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How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 8:49am On Dec 16, 2019
In this life, I will never look down on anyone and it has always been my motto. Those who do can always learn the hard way. I have seen a lot to stick to this.

Happy Reading folks.


Weeks ago I attended a child dedication ceremony in Port Harcourt, among other notable people in Port Harcourt who were in attendance, was a serving Commissioner in Rivers State. My friend's child was the celebrant and he the host.

The mistake most of us made in life is lack of the wisdom to distinguish a casual friend from a relationship, hence, we treat prospective partner like a casual girlfriend, and treat a girlfriend like a wife.

Years ago, me, this my friend and one other of our friend used to be roommates in a One room self contain in Port Harcourt. Though things was rough for us, we were almost oblivious of the realities of our poor circumstances, hence our primary concern was money for beer, sex, food, clothings and contributions for rent.

We were together when he met his wife. We met her in a club, normally any of us taking a woman for the night goes home first, after action he sends a message then the others come back. The only consideration is that we leave the bed for them and sleep on the floor. The only time we leave the room to sleep in a neighbour's room is when the girl is not a club girl.

Usually, after the first person that brought a call girl home is done, the other two try to negotiate for a side show which is often half price of the Night, but that day she was so upset that my friend didn't tell her he had other people sleeping in his room, she refused to let me or the other guy to do even with our money.

In the morning she kept insulting my friend, and reported him to us for telling her he likes her and would want to make her a serious date. She ridiculed him and began calling him "Osho Free". She said my friend thought she's naive, that he is looking to be having sex with her without paying by telling her about relationship despite knowing that she is a hustler.

The next weekend, he didn't come back home, next morning he told us he went to the call girl's apartment and he had to pay higher because she initially refused to see him because of him having roommates, then they agreed they do their transaction at her apartment but on a higher price.

That's how my man began dating this lady, then we honestly believed he was under Edo spell and spending all his money. We kept advising him that it was only a man who just moved to the city from the village that falls in love with a commercial sex worker.

The lady began coming over on weekends to cook for us, we soon became friends, though we never disrespected her to her face, we continued to discourage our friend because she kept doing her normal business and my friend's defense was that she told him she was never going to sleep with his friends, neighbours or colleagues even for a million dollars.

In those days we didn't really have big dreams, aside securing a job that could pay up to N70K per month. We were yet to realise that we have graduated, we kind of still lived lives as students. We just graduated from the university. Our highest aspirations was a Master's Degree, ability to afford Toyota Camry and move to a bigger apartment.

Until the day, the girl told us about "Water Hyacinth" contracts in NDDC, then it was a new agency. She has an inside contact and would present my friend as her brother. My friend is from a non-NDDC state while she is Edo, but since I am from Abia State I was to partner with him while the girl arranged Local Government Certificate of origin from Edo State for him. My job was to use my Legal professional skills to draft our proposal and also defend it at the NDDC.

Few months later we got the contract, for the first time in my life I realised how poor I have been.

Well, from that day i stopped calling the girl "dancer" and began addressing her by her name. I and the other guy stopped being condescending to her.

She later arranged for another Interior Decoration contract, I know Aba very well so I was the person that sourced all the materials and arranged the skilled labourers from Aba.

We moved to a 2 Bedroom Flat and bought cars, my friend and his girlfriend took one room while me and the other guy took one. In less than 6 months we went for her Traditional engagement. From that day, as bro code I started addressing her as "Madam " being my friend's wife.

They later moved to another apartment. My friend was the first amongst most of our contemporaries to buy a land in Port Harcourt and began building.

Well, a club girl changed our life for the better. Sometimes, I sit back and wonder where I would be and what I would be doing today if we didn't meet that girl or we succeeded in persuading our friend to leave the girl. I would probably be in my Learned Senior's chamber hustling for Appearance Fee so that I can go to court to be screaming "I put it to you".

I have not seen my friend for some years but he insisted I come for the occasion, he wanted us to discuss. He told me they were relocating to Australia. That the wife got a contact and they paid huge amount of money. Him and his family are moving, but he will come back from to time because of his several engagements in Port Harcourt.

Source: https://web.facebook.com/newallahkaduna.nzeogwu/posts/615893265906729

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by reccy(m): 8:56am On Dec 16, 2019
This is touching...... Lesson learnt......

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by ekene247(m): 9:01am On Dec 16, 2019
ok

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by 40secondsguy(m): 9:05am On Dec 16, 2019
Damn...what can I say... shocked

I guess life is a strange thing...that's why I don't look down on anyone ever.... Cause you never know what the future might hold for you...





Cums out of thread

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by GraGra247(m): 9:13am On Dec 16, 2019
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 9:23am On Dec 16, 2019
GraGra247:
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!

Do you know the narrator? lol... do you follow him on facebook?

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Beosten(m): 9:26am On Dec 16, 2019
Have the spiritual eyes and marry someone at par with your destiny.

If I tell you this, you may see it as fiction: exact house where my wife lived and her office's exact location were revealed to me in a dream.

But I didn't go to these locations in search of her. We met somewhere else. It was when I visited her for the first time that I declared myself a seer par excellence. Then, I was to pick her up at her place of work later. I became dumbfounded upon getting to the place.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by CasNova: 9:45am On Dec 16, 2019
There are lessons in life. The soil of today can turn to be diamond of tomorrow.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Frankicent(m): 10:10am On Dec 16, 2019
This is you touching oo.. No wonder people say your destiny helper might be someone you less expect... it might not be your friend, relative or family..


God biko remember me.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 16, 2019
Lies!! Just to garner likes

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Xtova0000: 11:30am On Dec 16, 2019
Never look down on anybody...

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by luvyaself95(m): 12:36pm On Dec 16, 2019
Oh My God.

what kind of sex worker is the lady that getting you contracts back to back.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by emmanuelpopson(m): 1:36pm On Dec 16, 2019
it may be true but not all call girls are good to have..the tide was for his favor while others have regretted ever meeting same call girls.. destiny

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Firstorderwizard(m): 1:41pm On Dec 16, 2019
My instinct tells me this is a lie.
I may be wrong anyway

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Nobody: 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2019
So, what do you want us to do about this story? Start fuccking prostitutes?

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by MPESA(m): 2:15pm On Dec 16, 2019
luvyaself95:
Oh My God.

what kind of sex worker is the lady that getting you contracts back to back.

Most of them do get VVIP CONTACTS due to nature of their jobs.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by YorubaLord: 2:20pm On Dec 16, 2019
cool
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Ipheeoma24(f): 2:33pm On Dec 16, 2019
luvyaself95:
Oh My God.

what kind of sex worker is the lady that getting you contracts back to back.
my dear maybe she doesn't have family members that need the contract na

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by kelechi50: 2:34pm On Dec 16, 2019
Vortex369:
So, what do you want us to do about this story? Start fuccking prostitutes?
Abi �

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Liposure: 2:47pm On Dec 16, 2019
What an Uncommon Testimony

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by luvyaself95(m): 2:56pm On Dec 16, 2019
Ipheeoma24:
my dear maybe she doesn't have family members that need the contract na


like so

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by luvyaself95(m): 2:57pm On Dec 16, 2019
MPESA:

Most of them do get VVIP CONTACTS due to nature of their jobs.
you're damn right.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 3:07pm On Dec 16, 2019
luvyaself95:
Oh My God.

what kind of sex worker is the lady that getting you contracts back to back.
Some of the best deals or business contracts are sealed at night clubs.

Don't shiiit yourself bro.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by luvyaself95(m): 3:12pm On Dec 16, 2019
futurism:
Some of the best deals or business contracts are sealed at night clubs.
Don't shiiit yourself bro.
ok bro
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 16, 2019
Hmmmm...

99 ways to get juicy offer:
Number 12: Be a friend with a call girl.. shocked shocked shocked

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by ArticleBeast: 3:27pm On Dec 16, 2019
This no mean say una go go dey patronize ashewo o... One out of 100 men will this happen to.

Lets be guided

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by 400billionman: 3:48pm On Dec 16, 2019
Rare breed of women exist. Like 1 out of 10.

I don't doubt the story..

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by 24kmagic: 3:58pm On Dec 16, 2019
Thales by moonlight.

There's a difference between looking down on people and condemning what is bad.

I will always condemn prostitutes, that doesn't mean I'm looking down on her.

I know orphans who hawk pure water and other petty stuffs to make ends meet.

No be this your story go make me begin fvck ashawo, tufiakwa.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by omobacyprus(m): 5:08pm On Dec 16, 2019
Some angels come in form of humans. She's his own angel

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Headlesschicken(m): 5:19pm On Dec 16, 2019
undecided Lucky him...
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 6:01pm On Dec 16, 2019
24kmagic:
Thales by moonlight.

There's a difference between looking down on people and condemning what is bad.

I will always condemn prostitutes, that doesn't mean I'm looking down on her.

I know orphans who hawk pure water and other petty stuffs to make ends meet.

No be this your story go make me begin fvck ashawo, tufiakwa.

Nobody say make u go fork ashii...

For inside this life there hundreds of ashiii happily married and faithful while holier than thou have divorced cos they are still forking dicks.

Everybody has a reason for taking certain path in life.

Plus, ashawo get standard...

When u give girl friend money after sex, what's that? Or when the only thing you gain from her is sex and you in turn do heaven and earth for her, what do you call that?

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