purples25:


at least with dignity man. At least with some dignity.

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Dignity kor....are you on his mind?...

most of you babes are same...money for hand ..back for ground...

purples25:


i got unhappy cuz i would have been okay with just calls and texts and a little attention but nope. And i brought my money so he would know that i wasn't after being over spent on. Though i hoped that would make him lax to just spend very little without feeling robbed or cheated. I would've been okay with a park where you enter for free, walk round come out. I just wanted us to do simple things as a couple.

i reacted due to the reasons above though. Now i am there but i am not there - dont try to understand it, cuz you wont. Anyway, not bringing money? Make sure you bring other things.

He's not in love and he's not on the same page with you.

Move on jare ,dust yourself and forget the guy. He doesn't deserve you. Simply put

purples25:
But seriously if these complaints are coming now, i wonder what will happen when a wife who bears your kids comes into the picture. This attitude is not because of the girls, rather its a habit. A guy that is complaining of 2k now, hmmm. He thinks when he marries he will change. But by then it is a habit and he cannot and most guys, their families end up funding themselves cuz father is stingy with money.

not a matter of stingy ...in a civilised world ...a boyfriend owes you nothing till you marry him...not even a penny ...but here in Nigeria una dey use toto dey collect money ...Chineke mere unu Ebere

victorian:












Lol but even it's copy copy, with the billions of naira, they still did it.

And many more will still kneel down and beg woman to marry them.

Including you. But as a faceless forum u will be forming jagaban.

I bet you will beg your gf for sex this night!

that is not begging. I can only kneel down for a woman when I am sure the answer will be yes .

beg for sex this night? I am on my bed alone. even if I am with a girlfriend, I can't have sex every night

victorian:







He's not in love and he's not on the same page with you.

Move on jare ,dust yourself and forget the guy. He doesn't deserve you. Simply put

will you share your boyfriend with her?

stupidity:
dont mind him. He wants to use bottle water to fvck someone’s daughter, sister, girlfriend.

etc

niaralandtopuser:

not everyone should have a companion. God should have created same number of men and women if that was his aim.
we all know the kneeling down by a Nigerian man is just formality. we don't even understand what we are doing. we just dea copy oyibo

do you smoke weed? Pray that too much sense wee not kee you. I think I’ll be sending you my topics for approval and editing before I post on here.

niaralandtopuser:

and now your resolution is not to bring your own money into a relationship?
what are the other things he should bring? attention? sex( girls love sex too)?

last i remember, brought money, around 5k before i left my job this july. Look, call and text a lot, go to places it only costs 200 for both of you. Talk a lot, let her talk endlessly with you. Play, joke, be open about your past, family, job( so she can discuss problems with you ) , with no malice and games. Let both of you be ready before sex, sex is not a do or die thing. Thats all.

purples25:


well, i've been in a relationship without paying. Partly its the mammy water pretty over sexy girls that some guys want...... Ok that aside, you are right sha. No one should pay.

And the good guys never get to meet the good girls... like Joe said. Good intentions never win.

stupidity:
do you smoke weed? Pray that too much sense wee not kee you. I think I’ll be sending you my topics for approval and editing before I post on here.

lol
your topics are nice. I don't create topics on nairaland. I only search for interesting topics when I am bored. I don't have time to type long stuff.

purples25:


last i remember, brought money, around 5k before i left my job this july. Look, call and text a lot, go to places it only costs 200 for both of you. Talk a lot, let her talk endlessly with you. Play, joke, be open about your past, family, job( so she can discuss problems with you ) , with no malice and games. Let both of you be ready before sex, sex is not a do or die thing. Thats all.

hmmm
good to hears sha.
these may look as easy things to do but not so easy. the struggle to make money always make us forget other things.
there are no perfect relationship sha. you can only get perfection in novels .
we all deserve a mate who is loyal and committed

Badb0y4lyf:
If you have not dated a foreign lady then you don’t know what it means to be in a relationship Nigerian Girls are parasitic. Always looking out for them selves alone my brother that girl dating you only likes you for that fancy cloth perfume nice ride or apartment you live in.

say no more

Riele:


Do you know every girl in Nigeria to tag them parasitic? .

Don't generalize!.

Not generalizing speaking the utter truth and from more than 20 years experience with them. Send me your account statement for this year and I will show you at least 3 boys that sent you money probably the phone your using to type was gotten from one of your toasters or your boyfriend.

The earlier u realise pussy doent worth the stress the better my brothers.... no girl I repeat no girl loves u from the bottom of her heart( unconditionally) it is either she loves u for what u get, or what there is high(100%) tendency you'll get.. e.g if you're broke and a fine and competitive girl dey with u, it is either she's not got the better offer or u are doing something she's really(100%) convinced that it has potentials and she knows she will be the ultimate beneficiary and enjoys the dividend.. that's why I dont blame ballers guys that treat ladies like shit..



Also if worwor girl( girl with no class) claims to love u, my brother, she knows she's a garri that everyone manages when there's no better food insight. So she gonna bombard u with everything u want , as far as she's capable of doing it

Cc. Stupidity, Badb0y4lyf

Badb0y4lyf:

Not generalizing speaking the utter truth and from more than 20 years experience with them. Send me your account statement for this year and I will show you at least 3 boys that sent you money probably the phone your using to type was gotten from one of your toasters or your boyfriend.

nairaland ladies are hypocrite, quoting dem make dem feel like they are important bro... most of them dont worth it bro

seanwilliam:
say no more

G leave them na devil dem be and we get long spoon to chop with them.

Nigerian girls would have gone extinct if not for Nigerian man we don’t even know our worth we keep hustling come rain come sunshine and this girls would come and be demanding like it their birth right.

seanwilliam:
The earlier u realise pussy doent worth the stress the better my brothers.... no girl I repeat no girl loves u from the bottom of her heart( unconditionally) it is either she loves u for what u get, or what there is high(100%) tendency you'll get.. e.g if you're broke and a fine and competitive girl dey with u, it is either she's not got the better offer or u are doing something she's really(100%) convinced that it has potentials and she knows she will be the ultimate beneficiary and enjoys the dividend.. that's why I dont play ballers guys that treat ladies like shit..



Also if worwor girl( girl with no class) claims to love u, my brother, she knows she's a garri that everyone manages there's no better food insight. So she gonna bombard u with everything u want , as far as she's capable or doing it

Cc. Stupidity, Badb0y4lyf

Are you related to basket mouth? Next time have mercy please.

Badb0y4lyf:
Nigerian girls would have gone extinct if not for Nigerian man we don’t even know our worth we keep hustling come rain come sunshine and this girls would come and be demanding like it their birth right.

finally, another brother that understand the struggle and pains. I lur you bro!!!

niaralandtopuser:

will you share your boyfriend with her?

Does she want my boyfriend?

This Is One Reason, Why Every Lady Should Stop Depending On Men And Be More Independent. I Mean, Are You Just Gonna Sit There And Watch Your Life Being Dictated And Controlled By Men? After They Have Enjoyed You All The Way They Want And At The End, What Do You Get? You Get Scorned, Labelled Cheap, Called A Prostitute, LovePeddler, Harlot And Gold Digger, A Woman Without A Life And Vision And Focus In Life. You Are Also Labelled As A Parasite. Aren't You Tired Of Being Addressed In This Way? My Dear, Do Yourself The Favour, Of Going Out There And Making A Name For Yourself And Bring Honour, Pride And Dignity To Yourself And Your Family. You Aren't The First And Won't, Most Definitely, Be The Last. You Were Born For Something Great!

victorian:







My dear not all guys treat ladies like that.

It's unfortunate u met the kind of guys who can wail one a river just to give a treat to their babe . They prefer to date a baby who will come ,drink only one sachet of pure water, then fuckkkk the living daylights out of her until she starts emaciating and looking a ghost!

And I bet you, they will still fucvk the ghost.

Relax, soon a better guy who knows his onions will come your way. Just keep retushing and packaging yourself and worth. That's all

thanks babe.

purples25:


thanks babe.

You are welcome dear

stupidity:
finally, another brother that understand the struggle and pains. I lur you bro!!!

Real recognize real you solid bro Dey can deny as Dey want but I’m yet to see any one to send me their bank statement with out at least 3 boys sending them money. Even to come visit you you send them transport.

purples25:





God please let me always have a job so no one will insult me like this. These men! This is why from the beginning i no even like the idea of their money

you wan tell me say you never bill person before?

Riele:

That's because they are not existing .

one spotted

purples25:
But seriously if these complaints are coming now, i wonder what will happen when a wife who bears your kids comes into the picture. This attitude is not because of the girls, rather its a habit. A guy that is complaining of 2k now, hmmm. He thinks when he marries he will change. But by then it is a habit and he cannot and most guys, their families end up funding themselves cuz father is stingy with money.

madone, sorry madam. that does not change the fact that you (Nigerian girls are parasites )

purples25:


i would really like that. Then both the man and woman can focus on core issues in the relationship and respect each other.

that's a man on that moniker

purples25:


yeah thats why i want everyone to have their money. Honestly, any money a woman gets from any person asides her family always invites degradation, control or insults. I wish we can all have our own money so that no guy will treat a lady as if she's not someones daughter - just cuz of some money which he wasn't forced to bring.

the Same way the females form what I can't really fathom because of a hole they weren't forced to open.

victorian:




Does she want my boyfriend?

does she know him? you can hook her up with him

stupidity:


(Not all though, the good ones are yet unborn because I haven’t found one yet)

Lol What about the landlady?

purples25:


thanks babe.

LOL, and you ended that with thanks babe? Who are these better guys? The ones you invented? Women would always give themselves a false hope.