alphaNomega:

Nigga, that union would be less than 2 years old!!! Who in his right senses thinks of a will that early? I can bet none of you shouting "will" here even have one. If you do, I bet it was not in your first 4 years of marriage! Don't be silly.

Do you have a will?! .

Also, why is nobody talking about Vera's family?! Could it be that her family members also neglected the man while he was alive hence his family are returning the favour? What role have they played so far since they heard of the accident? There is a lot to what has happened so far only the judge can decide

Freehuman:
You have every right to be in custody of your child. Damn tradition.
First option :
First of all, report a murder case to the police force. If the sister of your deceased husband actually injected him with what killed him she is guilty of murder but at least manslaughter because of mens rea. She risks being sentenced to life imprisonment alongside those who conspired . When they know she is going in for a potential death through hanging or life imprisonment, you call for a meeting to drop the case with conditions that you or your family members will pick up the case if they ever threaten you or you die prematurely and you should take custody of your child since it is already reported to the police. An undertaking may be signed . Your family members also have to invoke fear so your deceased husband's family know you have a strong backing. If you go through a civil procedure ,that is, filing a suit for custody in court ,it may take 10 years coupled with the fact that you will be in pains as they will have nothing to lose and will keep your daughter throughout these years. But the Murder case will make the police hold their own daughter for possible hanging which will make them kneel down to negotiate.
The irony is that the act of the sister killed her brother
but the belief is that the widow was responsible for the her husband's death. Oh! How barbaric are archaic rituals.

Second option.
Contact a hitman like myself to eliminate everyone who first of all killed your husband and thereafter took your child. I have passion for my job and would love to do it without charge for you.

A mother would choose the first option and a thug like myself would definitely act the second. It's in your hands.

My 2 cents.

adanny01:


The child bears a name that the late father gave. No one can take it away. Does the family have patent rights over the name? WTF are you talking about?

Sterope:
You think it is me that has time to engage words with a man who thinks a grandmother has a right over child than the birth mother.

alphaNomega:


Calm down, I'm on your side. Just anwser

UPDATE (after several posts from you and no response to the question): This means you do not know what to do when your in-laws try to take away the properties of your deceased married children. You would fold your hands and watch. The in-laws now own everything. The End.

djon78:



And where was grandmother mentioned in what I said. Go and read my 1st post here, your understanding is suspect

Sterope:
The definition of father's family excludes grandmother abi.

neyobills:


Like I said your question is too vague and does not deserve any reasonable reply however if u can't wrap your head around constructing a question of a sentence then I'm sorry I can't help you.

PrinceGallant:


Well, I am a Yoruba man, I don't know her for anywhere. And I can't let anyone appeal to my emotion so as to stray from being objective. There is much hidden to what she explained. Let's be reasonable.

djon78:


Grandmother never came in the particular case I mentioned. You are the one twisting things to suit your narrative

phineas:


Then you are the type they call omo ale jati jati. For bringing your Yoruba heritage as an excuse to justify nonsense.

Yoruba people are noble and they don't stand for injustice. No Yoruba family will do this without widespread condemnation from all Yoruba persons. They will even shun and blacklist the guys family. So what exactly is your point

Sterope:
Yorubas family that insist on marrying the widow. There are Yoruba families that exclude the wife and children from inheriting their husband and father's. There are Yoruba families that have kidnapped someone else's child( this is very rare though, it depends on the family)

Most cultures are patriarchical which means in every culture women including widows widow is often treated unfairly and unjust. This is not a war between tribes. Nothing is special about our tribe

phineas:


You are obviously a representative of the family or you speak for them. Go and return the child to the recuperating widow

Sterope:
List of father's family

1. Grandfather- Father's father
2. Grandmother- father's mothrt
3. Uncle- Father's brother
4. Aunt- Father's sister
5. Cousins- father's nieces and nephews

Your claim is that the above have rights over a woman whose egg was fertilised, carried the child for nine months, delivered the child and probably breastfed the child all because it is the father's family that owns the child.

neyobills:


Does it make any sense to alienate the family of the father of the child denying them their identity right to see their grandchild

SyNnadi:


The in-laws didn't inform her n her family that a date has been fixed for his burial. She got to know from their landlady in Lagos who called to give her condolence greeting to her and thereby told her that her sister in law called and is requesting access into their apartment to pack their belongings. That if d wife has anything valuable in the apartment that she should come and get them before on the 12th which is d burial....... That was how she n her family learnt that a date was fixed for his burial

Dami12345:


I love you. No homo

phineas:


Then you are the type they call omo ale jati jati to fill owo osi juwe ile baba e. That's for bringing your Yoruba heritage as an excuse to justify nonsense.

Yoruba people are noble and they don't stand for injustice. No Yoruba family will do this without widespread condemnation from all Yoruba persons. They will even shun and blacklist the guys family. So what exactly is your point

Sterope:
List of father's family

1. Grandfather- Father's father
2. Grandmother- father's mothrt
3. Uncle- Father's brother
4. Aunt- Father's sister
5. Cousins- father's nieces and nephews

Your claim is that the above have rights over a woman whose egg was fertilised, carried the child for nine months, delivered the child and probably breastfed the child all because it is the father's family that owns the child.

deltateam:


Its either you are not living in Nigeria or you were born in the bush otherwise you will know a child married traditionally belongs to the man's family and bears their name.

The child in question is a minor and should be raised by the mother unless she's incapacitated.

Go back and tell your father or uncle if you have to educate you. Stop spreading your ignorance.

Sterope:
Wow! There are lot of kidnappers on the forum. Who knew? How many children have you kidnaped from the mothers in name of a stupid archaic tradition?

deltateam:


I have confirmed you are nuts and beyond simple comprehension.

phineas:
@ SyNnadi

Should they refuse to return the child. Please let me know via mention if and when a legal case starts on this matter. She will need logistics to get her witnesses to court with ease. I may not be able to follow the threads due to a busy schedule. However I will be happy to contribute to the process to make it easy on her and her friends. I will accept an account number from your handle on this post at such time just cc me. Please don't do dm.

Alright.

Till then let's know if her baby is back by Sunday or not.So the influencers can do their part.

PrinceGallant:


I do not in the least doubt that you are oponu alainilakai. If you have sense, you should be able to see beyond what she explained. But being agba osika to maa n gbo ejo enu enikan dajo, you have manifested how nitwit and stupid you are.

I have to tell you that I am a Yoruba man when in your wicked heart accusing me of coming from her husband's family and calling me a kidnapper. I am a true son of Yoruba, and you are the bastard, ole lo maa n mo ese ole to. Omo ale ara e.

Nobody can becloud me with emotion, you can go ahead and cry

Sterope:
Yorubas family that insist on marrying the widow. There are Yoruba families that exclude the wife and children from inheriting their husband and father's. There are Yoruba families that have kidnapped someone else's child( this is very rare though, it depends on the family)

Most cultures are patriarchical which means in every culture women including widows widow is often treated unfairly and unjust. This is not a war between tribes. Nothing is special about our tribe.

kaziblake:
Bleep The hate on yorubas is real mehn because these are pure lies

Sterope:
I am very much Yoruba by the way. It happens but it is not common and it is not be norm. Besides ours is a patriarchal society, nothing should suprise you.

alphaNomega:


Fixed

NoRetreat:
why can't you state your comment without cancelling mine?