Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

YorubaNinja:
She's trying to eat and have her cake at a time. She doesn't wanna date you as, she probably has someone more serious on the side but ONLY trying to get some from you and, move on.

"6-You've just increased ur self-worthiness. You've made urself a difficult code to decipher. 7-This increases her curiosity and inquisitiveness abt you" .... Man Law, 4:6-7

"Now that you've earned urself the bargaining power, next move... Take a few steps back from chasing her and, she'll do the chase! ... Cracking the G-Code, 10:7

YorubaNinja:
She's trying to eat and have her cake at a time. She doesn't wanna date you as, she probably has someone more serious on the side but ONLY trying to get some from you and, move on.

"6-You've just increased ur self-worthiness. You've made urself a difficult code to decipher. 7-This increases her curiosity and inquisitiveness abt you" .... Man Law, 4:6-7

"Now that you've earned urself the bargaining power, next move... Take a few steps back from chasing her and, she'll do the chase! ... Cracking the G-Code, 10:7

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

Prompto:
Later you'll come back to NL wailing that one girl you love gave it to another. Girl tell you she no want serious relationship, you sha wan force her. If she start messing around with your heart u go de wail up n down like rnoron.

solmusdesigns:



God save my perveted mind,.. to me i dont ask a lady out, i barely get her comfy with me and try to get smoochy....... now they say its sexual harrassment


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Newboss:
Dude, no fūck session is ever wasted. Practice makes perfect. Ronaldo is deadly in front of goal because he keeps practising.

YorubaNinja:
She's trying to eat and have her cake at a time. She doesn't wanna date you as, she probably has someone more serious on the side but ONLY trying to get some from you and, move on.

"6-You've just increased ur self-worthiness. You've made urself a difficult code to decipher. 7-This increases her curiosity and inquisitiveness abt you" .... Man Law, 4:6-7

"Now that you've earned urself the bargaining power, next move... Take a few steps back from chasing her and, she'll do the chase! ... Cracking the G-Code, 10:7

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

Kevsmart88:
Hello romancelanders...am gonna be quite brief.
Have been asking this damsel out for quite a couple of months now,she keeps giving me the i'm not ready response.. she has been to my place on two occasions and each time she visits,she tries initiating sex which i refuse albeit politely in a bid to prove to her I want more than just sex nor the friends with benefits ish but each time i refuse,she ends up saying it was a test....am in my early 30's looking for a serious relationship with this same lady...but what got me real perplexed was her reaction while leaving today,she looked scorned and a bit infuriated...a part of me regrets my not giving in while the other part lavish accolades on me for my resolve...pls advise me cos i feel like i lost her already.....whatever happens, i feel posterity will judge me fairly.....should I jus let her be or persist?

generationz:


At the and of the day isn't all your man code and G code going to end up with sex?

Why not just chop now.

lilbest4:
imagine a girl thinking she knows how to be a man

generationz:


Nairaland romance section isn't the best place to seek advice. Most of the guys here hate women and see women as tools.

That said, I'm truly proud of you.

You are one of the rare guys out there who's head isn't filled with sexual perversion. You can think straight even when the sex is being offered by a lady you like.

You know what you want and have a high self worth.

Your type hardly ever cheats in marriage.

Like I always say, if you are faithful to self when single then you can be faithful to your spouse when married.

So, about the babe, if she is not one ogbanje after your soul then she is definitely after something else. Maybe to make you a side nigga to get money from or she's just crazy about how you can have such self control.

I wouldn't advice you go against your principle to please her. I don't see the relationship working with that start. You'll always wonder if that's how she throws herself at other men she likes.

I mean, if it was just once it won't be bad but her persistence isn't a good sign. Says a lot about her self worth. She might be the type who seeks validation through her body.

generationz:


Who?

generationz:


At the end of the day isn't all your man code and G code going to end up with sex?

Why not just chop now.

generationz:


At the end of the day isn't all your man code and G code going to end up with sex?

Why not just chop now.

lilbest4:
imagine a girl thinking she knows how to be a man

kingxsamz:


, I wonder o...
Food dey my front, instead make I chop am, I con dey find wetin no loss.

Kevsmart88:
it feels good hearing this from you ...am definitely not perfect but I ain't a fool either....tnks a lot