The spirit of whoredom dwells amongst you

"Marriage (or relationship) was a bourgeois trap which true revolutionaries should avoid." -Alexandra Kollontai

By all means i will mary and if i marry a good wife i will be happy but if i marry a bad wife i will become a philosopher.

lefulefu:
op if u feel lonely u can get friend of benefit
u dont need to have girlfriend or gilrfriends to be with a lady

Aptly written..

Just get a friend with benefit and invest your time in more productive stuffs

SocialJustice:
My libido is very high and need to empty my sack at least 3 times weekly. I was talking from my own view. Whoever can abstain, good for them.

Oww okay

If that is the case for you

DemonInvoker:

Sleeping with Cheap Hoess that will only Moan in local dialects...WarKandah Life Is That

If one is paying for a girlfriend's hair, t-fare, food, settling her lecturer, money to fix her gen, etc... what's the difference between the girls you pay directly, and the girls you pay indirectly.

lefulefu:
pls tell him oo
someone up dere dont even know wat friends of benefits is
he"s saying friends of benefit is similar to the same way u send money to girls on tinder for them to cove over to sleep with u
u can imagine that
i bet no girl has geneuinly been attracted to him
most naija guys thinking the only way a girl gets attracted to u is when u give her money
no wonder many guys here always creat threads about girls eating their money and dumping them
a friend of benefit is a girl who genuienly is attracted to to and wouldnt mind getting down with u
u dont need to spend to make her to like u
i am surprised some guys are finding such as alien

I have one like that she is married but her husband doesn't know what is going on behind, she even introduce me to her husband as a family friend.. and my other friend she has a boyfriend but fear catch me the day I was banging her and are boyfriend call and she picked the call and act like nothing happed that day I fear woman they have talent in multi tasking

Some years ago i use to reason like OP, but am 35 now, no relationship, there come a time in your life u will need the hand of a partner/girlfriend/wife, not for only sex but for a listening hear, someone to talk,


Well maybe OP is in his 20's.

lefulefu:
to see the number of lamentation threads created by nairaland guys every day about how they got dealt by their girlfriends or how they train one girl from secondary school to university and she still dumped them is enough proof many of them are recieving it hot

Indeed! Those one's that are only after boosting their egos. Where dem see the money?

Nooil:


Indeed! Those one's that are only after boosting their egos. Where dem see the money?

so that guy in owerri whose video showed him rolling in the mud and crying so u saying such a guy no spend kobo for the babe wey reject im proposal?
hope u know there many guys in nairaland here like that owerri guy

That na for woman,for man been single ,you fit call different people your own every night.i have said it the only reason man need woman na pikin.end of story and them white guys bad,pikin machine to lunch 2025



quote author=PrimadonnaO post=87388515] That feeling is merely fleeting.

For most people, it gets to a point when you simply don't want to be alone... you want someone you'll call your own. [/quote]

lefulefu:
so that guy in owerri whose video showed him rolling in the mud and crying so u saying such a guy no spend kobo for the babe wey reject im proposal?
hope u know there many guys in nairaland here like that owerri guy

Who else? Just him?

nextstep:


If one is paying for a girlfriend's hair, t-fare, food, settling her lecturer, money to fix her gen, etc... what's the difference between the girls you pay directly, and the girls you pay indirectly.

some even pay their girlfriend money monthly and weekly
they call it maintanance money
if them forfiet the payment for one month the girl go sharply close her leg and the mugu will be running around looking for money to borrow to pay the girl maintanance money.wich kain yeye life be dat

Nooil:


Who else? Just him?

im type full nairaland

DexterousOne:



Getting married is not a mark of manhood

Taking responsibility in its totality is


Apostle Paul was never married
Will you call em a boy?
What of reverend fathers?


Thay mentality is wrong

That is the mentality of this indomie generation.

PrimadonnaO:
That feeling is merely fleeting.

For most people, it gets to a point when you simply don't want to be alone... you want someone you'll call your own.

Only women feel this way.

Men shouldn't

Men in touch with their feminine do.

GuyWise101:
Often times you here guys complaining about their girlfriends but you hardly here single guy's complain....


So I am asking single guys here... How is life without a girlfriend.


As for me I don't have a girlfriend and life feel so good here... bank account intant, wallet full and no nagging and other sh!ts.

have been single since 5years now.. and i like it cuz no one break my heart, and me i no break anyone's heart since then.

rhames:


That is the mentality of this indomie generation.

but he"s not lying
there many married men in nigeria who still behave like kids
they are not ready to foot the bills and they live irresponsible lives
marriage no be wetin dey define u as a man
u get married for companionship and love but it doesntr define u as a man

How did you mean 'life without love' having a girlfriend doesn't me you got love.

lefulefu:
im type full nairaland

Naso

Randy91:


Aptly written..

Just get a friend with benefit and invest your time in more productive stuffs

gbamest
the time u would invest chasing and looking for girlfriend u could use that time to aquire a skill,schooling or invest in a business
some guys will all their better looking for and aquiring of girlfriends and they will be complaining of the thing taking their time
why not just ditch d girl if the gurl dey stress and get a friend of benefit and concentrate on other parts of ur life
person will spend good six yrs trying to keep and ,maintain a gf.some even dey talk of their girlfriend giving them high blood pressure and some don lost weight dating a girl.some dudes just love stress in their life abeg

Nooil:


Naso

op na one of them
i am very sure

guys are waking up dis days.Huge chunk of single guys still remain single becoz of their sanity and their pockets.

Las las, Konji na bastsard

There are different kind of girlfriend, there are girlfriend that can help you in life mentally and what every you need they will and be able to help u out, some can shock and sock you dry and you will be afraid of girls through out your life, some girls can save your money, investment is their watchworld, emotional stability, great sex unlimited while some are the extraordinary opposite.. God give me a good girlfriend and a wife.. Amen

There are different kind of girlfriend, there are girlfriend that can help you in life mentally and what every you need they will and be able to help u out, some can shock and sock you dry and you will be afraid of girls through out your life, some girls can save your money, investment is their watchworld, emotional stability, great sex unlimited while some are the extraordinary opposite.. God give me a good girlfriend and a wife.. AMEN

anthonyuncle:


don't celebrate irresponsible lifestyle

Let him be. To each man his own. That you don't see a legal arrsngement to be right cos u don't do it, doesn't mean it's wrong cos someone else does it.

walahi, it is the best moment. I am so happy spending the little money I make as I like, no lady is calling me to send card or buy card for her. I spend excesses meant for girlfriend on my sisters. I know a time will come that I will be ready to settle down and procreate but right now even Nigeria no dey help matter atall. I will prefer to give birth in Europe to Nigeria.

ijesuoboikxp1:
There are different kind of girlfriend, there are girlfriend that can help you in life mentally and what every you need they will and be able to help u out, some can shock and sock you dry and you will be afraid of girls through out your life, some girls can save your money, investment is their watchworld, emotional stability, great sex unlimited while some are the extraordinary opposite.. God give me a good girlfriend and a wife.. AMEN

amen oo

SegFault:
It feels okay. The only thing you need in this life are friends and family to love, that so called love between couples is a scam and does not exist, when the person becomes old and stops looking appealing watch the butterflies in your tummy digest.

That's why you don't go for physical looks,they fade away.Even the bible said it,beauty is vain!
Love is not Scam, we may have difficulty meeting the right ones but when we find them,it's one of the best feeling ever.Let love lead!

As a guy, the happiest days of your life are those times when u are single.