She's honest.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by mimimile93: 8:38am On Nov 14, 2018
enshi:
I met this young pretty girl about two months now. It was love at first sight for both of us. She is a student and she is in her early 20s.
Recently I brought up an idea to help us know each other better. This idea allows us ask each other any question especially about our past ( relationship, experiences, ideas, beliefs, and lots more) but we must answer with all sincerity.
With sincerity of all intents and purposes, I just wanted to know what my gf could/would be capable of.

My first question was have you dated a married man before, to my surprise her answer was YES , I asked for how long and she said a year plus. She was just 18 at the time and she goes to his house to make love to him when ever the wife travelled. OMG

My second was have you had a one night stand with a guy you just met, again her answer was YES and it was just some months ago and she was still dating her EX when this happened.

At this point I was just too shocked that I started asking anything. Next question was have you had a 3SOME before, her answer was NO but she has slept with two cousins though they never found out.


I was just too afraid to ask her if she smokes cos I didn't want the shock of my life.

Pls guys considering her age and knowing fully well that the leopard never changes its spots, pls do you advise I Carry on with her as my intention was to make her my last gf.

Run 360degrees.

That's a thot.

I bet she has done 5 abortions.

Unfortunately Nigerian ladies are like this ur thot.

Hustle get ur guap and go marry an Asian girl.

Asian ladies are the best..

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by tunwumi: 8:39am On Nov 14, 2018
enshi:
I met this young pretty girl about two months now. It was love at first sight for both of us. She is a student and she is in her early 20s.
Recently I brought up an idea to help us know each other better. This idea allows us ask each other any question especially about our past ( relationship, experiences, ideas, beliefs, and lots more) but we must answer with all sincerity.
With sincerity of all intents and purposes, I just wanted to know what my gf could/would be capable of.

My first question was have you dated a married man before, to my surprise her answer was YES , I asked for how long and she said a year plus. She was just 18 at the time and she goes to his house to make love to him when ever the wife travelled. OMG

My second was have you had a one night stand with a guy you just met, again her answer was YES and it was just some months ago and she was still dating her EX when this happened.

At this point I was just too shocked that I started asking anything. Next question was have you had a 3SOME before, her answer was NO but she has slept with two cousins though they never found out.


I was just too afraid to ask her if she smokes cos I didn't want the shock of my life.

Pls guys considering her age and knowing fully well that the leopard never changes its spots, pls do you advise I Carry on with her as my intention was to make her my last gf.

Let's start with this. What is your motive of asking those questions? If she has lied will you be happy? If truth hurt you so much how will you feel with lies?
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Honchowilly: 8:39am On Nov 14, 2018
Run for your Life
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by mimimile93: 8:40am On Nov 14, 2018
MikelIbe:
She's honest.
Her honesty can't chnged d fact dat she's a wh0re
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by addikt(m): 8:42am On Nov 14, 2018
EricBloodAxe:


A Small gal in her early 20s is giving u shivers and chills. Am sure you're even in her friendzone hence the revelations. Go find a job or hustle and make money instead of disturbing us online with your mediocre insecurities. Oponu!


shocked. NI suuru naa......hahahaha grin cheesy
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Nobody: 8:42am On Nov 14, 2018
enshi:


A cheat is a cheat ... No body really changes
My brother if you were me, knowing all these would you proceed as to dating and or marring her ??

Just Marry her now, I will be waiting for your next thread about this ur same wife turning ur house into her personal brothel where her Bleep buddies visit her immediately you commot.


I think she just wanna have sex, give her what she wants & go look for a REAL WIFE material this time around, this ur girlfriend is extremely dangerous, I know some1 similar to her, she came to my shop with a married man, d guy dropped her, before he comes back this lady started flirting with me, Moving closer & shyt, I was extremely lucky another customer came, so she restrained herself

Fear cheating slutty women!!
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by mimimile93: 8:42am On Nov 14, 2018
denitro:
She's very honest and that's a plus. Help her to change.

A lizard in Nigeria cannot become a crocodile in US.

Once a hoe is a hoe.

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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by adedayoa2(f): 8:42am On Nov 14, 2018
enshi:


A cheat is a cheat ... No body really changes
My brother if you were me, knowing all these would you proceed as to dating and or marring her ??
you wanted her to be plain and now you're scared
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Trippledee(m): 8:43am On Nov 14, 2018
competent hole-low-show.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Frankicent(m): 8:44am On Nov 14, 2018
love kill you there... Can't you see she's only after the Dickson. Bros kill that love and chop your own. Have come to understand gals from 18-21 are xo immature. They only listen to what there friends do and they just wanna have fun. I pray I find a gal like this... Benefits tinz... no emotion from me.

if she's in Lagos gimne her number since she has done 1 nyt stand no wahala.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Fidelarinze9(m): 8:44am On Nov 14, 2018
Have you checked why she was honest to you? Our past don't always determine our future. I think you mean something to the girl for her to be that hones. She may really want a change.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by iannathan(m): 8:45am On Nov 14, 2018
If she lied now you'll say she lied, deal with the truth bro
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by tribalgod6: 8:45am On Nov 14, 2018
Bro...since you dn get ans ahead of the coming exam why must be afraid of Such exam ...abi you wan leave the exam...I don't think so,so bro carry on you already knw what you are going into
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Uchimah: 8:45am On Nov 14, 2018
I quite agree with you that a Leopard does not change it spots. Thank God she is not a Leopard. Thank God also that there is a transforming power in the blood of Jesus Christ. Most of us have done worst things. Even some of us that condemn these girls are most likely the same people that commit these outrageous activities with them. You should be grateful that she told you the truth; and that counts for something; truthfulness should be basis for trust and intervention. Do you know that you can influence anybody who trust you enough to open up on his or her most ridiculous weakness? Life changing influence is most possible where there is truth, trust and love. Introduce her to the life and destiny transforming Name of Jesus; and watch her come out transformed.
If you love her don't just tell us about her weakness, strive to make a testimonial change in her life.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by iannathan(m): 8:46am On Nov 14, 2018
You deserve cold palmwine with Asun
Feranchek:
Have you asked yourself why she divulged so much information to you, knowing how serious you are with her and what her responses could mean to you (and do to the relationship) Well, there could be many things involved:

(1) It could be that she's being truthful cos she doesn't give a Bleep about you or the relationship, so if you like walkout, she doesn't care

(2) She could wanna start a morally sound relationship, hence wanting her new lover to know her past, accept that that was who she WAS, and hope he'll help her (together with her willingness) to become a better person

(3) And of course!!! She could be joking and wants to see what kinda person you are (in terms of maturity and all)

So if the case was number 2, are you ready

Appreciate the fact that she told you the truth sha, unlike a lady I broke up with earlier this year that made me believe she was a Virgin until I finally was able to go intimate with her. I was handling her boobs, sucking them, then went down to finger her. I first fingered with my pinky, cos I didn't want to 'injure' her, but she didn't flinch. Next, I went in with my middle finger, and still she didn't even shake (she was enjoying it and moaning). Then I thought I should surprise myself. Ladies and gentlemen of the press, I went in with my middle and ring fingers, lo and behold my friends, she still didn't flinch!!!! And I was like "but this babe say she be Virgin na!!!!" Anyway, I finished and stopped (we didn't have sex cos she still dey form good gial) But the next day came and I just didn't bother asking (till date), I just told her I was no longer interested in the relationship anymore.

So guy, appreciate that lady for being bold enough to tell you the truth about her past.
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Frankicent(m): 8:46am On Nov 14, 2018
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