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Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by deco22(m): 7:43pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
stormborn28:If you are stupid, you are stupid. I wish there was a way to educate you but I am sorry. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by stormborn28(m): 7:55pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
deco22:you must be very very stupid and mad... If you don't have anything in that skull pretend that you have by remaining silent 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by dollytino4real(f): 8:23pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:my ex or my present which one are u guy |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Acidosis(m): 8:32pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
RredbulL: I don't think this is the issue. Mood swings won't drag you to the point of extreme irritation, disgust and breakup. It's not even about familiarity 'cos she can't be more familiar than the average married woman in a loving and adorable marriage. |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by SmellingAnus(m): 8:32pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
dollytino4real:anyone you like na |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by dollytino4real(f): 8:36pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:ok, long time no talk |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Acidosis(m): 8:37pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
The moment you start seeing the need to change boyfriends like pampers without a reasonable reason, just know that you're already a prost.itute-in-progress. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Fantazy(m): 8:48pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
You know u have a problem, Thank God Just look for a solution to ur problem before its too late |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by SmellingAnus(m): 8:52pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
dollytino4real:you don come back |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by dollytino4real(f): 8:54pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:yes dear since |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by missjo(f): 9:05pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
sisisioge:Commitment phobia |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by TenthMan(m): 9:23pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
Ellatee256: They are becoming annoying doormats. Allowing you inhale but waiting to exhale. They aren't giving you breathing space. It is not only annoying to you. Even men hate it when ladies do this. Most ladies think they are being homely and showing their domestic side by being there always at the guy's beck and call and reporting for "duty" daily. No one wants them to be there everyday. Neither do you don't want them to be there everyday. It is a natural reaction in my opinion. They need to be scarce. When you don't see them for a while you'll look for them. It is classic human psychology. Why is sand considered dirt and diamonds considered valuable? Because diamonds are hard to find. Sand is everywhere. Seen everywhere. It is annoying to the extent that it is called dirt. But then sand grains are also minerals. Just not valuable. It could be that you provide great company. You are smart, great company and you are physically attractive. Hence they want to be with you, spend time with you and they are afraid of loosing you and don't trust that other men aren't trying to snatch you. They are trying too hard to show you they care and miss you. Their mitigation is probably to try as much as possible to be all up in your face. But this backfires because it becomes irritating like "ahn ahn.. Guy, don't you have other things to do? I should not be the beginning and end of your life na". Forget the men talking about Shiloh etc. Men (especially Nigerian men) are afraid of a woman who doesn't mind calling off relationships. It pricks their egos. Marriage isn't an award or achievement. Funny thing is, even as men we also want our alone time. It is known that psychologically when we return from work we want to be alone and rummage over the day. We do so most times in front of the TV. This comes from our hunter gatherer ancestors who after hunting dangerous wild animals, sat in front of fires in the evening reliving their near death experiences. They also want to plan for the next day. We have evolved with that as men till date. The women also evolved with wanting the men to be gone too. To go and hunt. To chase Down the Mammoth. To be missed a little so that when they return (with the kill) the women are glad to see them. So yes, there is an innate desire to see the man gone for a while. There is an innate desire by the women like yourself to have their own space. You are quite independent and don't hide your feelings. That is the difference. Other women subdue the urge. You seem to be a vocal and very expressive type. And you take actions on your feelings. That is the only difference. Other women will die in silence yet loathing the man/men. Men need to be alpha males. And need to be strong even if it means miss seeing you a a day or two. They should have a life. People love differently at various times in their lives. Some people will latter overlook this or mature enough to swallow being smothered by a lover. Some will never want to. You are young and as such have the luxury of choices as well. Perhaps when you mature further you may realize it isn't so bad afterall. But your feeling isn't strange. Not at all. Of course everything has its pros and cons. In the society of ours where men have bloated egos, it hurts them to see a woman who acts based on her likes/dislikes. Men expect you put up with them and not the other way round. So be ready to face societal reactions like the one from your Sister who feels you have a spiritual problem. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Nicoddemus(m): 9:24pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
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Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by WisdomHunter(m): 9:44pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
Ellatee256: I think we share the same problem here, my own is that if I see a girl i like i will be seeing her like she all and my last if a get her, but if i shoot my shot and she say yes I will feel super excited and wanting to show her off to anyone that cares but it will only last for few months. My own worst sef i have never be in a relationship reach one year, this issue gives serious thought till i decided to break from girls till i meet the one i will cherish forever because i don know whether it is because the types of girls i met or whatever, some times i worry over this but never have the courage to seek for advice. But i never believe is something spiritual and most of my fears is can i get married with someone and live with her forever? Because am someone that likes privacy very well. |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Bynz: 9:51pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
Kenturkey048: Lol... She gat give herself brain 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by SlimzDboss(m): 10:01pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
My sister, you’ve not found true love yet believe me. |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Bynz: 10:02pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
jeff1607: And probably at that age/phase it will be the guys turn not to take her unserious and doing the breakups. it's like karma! My suggestion to her is to settle with one now and double her effort in making her relationship work |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Nobody: 10:03pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
Rexnegro:drop your whatsapp number |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by mercyviv(f): 10:21pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
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Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by berryace007: 11:07pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
Quick one_ try girls maybe you are a lesbian. No offence tho |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Skmoda(m): 11:23pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
carzola:She is a bad market and immature... |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by DaddyRochie1642: 11:36pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
MedicH: That's why I always say, "NEVER DATE A STUDENT", Those Idiots don't know what the want, I bet you,if the so called boyfriend wasn't visiting her now,....she will be the same person that will run to nairaland and start LAMENTING that her boyfriend doesn't give her attention, **Shakes my head in disgust**. CLOWNS 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Rexnegro(m): 11:59pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
qualityGod:why bro ? |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Rexnegro(m): 12:02am On Oct 02, 2019 |
EmekaBlue:probably bro , we won't ever see this thread from her. |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by alexola20(m): 12:02am On Oct 02, 2019 |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Thunderblasts(m): 3:54am On Oct 02, 2019 |
I cancelled dating students long ago shaa. They ain't real. Op imagine yourself being single at 27 and working. Will you be thinking of dumping any guy in your life? Also that period, remember this same guy you also dumped and pray you get lucky to get another serious guy b4 then shaa ooo.. Follow your mind but be 100% ready for the future consequences!!! No single lady at 26-47 will not deny having dudes in her life b4 that she once dumped just for nothing sake!! You need to understand that the male specie is now a scarce commodity talk more of serious focused ones sef... Take care oo |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Nobody: 6:29am On Oct 02, 2019 |
Rexnegro:you sent me a pm but nevermind |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by jeff1607(m): 8:00am On Oct 02, 2019 |
Bynz: the issue is will they listen |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by DonX001: 8:25am On Oct 02, 2019 |
udemzyudex: Gbam! I don't know how some guys fail to understand this. You can't be spending your lives all up in a girl's face like you have nothing else to do with your life. Some girls enjoy attention, but many girls also find excessive attention stifling. It may seem interesting initially, but after a few months it gets tiresome. Its called "see finish". Give them room to miss you. Guys should come and borrow a leaf from me.... call like once in every 2-3 days, sometimes even up to 1 week sef, so she's really happy that you've "finally remembered her" each time you decide to call. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by DonX001: 8:28am On Oct 02, 2019 |
TenthMan: Gbam!!! You've said it all. There's nothing more to add. Co-signed by me. |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by deco22(m): 9:06am On Oct 02, 2019 |
stormborn28:Says the bastard that came to my mention to be asking me what other things God created his mother for, Bleep off. |
Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by Kryzboy(m): 9:07am On Oct 02, 2019 |
Ellatee256:maybe you are that kind of person that want to use boys, not ready for relationship. |
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