Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY

grossintel:
Have you met any member of his family? Before you go anywhere with him please meet his family on video call, add his sister on Facebook and get to know her more. You need to make sure his for real, you're very young and vulnerable sorry to say. Please, not discouraging you but just be careful. My sister is married to an American, we dragged the guy down here to do the wedding and traditional things before she goes anywhere with him. We know his family members / SSN and down to his address cause a've used his address to order something on Amazon and he brought it while coming. If you only know this guy and no one else around him then he's still a ghost and you should be worried.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Not the usual gbos gbas Grammer you like typing eh

Newguyhere:


please modify this so it's bold. I want her to see it.
That girl is extremely naive!!! I just hope she doesn't get killed and her organs sold on the black market.
Abroad and white skin dey skack am

Pettyprincess:

No he never asked of any of my nudes
Most white guys i gave talked with they ask me of my nude the very beginning of our chat bt he never did nd we together for a year now
Infact he told me girls that send him nude are
whores nd used hoes
We actually planning to be together fully next year by applying for student visa
He has really helped me alot both financially nd mentally
Bt because he is white people think his intentions are not pure.

mrdharkchild:
All these attention u guys r wasting here, I need em all. She's 21 and all she cares about is a bf. Abeggi I am searching for a sapiosexual girlie, let us kill ourselves with intelligence.

Pettyprincess:

Lol you must be stalking my post enough to know i am dating a polish
Anyways he is best guy any lady will ask for
Always interested in my future nd i literally know everything about him!!
We have been together for a year now
So i dnt think any of what you mentioning exist!!
Nd Poland is in Central Europe not Eastern!!!

Lamanii22:



I don't agree with that statement... I tried to date a guy one time, he loved me so much, cares for me and all that jazz... But I never loved him back.. I'd rather date someone I love and hopefully he loves me back too...

Guest007:


What's paining you though, are you crushing on her? because you take carry her matter for head

mrdharkchild:
All these attention u guys r wasting here, I need em all. She's 21 and all she cares about is a bf. Abeggi I am searching for a sapiosexual girlie, let us kill ourselves with intelligence.

luvyaself95:


what do you mean by Nigeria mentality you're really sick for saying that.
You girls are deceitful and guys are tricky so what wrong with that.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Dude really? This the best you could come up with? Why do we concentrate on the negatives though

Newguyhere:


take a look at this lady's chest and your chest, see how beautifully curved she is, compared to you.
You both are not even in the same league when it comes to looks.
She is way prettier and presentable in my opinion.
You look underage and sort of scrawny looking

Pettyprincess:

Geez!!! I am 21!!!
Hw is 21 years old lady a small girl?

VicM6:
After reading ur article, i just smile.
you want an outsider right?... you don't want to date any Nigeria guys.
This is just the part 1.

wen the part 2 will start now, u will open another acct and come here lamenting trash to us abt how ur relationship is....


you don't have feelings for him but u have feelings for his money bah... continue you hear, God will judge u.

Newguyhere:


take a look at this lady's chest and your chest, see how beautifully curved she is, compared to you.
You both are not even in the same league when it comes to looks.
She is way prettier and presentable in my opinion.
You look underage and sort of scrawny looking

Pettyprincess:

I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.

Pettyprincess:

You are very stupid slowpoke nd a fool!!!
I might be young that doesn't mean i dnt have passport or can't travel!!!
Not every one is stupid like you!!!
It's not my fault you never traveled outside Nigeria idiot!!!

awwfar:
God forbid make I compare my gf to a horror looking abominable goblin like u.. God punish u over the notice you statement.. Bleep off

dominique:
Pained guys everywhere with bruised egos. A person should have the rights to reject the advances of someone they're not attracted to without shamed. When a guy broke up with his girlfriend because of big brother Naija, you people were hailing him. Now a lady wants to turn down a guy she's not interested in, you're heaping curses on her. Bunch of hypocrites.

You go shaming ladies at every opportunity you get, open female bashing threads on a daily basis. Now the females you love to hate are finding love in other countries yet you're still pained. Shouldn't you be happy that they're leaving you alone for foreigners? Oh! I forgot. They're the only ones that can stomach your bullshits, them and the obese, one foot in the grave foreign women that show interest in you .

Pettyprincess:

Thanks i know!!!
Most girls that are victims of sex trafficking are usually deceived by Nigerians promising to get them job in Europe
If i dont trust him nd he doesn't t trust me our relationship would never exist!!
He knows my mum dad nd sister,he is even friends on facebook with my sister nd do talk about Nigerian culture with my sister nd why i dnt wear Yoruba native wear
He even plans on visiting here soon!
So he's not a human trafficker or whatsoever.

Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:


You don't need to keep explaining yourself to every Tom, dick and Harry here. Just read their criticisms and leave. You'll keep replying word for word if you take everything you see here to heart. I learnt this the hard way.