guyz i have been datin this gal for 4yrs now and she has slept with two guyz .
we had a small problem last week and behold she slept wit another guy makin it 3 guyz in 4yrs. i promised some things like cash and takin her to U.K again.this xmas cuz we spent last xmas there.
The most painful part of this is that in this 4yrs i have never kissed or hug any other chick but she kept sharing her honey pot.
i alwayz forgive cuz say i love her and my family likes her too.i have forgaven her for the one she did last week and she promised not to mess up again.
On the other hand her mum no like me one bit cuz i am from abia state and she is from anambra.
Here is my question should i take her back again.(2) should still pay her hostel fee which 120k in unizik cuz her family tinks she stays in the skool hostel.(3)should i break up for good and give the money and other things for her settlement or should bone her.i planned to settle down with her but now am not so sure.
i dont have a sister dats why i dont know how to be harsh on gal i respect so much but what do i get this.plz help.

guyz i have been datin
this gal for 4yrs now and
she has slept with two
guyz .

these are the ones she told you.

Dump her guy coz you haven't only fall hand but legs! Abi you no fit toast babe?

Guy u have jst pissed me off with ur post i am so angry. How can u be so stupid? Infact u r wat they call a modern day maga. If i could c u now i 4 dash u blow 4 ur left eye! U dey mad ni. With all d money ur spendin u should have TOTAL control of dis witch. How can she give t o t o to 3guys in 4years and u knew abt it and u no give am beta sanction? Abi d gal dey mad? Abi U dey mad? How can u even think of takin her to u.k 4 xmas, dem curse u? U r everygal's dream maga. D money u give her i'm sure she's spendin it on a small rat somewhere. My advice? Vex d kain vex wey u neva vex b4. She go fear. And withdraw all financial help. Make her beg u die. She is a leech. Once u vex and ignore and stop to dey give am money lyk fool she go start to dey respect u small. And u'll regain a little control

In short, just dump the evil witch b4 she gives u rabies.

You don fall body big time

bros i fit nail any chick wey i want but i have a problem livin her i love but i dont tink i can do it again.the last time i told her is over she ended up in the hospital

dont worry, you would soon end up in the psych

Guys,abeg am I falling hand? Yes much more than that.

Here we go another case of being unintelligent . I JUST HATE GIRLS

Cmon this guy na the maga of the year 2009-2011 if am right cmon you come dey ask that kind of question i dey crazy? i will never even give it second thought, why the girl am spending that much for give out my pot of gold and still tell me about it maybe cos she know you can't do nothing bro break up with her and if she end up in Hospital dont go there if not you yourself might end up in Yaba left or Aro for Abeokuta

Human Psycho:

Here we go another case of being unintelligent . I JUST HATE GIRLS

i wonder oooo if na me if i think am twice make God punish me

Her mum wnt even let me be wheneva she dey hospital.bros ok she is asking me about the things i promised her.her hostel fee should i settle her or should i dump like a bad habit she is.i have made up my mind to quit.

Change your sim for the main time if possible travel out of town or possible to like Dubai for 2weeks to get he rout of your mind bro Sharp guy like me one girl no fit dey play that kind yeye games on me

She charm u? U betta move on wit lyf,hw re u sure she won't sleep wit oda men afta marriage?

nd beside what name did she use to save your name on his phone? dont be surprise if its maga 7

@ poster,
Even as a girl, i would tell you that you don fall hand die,
which kind boyfriend you be ??
abi, your own d.i.c.k, no sabi road to go enter another hole by mistake too ?
Look respect is reciprocal, in your case it clearly show's she does not respect you, thats why she can mess up and come back to tell you to your face
so if she can't respect you, sorry to say, she does not respect you, so you guys can't be together
if she told you she has slept with only three guys, IMO, its a lie
think of the following
[b]1. when does she tell you she slept with another guy
ans : is it when you guys are having problems
or she tells you out of guilt of what she did
If she tells you when you guys are having problems, then she is only trying to make you feel guilty for chasing her into the arms of another man
( i.e, in your case thats her own mumu botton for you ) and you always gel after she says that.
2. if she tells you out of guilt maybe she did not enjoy the sex, or she is no longer in terms with the guy she slept with.
so in order words, she has slept with some other people but has not told you in order not to appear too bad to you. or maybe she just told you that cos you caught her or she thinks you may catch her.
has she told you about the ones she enjoyed the sex ?[/b]the accomodation you pay for her in school, do you have any idea what she does in school with her class mates

BTW : why do you want to marry a girl that her family is not so comfortable with you, especially her mother
do you want to have problems in your matrimonial home ? cos i don't think the woman would ever accept you.
or Abi you want to die early , cos some of these women can go to any lenght to make sure they stop you from marrying their daughter.

am not a bad girl, am a twin, if you go thru other post or my signature you would know, and i know so well what my twin and i use to do to guys back then in school, since they could not tell us apart, it was fun sha cos we were ignorant and just having fun, using our identity to our advantage but thats all in the past. so pls don\t fall your hand again, move on with your life, she does not deserve you. just think about the highlighted part of my comment.

Make una free the guy small.

But bros you over fall hand o.

hmmm the hand wey the guy fall pass too many

@dazzel37 u said it all is not that i be mumu of the first order but back in skool did many tins but i just wanted to settle down cuz i dont want to be a player 4life. I love her so much but i am not blind.i only wanted to make her as comfortable as possible but what do i get.i believe that people can change but she provd me wrong. Her mum even slapped of recent she knowing that i paid 80k 4 her daughter b4 they gave her admission in unizik. Guyz am done tanks 4 d advise today d tamed dog is unleash. I fall hand make una forgive me.

You peeps should chill a lil about mumu this that comment as te OP obviously love the girl in question and it's not always as easy as it seems with the naked eye
What was the reason given by her for cheating 3 times?
Did you try to find out?

First thing you have to do is STOP buying love from her.

You have been forgiven go and fall mugu no more

korrect if your story is true you are a correct guy.forgiv the chick and move on.she is a bad gal and has taken you for granted she got no value for you or the rship and has no intention of spendingthe rest of her life wit u.

i forgave her cuz i love her and i tot dat she will change.i will give her d Bleep of her life before breakin dat heartless heart.

korrect:

i forgave her cuz i love her and i tot dat she will change.i will give her d bleep of her life before breakin dat heartless heart.

And what will you gain from that/
Can that even be equivalent to your alleged hurt that she has caused you?

The point is ask her why she has cheated on you so you can know what works for your next relationship.
You need to close that chapter in a matured way

yeah you are right tanks.

This one na over falling of hand

korrect:

guyz i have been datin this gal for 4yrs now and she has slept with two guyz .
we had a small problem last week and behold she slept wit another guy makin it 3 guyz in 4yrs. i promised some things like cash and takin her to U.K again.this xmas cuz we spent last xmas there.
The most painful part of this is that in this 4yrs i have never kissed or hug any other chick but she kept sharing her honey pot.
i alwayz forgive cuz say i love her and my family likes her too.i have forgaven her for the one she did last week and she promised not to mess up again.
On the other hand her mum no like me one bit cuz i am from abia state and she is from anambra.
Here is my question should i take her back again.(2) should still pay her hostel fee which 120k in unizik cuz her family tinks she stays in the skool hostel.(3)should i break up for good and give the money and other things for her settlement or should bone her.i planned to settle down with her but now am not so sure.
i dont have a sister dats why i dont know how to be harsh on gal i respect so much but what do i get this.plz help.

Guyman korrect, in this 21st century on a lighter note, just like someone suggested, you better check out what she saved your name with on her phone, cld be maga

How can you? that you dont have no sis is no excuse. with all your sacrifice, she should literally worship the ground you walk on(worst case scenario, assuming you are not sexually ok for her, at least she should give you some respeckt)  haba,she has been sharing the thingy that should have been an exclusivity, men this is unbelievable and you are talking about settlement? maybe you should be physically brought into the midst of guys and left alone for proper tutoring. its not bad to fall in  love but you have to be very wary of girls in school and such half hearted commitment.

Now will you drop this girl faster than the speed of light and move on, if she wants to end up in a mental hospital, so be it (what she has done to you is enough to destabilise you mentally, nobody is talking about that). let me warn you ooo, if you settle her financially and come back on NL, i will personally start on thread canvassing for your suspension

You want to give her bleep of her life? guy forget it, do you even know if she prefers others to you and so no matter your bleeping, it counts for nuthing to her , and what if she suspects that you want to jilt her and laces her honey-pot with you-know-what from all these Awka juju fellows, then you will eternally be her mugu cum maga. Just bone her totally Korrect guy

chairman, i suggest you park well and get the poo out before *thinking of what to say* you over F up big time. lllllllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaavvvvvvvve

omo, u dun too Bleep up sotee i dey vex 4 u,

re u dat dumbly patient

berra take a u- turn,

didnt know guys like u still exist,

wow!!!!!!!!!

love they say is really crazy

you guys have been dating for four years and yet she fu>cks another guy when she gets the chance to?

this sounds kinda funny tho

have you asked her why she put up that attitude? or is that her silly way of getting back at you when you get her mad?

because if that is the case she needs to think twice cause she is taking you for a silly ride