to me, diverting one's attention away from his/her partner, and towards another is cheating.
all other sub-reasons may follow suit.
kissing another, building up a mental picture of u and another, daydreaming and most of all, flirting.

@ post
Definitely cheating.

Cheating can be chatting online in a sexual way. When someone of the opp. sex occupies your mind in the way only your spouse should that is cheating, at least to me. I should be the only person that occupies your mind.

I am a selfish lover.

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No two way about it. It is first class cheating.

Save except both partners decided they were going for swinging.

Yes it does outright cheating to kiss another man while you have your own husband right at home!
CHEATING!
CHEATING!
CHEATING!
CHEATING!
CHEATING!
CHEATING!

You will be haunted in your head forever until your forgiven by your husband---stop lustful kissing another man!!!

Pataki:

No two way about it. It is first class cheating.

Save except both partners decided they were going for swinging.

What else could it possibly mean? Praying??

Jackal:

What else could it possibly mean? Praying??

Nope, random sampling.

no its not cheating not at all. maybe your husband can define what it is when he gets u Kissing another man!

kiss on the jaw, i see nothing wrong. But if you talking about "pull-tongue, well that's another story. Ask one of the guys on here who pulled another man tongue if it's considered cheating. for me it's down right nasty but that's just my opinion.

Cooljade:

thanks all 4 your candid thots and views on my post. we r all entitled to figure OUR OWN SIN. as 4 me, i'd pitch my tent on budx side. a kiss lies on the depth of passion involved. i know it may offend my husband but actually and honestly speaking,  we girls enjoy a harmless flirt once in a while cos it kinda makes us feel hot. i'm a sagitterian and love living life to the fullest. i would never let any man ENTER me but i can kiss if i like.
my husband enjoys MTV Base  and channel O at late nights,  and i make fun of him enjoying all them bum shakin. i also made a promise to give him a treat on our next visit to the states. The Treat: inviting a bootilicious bombshell to our hotel just 4 him.
anyways, to some i may sound crazy but thats how my hubby and i are. we live with fun and have 2 sons.
kissing while married, as a means of cheating, is relative.
i enjoy my vibrator and i don't think its cheating. do u? 

@Cooljade
Yes girlfriend you can go ahead and invite not only a bootylicious bombshell but a p-o-r-n freak too for your husband but do us one favour and get a divorce attorney by the side because your wonderful husband may end up preferring the booty of the bombshell to yours. Don't come back to open a thread for us on how you lost your husband just as a woman shed tears in Tyra Bank's show narrating how her husband persuaded her into a t-h-r-e-e-s-o-m-e only for him to end up preferring the third party to her. You go girl!, I mean get your freak on! Where went Miss Elliot?
Get your freak, get your freak, get your freak on!


Whoops, I just noticed that this thread is dated as far back as 2008, will be glad to hear what happened after Miss bombshell was invited?
Cheerio

If a woman is married but they got married cuz of a kid, they sleep in separate beds, hardly talk, history of him cheating, he treats her bad (not hitting) emotionally distant from her. What if she kisses another man? Is that cheating still?