generationz:


Nairaland romance section isn't the best place to seek advice. Most of the guys here hate women and see women as tools.

That said, I'm truly proud of you.

You are one of the rare guys out there who's head isn't filled with sexual perversion. You can think straight even when the sex is being offered by a lady you like.

You know what you want and have a high self worth.

Your type hardly ever cheats in marriage.

Like I always say, if you are faithful to self when single then you can be faithful to your spouse when married.

So, about the babe, if she is not one ogbanje after your soul then she is definitely after something else. Maybe to make you a side nigga to get money from or she's just crazy about how you can have such self control.

I wouldn't advice you go against your principle to please her. I don't see the relationship working with that start. You'll always wonder if that's how she throws herself at other men she likes.

I mean, if it was just once it won't be bad but her persistence isn't a good sign. Says a lot about her self worth. She might be the type who seeks validation through her body.

generationz:


Imagine a man (you) thinking he knows anything.

Pharaoh4rin:


I never knew a lady can voice an honest opinion about their fellow. Nice one!
But this is same way NLers points to Lady's misdeeds and u tagged them as haters. Right?

lilbest4:
hahahaha. I am frustrated my friend. I feel like an evening newspaper

generationz:

lilbest4:
É really pain me. Lmao so you took time to edit that lol. I will masturbate because I am a loser

generationz:

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

lilbest4:
very good confirming what I said by typing with your own hands you are a loser

generationz:


And you shall be banned.

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

lilbest4:
I don't have a life outside Nairaland.

bobokeshington:


You mean you rejected free "toto"??

My guy your mumu na 10/10

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

seanwilliam:
hmm. if i were u, i will totally withdraw my attention and play reversed psychology on her or i will fucck her and turn her to my sexual object and kill all the good intention i have for her.

Kevsmart88:
spot on....av gotten to a point in my life where am not easily swayed by emotions or controlled by my d**k...i jus want do to it right....thanks,i feel better

Alexaonfleek:
no be every toto Dem dey fvck.that is how you will goan fvck spirit

bobokeshington:


me dey fvck anything fvkable... Ano wan no whether na spirit abi na human being

bobokeshington:


You mean you rejected free "toto"??

My guy your mumu na 10/10

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

showafrica:


You bad gan, I know those type of ladies. I don't usually succumb to there advances. They usually withdraw from you after 3 or 4 tries. To me they have hidden agenda, I don't like it when a woman wants to seduces me to have sex with her

seanwilliam:
hmm. if i were u, i will totally withdraw my attention and play reversed psychology on her or i will fucck her and turn her to my sexual object and kill all the good intention i have for her.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Perhaps she wanna check if u guys are sexually compatible before committing into the relationship... I may b wrong

Kevsmart88:
and what makes you think i only want sex....the life u choose to lead is solely dependent on choices...it's obvious u misunderstood my post...have a great day young man

Kingsteve:
All these forming sef...
Toto, you no get, even when offered on a platter...
Relationship, you no get!
To what end?
Smh