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| Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Kelvinj(m): 2:01pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
was just thinking abt this So i wanted 2 have other ppls view on this, do u think its Ok? I mean does it help ur marriage life? Lets rub minds |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by 1102(m): 2:20pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Sure why not, Does their difference in status limit them to speaking wiv other human beings! Your question seriously get K-LEG!! |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by sistawoman: 2:36pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Why not? |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Spyker: 2:47pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
So, if you have an elder brother or sister that is married, you won't talk to them because they are married? I don't think so. 1 Like |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Kelvinj(m): 2:48pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Ok imagine ur off work and ur single guy friends whats u guys 2 go out and stay late nite? |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
@op are u talkin abt frnds of d opposite? |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by sistawoman: 2:53pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Kelvinj: And if your wife and kids have something planned for the evening. . . why cant he go hang out with his friends and still return home at a resonable time. Just because you are married does not mean you cant hang with your friends it just has to be done in moderation. 1 Like |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by SAGoddess: 2:57pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
I am beginning to think marriage is PRISON!  1 Like |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Spyker: 2:59pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
If my friends refused to talk to me because they are married, then what guaranty would they get that i will talk with them when i am married. This is absurd Poster and only a person who does not reason would behave in that manner. IMHO. |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Kelvinj(m): 2:59pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Spyker i dont mean ur siblings, i mean it mite affect the relationship cos of the marital status |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by sistawoman: 3:00pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
SA Goddess: It really is not. . . it is a wonderful experience if done with the proper mate for you. Just be sure to vet him/her properly, make sure their values, goals and morals line up with yours and discuss, discuss, discuss everything you can think of. If you marry a reasonable and evolved man your life will be full of rewards and there wont be anything that the two of you cant work out. |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Kelvinj(m): 3:06pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Well i think y'all aint getting me rite lol. Ok what i mean is that i think it mite just limit the friendship cos the married 1 has got family 2 go bak 2 his wife and kids But the single guy can go home anytime sistawoman:Yeah ur So rite |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by spikedcylinder: 3:10pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
It depends on the relationship that exists between the two friends, the relationship that exists between the friend and the wife/husband. I have a friend who got married exactly one month ago today and I can't imagine not hanging out with him again cuz he's such a great person. On his wedding day, I was so happy for him, I almost cried. He had been looking forward to it so much. His wife and I are cool. I know not to cross the line and disrespect her and she does the same. He can't hang out without bringing his wife along anyway. . . . so cool.  On the other hand, some women are just stark raving lunatics who think their husbands are the best things since cubed sugar and every woman is interested in some way. Best stay away from those or you'll have yourself to blame for engaging with mad people.  1 Like |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by spikedcylinder: 3:13pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
SA Goddess: Marriage is NOT a prison. When one gets married for the wrong reasons, to the wrong person, it becomes a hell hole. Otherwise, it should be a thing of joy, peace and beauty.  |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Kelvinj(m): 3:42pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
spikedcylinder:thats good girl. Ok let me just ask u Ok how would u feel if your hubby tells u he would come bak late cos he's hanging out with his |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by spikedcylinder: 3:49pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Kelvinj: Depends on my relationship with the friend in question. If she's shady, then no no. But if I know her and have no problem with her, why the hell not? I have male friends too na. And from my own orientation, it doesn't hurt to have friends of the opposite gender. If anything, it makes me realise why I chose to be with and trust the person I am with. |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by queeneve: 3:50pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
SA, MARRIAGE is a wonderful union if you are with the right person and both of you willing to duke it out until the end. I do believe that you should be selective who you hang around with especially when you are married but you should denounce your friends simply because you are married. There are hating married friends and hating single friends, JUST BE SELECTIVE on your choice of friends that all! |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by SAGoddess: 3:51pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
My prison comment was in response to the comments I was reading, all good, thanks guys! |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Omolola1(f): 3:51pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
@topic, YESSSS!!! |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Pennywise(m): 3:57pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Yes I am married, but I prefer my female friends to be single. |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Omolola1(f): 3:58pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Hmmmn! what are your reasons? |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Pennywise(m): 4:01pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
^^^Better to be caught with someone's GF than somebody's wife |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Pennywise(m): 4:06pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
OP, if ur marriage is doomed, its doomed. Even if you lock her up in a nunnery |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by spikedcylinder: 4:10pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Pennywise: By 'caught', you mean. . . . ?  |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Pennywise(m): 4:12pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
^^^ Caught. Thanks. There are kids in the house like 190. Have a business meeting get to run. Spiky if you dont understand, will explain later. Cheers. |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Omolola1(f): 4:13pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
aaah!! |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by 1102(m): 4:16pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Pennywise:  |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by queeneve: 4:16pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Speaking of kids, Omola, Do you need a new bib for furry azz? I hear that soggy bib make a house stank and furries drool alot!! |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Omolola1(f): 4:21pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Hehehehe! do i? |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by 1102(m): 4:36pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
queeneve:  |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by Pennywise(m): 5:08pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Spiky if u are on this thread, you have my full attention |
| Re: Should Married People Still Hang Out With Their Single Friends. by queeneve: 5:08pm On Sep 21, 2010 |
Furry azz, You will never top me on the English department, You displaced slowpoke, Lol@speak English, what is this German? Laughing out loud, |
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