Hello Men in the house ,(and women too )

what exactly is the secret to keeping your husband faithful and committed to you ?

if you follow all the rules by the book , will it work out well ?

you are a good cook, and his meals are always hot and ready
you respect your man
you take good care of the home,
share in his passions and dreams and hobbies,
encourage him in all his pursuits
be available always
you both communicate your feelings as much as is possible
make your home a heaven for him to always come back to as much as you can
etc etc etc

can you be assured that you will not get a rude shock along the line ?

I just want to know

is there more that can be done to make a man happy ?

cheers.

Good question. Trust me na God oooo. You can be d best wife ever, what will happen, will happen. So God got a major role there, if u ask me.

adaphik:

Good question. Trust me na God oooo. You can be d best wife ever, what will happen, will happen. So God got a major role there, if u ask me.

true

Most times yes so pray tell that you fall in the highly weighted percentage

madam you need God.All the teachings and seminas on how to make your husband loves is nothing but mere oratory.If your husband doesn't love you it will take God for him to start loving you.My question is,how did yopu people meet in the first place,were you forced on each other.Just hang in there.www.mymarriage-is-now..com

keep a man. .bla bla bla.when wud men strive to keep their womencant men stay without a keeper?abegiii

I think women deceive themselve so much with this god things being the only reason that can guarantee a good home without working on themselves. If really you do all those things you listed without compromising, most men including myself will always come back to their wife at home and when he's about going astray, his conscience draws him back that he is making a big mistake which automatically tells him to self correct himself.
I am not against equal right in the home between men and women but either part you choose has its consequence. In the west, marriage and family value is dead because both parties feel they are equal so nobody should be in charge. But every man have some level of conscience and I believe will always try his best to satisfy and be good to a woman that is really submissive to him. So its not the god factor as you all preach here but your behaviour towards the man.

There is no guarantee. You just do your best and hope and hope for the best. When the sacrifice, love and tolerance is only from one side, it may not be enough.
Some men are mean and without conscience. The more you give, the more the abuse you and scorn you. All pleas only disgust them.
They will go on to do what they want to do.
How many years will you wait for a man to change and come back to his senses?
What about a man that has no sense?

ifyalways:

keep a man. .bla bla bla.when wud men strive to keep their womencant men stay without a keeper?abegiii

There is a man out there that want to keep you, take care of you , make you happy, see you progress without any condition attached, I pray you find him. Then you will value this post. When you meet such a man, you wouldn't want to let him go.

@Poster. Above all that you have narrated. PRAYER works. and keep urself beautiful always.

likeme pls pray for the fortunate woman that wud want to keep u or keepin u.i have a man that needs no "keeper".thank u!

likeme:

There is a man out there that want to keep you, take care of you , make you happy, see you progress without any condition attached, I pray you find him. Then you will value this post. When you meet such a man, you wouldn't want to let him go.

I can't even deny the truth in your post. Absolutely true! I am speaking from experience and I wouldn't trade him for any other. And trust me, you don't even have to do so much when you got the right man. Love my Angel!

Im tired of topics on keeping men. Wetin?!
For the last time you cannot mop or cook your way into a man's heart.No matter how great you are at keeping house, you have no control over his loins.

spoilt:

Im tired of topics on keeping men. Wetin?!
For the last time you cannot mop or cook your way into a man's heart.No matter how great you are at keeping house, you have no control over his loins.

Maybe you should learn from this post,

2good:

I think women deceive themselve so much with this god things being the only reason that can guarantee a good home without working on themselves. If really you do all those things you listed without compromising, most men including myself will always come back to their wife at home and when he's about going astray, his conscience draws him back that he is making a big mistake which automatically tells him to self correct himself.
I am not against equal right in the home between men and women but either part you choose has its consequence. In the west, marriage and family value is dead because both parties feel they are equal so nobody should be in charge. But every man have some level of conscience and I believe will always try his best to satisfy and be good to a woman that is really submissive to him. So its not the god factor as you all preach here but your behaviour towards the man.

I think he has a very good point.

If really you do all those things you listed without compromising, most men including myself will always come back to their wife at home and when he's about going astray, his conscience draws him back that he is making a big mistake which automatically tells him to self correct himself.

not every man has a conscience and not all men listen to their conscience even if they have one.

being a stepford wife is no guarantee of anything, though it doesnt mean women should go haywire.

the only weapon anyone has is prayer.

bottom line is this

it is up to him to be faithfull

It pays to be a gud wife.
A bad wife wud give d man more reason to be out there the more.

onye ije:

if you follow all the rules by the book , will it work out well ?

It ought to but, it's not always the case.
A man that wants to stray at all costs cannot be kept.

femmy2010:

It pays to be a gud wife.
A bad wife wud give d man more reason to be out there the more.

so it pays for not allowing woman not going out without me or someone close to me to escort her to shopping etc?

onye ije:

Hello Men in the house ,(and women too )

what exactly is the secret to keeping your husband faithful and committed to you ?

if you follow all the rules by the book , will it work out well ?

you are a good cook, and his meals are always hot and ready
you respect your man
you take good care of the home,
share in his passions and dreams and hobbies,
encourage him in all his pursuits
be available always
you both communicate your feelings as much as is possible
make your home a heaven for him to always come back to as much as you can
etc etc etc

can you be assured that you will not get a rude shock along the line ?

I just want to know

is there more that can be done to make a man happy ?
cheers.

All I can say is . . . you do the best you can and leave the rest for God!

Men are 'almost' impossible to please!

Nay, that's not enof, last thing you forgot:
Pray for him always, I think dat secures his life rather than being "good" alone,

The ones that struggles to keep a man are the ones who struggled to get him
Be yourself. And don't stress yourself to please anyone

Some men like "good wife" some men like "bad wife"

It is a start. You also need God.

I noticed you missed out the sexual nature of the relationship. Taking good care of yourself helps esp when it becomes a competition with the sweet sixteens. You also have to challenge your man without unsurping his 'authority'. You do not have to give in to his every requests but make him feel like a man and one that is extremely lucky to have you.

do everything you can plus pray always. thats the best you can do.

ifyalways:

keep a man. .bla bla bla.when wud men strive to keep their womencant men stay without a keeper?abegiii

mutter:

There is no guarantee. You just do your best and hope and hope for the best. When the sacrifice, love and tolerance is only from one side, it may not be enough.
Some men are mean and without conscience. The more you give, the more the abuse you and scorn you. All pleas only disgust them.
They will go on to do what they want to do.
How many years will you wait for a man to change and come back to his senses?
What about a man that has no sense?

Just like being a good husband is not enough to keep a woman.

You would hear tales like "You are too good for me"

Just do your part and leave the rest

rubi:

The ones that struggles to keep a man are the ones who struggled to get him
Be yourself. And don't stress yourself to please anyone

Some men like "good wife" some men like "bad wife"

Gbam. Y struggle to keep a man? The man himself no get sense? Can't he struggle to keep u too. Rather than kill urself trying to please men, like I said earlier, na only God be d solution. Even if u have to pray urself to unconsciousness, just keep praying. I prefer prayer making me sick, if it does, than a man. Hmmmmmm

spoilt:

Im tired of topics on keeping men. Wetin?!
For the last time you cannot mop or cook your way into a man's heart.No matter how great you are at keeping house, you have no control over his loins.

adaphik:

Gbam. Y struggle to keep a man? The man himself no get sense? Can't he struggle to keep u too. Rather than kill urself trying to please men, like I said earlier, na only God be d solution. Even if u have to pray urself to unconsciousness, just keep praying. I prefer prayer making me sick, if it does, than a man. Hmmmmmm

lol.Even sheep learn to behave when the shepherd is out

ZIM DRILL:

bottom line is this

it is up to him to be faithfull

Thank u.
And it goes both ways,anything outside that is story! Just do your bit as a partner and leave the rest.Many women have died b4 their time,trying to keep,watch,monitor and satisfy their men . . .and when they finally die,LIFE goes on for the men.

define GOOD wife. . . . . . . .

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ferdiii:

sheeps? Is this what the children will learn?

mazel tov!
dont get into a passionate tryst abt the children yet,they are doing just fine.