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Tpia1 wat do u have to say why 190 yab u now him tok say u be village girl shey na tru

Blackteeth: You said your girlfriend is intelligent but she does not say intelligent things.
Pheeew!!

Mr..Cork:
ermmm pope732901 , bro, so are u sayin she dont give BJ? Pls clarify. cheeers!

pope732901: I've been with this girl for about six months. She is actually everything I looked for in a girl - gentle, lovely, igbo, intelligent, has a lovely diction, excellently dressed, neat, and rubs my back right.

But she is not fun to be with! She is intelligent, and gets very good grades at school.

But she does not say intelligent things! She only thinks about boring things, and has no interest in any half way intellectual discussion. Her favorite activity is just staying at home and lying in bed or watching Nollywood movies. I feel like we never really say or do anything worthwhile.

Also, we never do anything really fun together, because of her lethargy. I like doing things like running, jogging,  climbing, going through bars, visiting weird stuff, trying new things but with her, her lethargy just infects me and all I want to do is chill and watch TV.
@ Poster, if you truly love her and hope to marry her, she will be a great wife i suppose. All you need do is compliment her and teach her gradually. It may be that she grew up under a very disciplinarian parent or an academic who like subjecting children to indoor. You need to expose her, gradually take her to the peak of dating and outing. Get her to know a lot of social life and catching fun... going to cinemas, beaches, restaurants, comedy shows etc. I think is an introvert and a reserved one for that matter. My wife use to be like that before I got married to her. She never attended social events, games, etc. Someone counseled us and I started with going to eateries, shows, drinking places, fun centres and etc, I was the one who exposed her to so many attraction leisure centres across the country including flying in a commercial aircraft. The price is much, but it is worth it. Our marriage will be 9 years in April. She has become such a wonderful calm but bold personality.

And she is the type of person that wants me to always do things with her, she expects a boyfriend and girlfriend to always spend time together. Basically, she wants to be my best friend, but is not able to intellectually interest me like my usual friends do!

She is dependent, wants me to do everything in the relationship and when I ask her, all she tells me is that "You're the guy" and it just disgust me so much because I believe in two sided relationship whereby no one is to rely on the other to take a step first. If you're in the position to do anything in the relationship, just do what comes naturally and not wait for your partner.

It's a confusing situation, what could I do?

clemmonce: i dont know the advice to give but as for me i hate boring girls so much... because i dont talk much so i need a girl that talk and fun to be with not a look look babe. i am currently thinking of ending a new relationship due to that this girl dont talk much and not too expose and meee i be bad guys mo ja gan... it wont just work but still thinking

mr_man: What is a two year old topic doing on the front page? The gentleman has probably even broken up with the girl.

clemmonce: meee i be bad guys mo ja gan...

Clemzy16: It's either she is too holy, or she dosen't wanna talk or hear anything that has to do with romantic stuff, they're always at home. .

baby.me:
From your description of her,she is an introvert. She is someone that prefers to stay indoors,procrastinate,and not ready to take any action on her own bc she is comfortable in her zone and not willing to make any mistake. But mark my words,such personality is the best with the right kind of push from a loved one.

On the other hand,you are an extrovert who likes action,and from my experience,she is the right kind of person for you bc she will slow u down where u want to move too fast and you will push her on where she tends to be too slow. Be spantenous any time u are with her encourage her to make more friends and hang out some time. There is a great personality under that cold/boring person. Cheers

Blackteeth: You said your girlfriend is intelligent but she does not say intelligent things.
Pheeew!!

Blackteeth: You said your girlfriend is intelligent but she does not say intelligent things.
Pheeew!!

pope732901:

I have a whole lot of intelligent questions and topic to discuss with her but it wouldn't work out.



I don't wanna be anyone's babysitter.



Thank brother, you really understand.



Sex is not the issue, our sex life is GREAT!. Would I have to take her to the beach everyday or weekend?



humm

Tell me, what has romance got to do with someone being boring? I think you should read my post again.

pope732901:

But she is not fun to be with! She is intelligent, and gets very good grades at school.

But she does not say intelligent things!

Blackteeth: You said your girlfriend is intelligent but she does not say intelligent things.
Pheeew!!