Asking for advice is not bad in itself so long as you have a
prior opinion of your own which you just want to weigh against
those of your friends. But gossiping with your friends about
your escapades with your BF/GF is totally unacceptable, private
should remain private.

Sometimes friends are just problems. Especially when they see that u r all happy inlove, they will tend to say bad things or wrong things to u about your man, Been there done that, but unfortunately for me i always say, ask the source before u make any rational decision.

So far with me, i dont even listen or discuss my love affairs with ppl,its a total no no from my side. They always ruin it for you becos of jealousy or some other reason known to them.

As for your relationship, so sorry but take heart and take care, someone who adores u and trusts u will come your way one day.

I just broke up with my girl dat i've been dateing 4 d past 3 years. She kept on listening to her friends and they kept on giving her a wrong advice abt life. Telling her to go against my will and all.i realise dat i wasn't just going to marry her alone, i migth end up marry her and her friends which was totally unacceptable. i told her that i'm sorry dat d relationship wasnt working out and i took off with speed.

let taik to a reality word to listen to a friend is not bad but make sure is the type u trust always,so u must think very

Im sorry to hear all that has happened to you Xtian, but like tupac would say "life goes on". dont let it get you down, if she comes back and she has realised her mistake, take her back. If not, enjoy your self, life is too short to waste pining after a girl no matter how much you love her.

. . . . . . .that's why people should always have a mind of their own and not go around being gullible. . . . . .

Whats all this friend bashing going on here. I've come to realize that people blame others for their own mistake. If a girl does the wrong thing because her friends told her to, then she's not a very intelligent person.

Freinds are alwayz there for you, in good or bad times. Frends are your eyes when you are blindly in love. I dint listen to my frinds and look where it got me.

Y'all should understnad that people are not perfect, and just cos a friend gave you a wrong advice doesnt mean she's jealous or wicked. And who the heck forces anybody to do anything. Your friend 'advices' you to dump your BF, dosent mean you should/would. Abeg make una cool down jare.

I love my friends

[b]coincidentally, as i was replying this post i got this mail from an old friend. Decided to share it.


GIRLS IN MY CIRCLE


When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend, And then I started to become a woman.

And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
God would show you the best in many friends.

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.

Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.

Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.

Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.

One friend will say, "Let's cry together,"
Another , "Let's fight together,"
Another , "Let's walk away together."

One friend will meet your spiritual need,
Another your shoe fetish,
Another your love for movies,
Another will be with you in your season of confusion,
Another will be your clarifier,
Another the wind beneath your wings.

But whatever their assignment in your life, On whatever the occasion, On whatever the day, Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back, Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ,
Those are your best friends.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman, But for many, it's wrapped up in several, One from 7th grade, One from high school, Several from the college years, a couple from old jobs,
On some days your mother, On some days your neighbor,
On others, your sisters, And on some days, your daughters.
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I think this post best describes the friendship.Yea i would not take the advice of my shoe fetish friend concerning my marriage but me thinks its best for very individual to have a mind of their own to be able to manage advise about your relationship from anyone.YOU are in the relationship and YOU should always decide do what you feel is best for youand the relationship.

I have a few friends,which include my sister and mother and this people mean the world to me.I should just be matured enough to know when their advise is clouded by their love and affection for me.

One more thing some Guys are equally as guilty of this so its not just a girl thing.

dmx said n i quote "if u luv sumtin let it go,if it comes bak 2 u it is urs,if it doesn't it was never urs.