Pls, I need advise on how to really handle this issue. My girlfriend wants us to be talking every day and I sometimes get bored by that. Even when I try to avoid her at least a day by telling her I don't have airtime, she would call me even if she doesn't have airtime she would borrow. Kindly advise!

send me her number let me talk to her for u

let her be doing the calling. hope you are not the one paying for her airtime?

only call her when you need to

Lol

I'm in the same thing right now... She mustn't sniff me close to another girl, always telling me she loves me, always playing with me in public to claim ownership.... You should thank your God that yours is a long distance thingy.


It's suffocating!

That's why communication is important in every relationship bro. Talk to her about how u feeling concerning daily calls. If she's the understanding type.. u guys should be fine... Thou in relationship a times it is possible to get bored of many things but talking can safe many things in relationships. Op, I hope u are not bored because of another yellow pawpaw sha

Paste her number let me dial her number to confirm if what you said is truth...

You don't call, she calls, you're complaining. You're too young for a relationship.

habsydiamond:
That's why communication is important in every relationship bro. Talk to her about how u feeling concerning daily calls. If she's the understanding type.. u guys should be fine... Thou in relationship a times it is possible to get bored of many things but talking can safe many things in relationships. Op, I hope u are not bored because of another yellow pawpaw sha

Not at all sir!

Chi59:
You don't call, she calls, you're complaining. You're too young for a relationship.

Of course I do... I also call her alot sometimes at her request but I think she does more of the calling

You sound boring to me. How can you not want to hear the voice of someone you love everyday? Shows you're not missing her and prolly not really into her. And to think that she decided to be doing the calling yet you're complaining...haba haba...

I'll advise you drop it instead of this complaints that do not hold water.
Look for someone who'll stay a week before she'll remember she's even dating some guy some where.

pazzini:
Pls, I need advise on how to really handle this issue. My girlfriend wants us to be talking every day and I sometimes get bored by that. Even when I try to avoid her at least a day by telling her I don't have airtime, she would call me even if she doesn't have airtime she would borrow. Kindly advise!

You really should have studied about relationship and women before jumping into it. YOU WILL DEAL WITH IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND IF GOD WANTS TO PUNISH YOU, you will have lots of female children.

Jewessgratitudd
MiVida

ikh777:



You really should have studied about relationship and women before jumping into it. YOU WILL DEAL WITH IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND IF GOD WANTS TO PUNISH YOU, you will have lots of female children.

Jewessgratitudd
MiVida

haba! Is the female children part necessary?? Well God's own is the best! If it's God's plan, so be it.

lol this issue of chatting with girls on phone
when i was in school there was this friend i had
from 12 oclcock at midnight he will start talking with girls on phone till 4 oclock everyday.
it was during one of these mtn free night calls back then
bros no dey sleep
talking with different girls
me i easily get bored with long chats or long calls
the only messages or calls i take seriously and answer promptly these days sef is the ones i receive from my siblings back home.

I will you be getting bored from talking to your partner every day?
Is like you don't love her or your attention is on someone else

ikh777:



You really should have studied about relationship and women before jumping into it. YOU WILL DEAL WITH IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND IF GOD WANTS TO PUNISH YOU, you will have lots of female children.

Jewessgratitudd
MiVida

*laughs*
This one is not ready for a relationship yet. He doesn't know we woman like to talk.
He'll soon understand.

pazzini:
Pls, I need advise on how to really handle this issue. My girlfriend wants us to be talking every day and I sometimes get bored by that. Even when I try to avoid her at least a day by telling her I don't have airtime, she would call me even if she doesn't have airtime she would borrow. Kindly advise!

Development love for her and you will miss her calls when she forgets to call. She truly loves you never let her go bro and don't see her call as an issue.
Remember to put on a smiling face before answering her calls .

And someone here complained on a thread that the girlfriend does not call him regularly and someone today is complaining of too much call."different sickness with im cure" Oya swap babe ni

Chi59:
You don't call, she calls, you're complaining. You're too young for a relationship.

Pele! Sorry! You that are old for a relationship. Set awon Toke Makinwa. Aunty! Relationship expert, before you start deliberating on people's personal life, have you fixed yours?

And shut the fvck up, bitch!

Chi59:
You don't call, she calls, you're complaining. You're too young for a relationship.

ma'am has spoken.

pazzini:
Pls, I need advise on how to really handle this issue. My girlfriend wants us to be talking every day and I sometimes get bored by that. Even when I try to avoid her at least a day by telling her I don't have airtime, she would call me even if she doesn't have airtime she would borrow. Kindly advise!

She loves you....

For you to reduce this....make plans for dates. Whenever she calls, keep d conversation to the barest minimum and tell her when you guys see, she will tell you everything that's going on.

If you are genuinely occupied, it will be easier. Good luck

This will make her think about you more as she will be in constant anticipation of the date

habsydiamond:
That's why communication is important in every relationship bro. Talk to her about how u feeling concerning daily calls. If she's the understanding type.. u guys should be fine... Thou in relationship a times it is possible to get bored of many things but talking can safe many things in relationships. Op, I hope u are not bored because of another yellow pawpaw sha

Truth is most females love everyday talk, &seem ignorant of it's implications,even if u sit her down & tell her ,she would still not unstand or conform ,just allow her continue,call her when u want to,pick her call when it's ok too, apologise when she accuses u of not picking or calling her.slong as u love her,just really really tolerate

You're not just into her... If you truly love someone you'd talk to them... Your love is shaaaking her that's why she's calling you... Just Google stuffs on "what to talk about with your partner over the phone"... You better be grateful OP...

pazzini:
Pls, I need advise on how to really handle this issue. My girlfriend wants us to be talking every day and I sometimes get bored by that. Even when I try to avoid her at least a day by telling her I don't have airtime, she would call me even if she doesn't have airtime she would borrow. Kindly advise!

Do you love her?

Must you guyz behave like kidz all the time. At least you are not the one doing most of the callings. She loves u more than u love her which is a "good" one, so why the complaints. Enjoy while it lasts.

This thread is just so annoying,i don't want to tell you what's on my mind

Gimme the girl na

HMarshal:


Truth is most females love everyday talk, &seem ignorant of it's implications,even if u sit her down & tell her ,she would still not unstand or conform ,just allow her continue,call her when u want to,pick her call when it's ok too, apologise when she accuses u of not picking or calling her.slong as u love her,just really really tolerate

Thank you sir

Lamanii22:
You're not just into her... If you truly love someone you'd talk to them... Your love is shaaaking her that's why she's calling you... Just Google stuffs on "what to talk about with your partner over the phone"... You better be grateful OP...

Most of the ladies do not understand the flip side of this... Sometimes, absence creates relevance. I sincerely love her and she knows that too but when you talk over the phone everyday... Haba na... Sometimes I'd feign not having airtime so that we could chat on social media but she would strongly object to it.

LIVINGICON:
Must you guyz behave like kidz all the time. At least you are not the one doing most of the callings. She loves u more than u love her which is a "good" one, so why the complaints. Enjoy while it lasts.

We're all different human beings mind you and it's not a case of behaving like kids

bukatyne:


Do you love her?

I do