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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by gunners160(m): 7:35am On Jun 09, 2020
Phenomenal16:
Bad breathe... Talk for another day

had a similar experience also I wan choke that day so I ran.Sha I saw r 2 months later d gal just don go fine pass b4 and clean

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by QuinModah(f): 8:48am On Jun 09, 2020
cheesy
gunners160:


had a similar experience also I wan choke that day so I ran.Sha I saw r 2 months later d gal just don go fine pass b4 and clean
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by OBelz(f): 8:55am On Jun 09, 2020
angry
Samfloxin:

What exactly did you want him to do? kill cow for you?
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by OBelz(f): 8:55am On Jun 09, 2020
angry angry angry
Heistman:
because u paid for this one guys meal first time in your life ..u no wan let us rest.... thousands of other guys u don chop dia free meal,chop dia money join no do u? Huh na u b shameless one whyning over food wey no reach 5k if we check cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Dreiwizzy: 9:01am On Jun 09, 2020
vanida6:
Inmagine dat fool tranna lied to me he based in US wit a dirty shoes nd cloths on sad i just quickly chop em food nd fly my ass out from dat resturant cheesy cheesy em number now nah for black list em deycheesy
What if the niggaa was real

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Salt06(m): 9:04am On Jun 09, 2020
Heistman:
because u paid for this one guys meal first time in your life ..u no wan let us rest.... thousands of other guys u don chop dia free meal,chop dia money join no do u? Huh na u b shameless one whyning over food wey no reach 5k if we check cheesy
grin

Na her type dey always need 5k urgently cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:28am On Jun 09, 2020
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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by MPESA(m): 4:03pm On Jun 16, 2020
vanida6:
Inmagine dat fool tranna lied to me he based in US wit a dirty shoes nd cloths on sad i just quickly chop em food nd fly my ass out from dat resturant cheesy cheesy em number now nah for black list em deycheesy

Some people don't really care about what they put On while some don't have dressing sense irrespective of there exposure or where they resides..... Except you only care about Yankee level , if not you might have loss a Diamond while searching for Stone.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Blackmoran(m): 4:49pm On Jun 16, 2020
I met this babe at my sisters church spoke to her we exchange numbers call her the next day we fixed a date... The D day for us to meet we met at my friends gym. Strike no 1 she came late, when she came she didn't even apologise or give reason why she was late, I overlook am after settling down the first question that came out of her mouth was "WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING" am like I work for lawma, gave one mumu excuse find my way commot.. Later that evening my sister con dey para for me say I just abandoned her friend...

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jun 16, 2020
QuinModah:
Ladies And Gentlemen,

Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/Her?

Share Your Experience

Mine: First date: We met in a hotel restaurant, I dint know this guy has already book a room. Saying he wants us to discuss privately as if dat place wasn't enough. And also he was bragging too much. I left him there, since then I stop picking his calls+ He kept looking at my boobs n smiles like an idiot
why won't he book hotel grin grin see wetin only u carry for waist so thick shocked... grin

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by nizzy153(m): 5:35pm On Jun 16, 2020
McBrooklyn:
Yeah first date and minutes later she dey hustle me for 5k urgently angry
did u give her?

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by nizzy153(m): 5:40pm On Jun 16, 2020
OBelz:
My own wanted to see me and I told him I don't have chance to come and he told me he can come around and wen he finally did this guy chop and drink I was the one that took care of the bills,and the mumu still went ahead asking me wen are my coming to see him in his house and wat can he keep for me� I just went into Unended call until he left.some guys don't have shame at all�
just because of d bills? ......

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Calapar(m): 5:51pm On Jun 16, 2020
Na pant you want chop? You still get time to dey analyze panties? Na wa o
BOOZELEE:
I meet this girl..She luvs forming hard to get.When i finally got her and we wanted to get down..She pulled her clothes,as she pulled her cloth and i saw her unattractive pant my preek fell down flat.Her pant had holes and stain on it and the color looked faded.
I tied my towel immediaty,went down stairs and offed the generator..I told her that my gen had problem that she should wear her cloth let me drop her off and get someone that wll fix it.
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Calapar(m): 5:56pm On Jun 16, 2020
It might just be a test for the poor girl. The dude pretended to dress down.
MPESA:


Some people don't really care about what they put On while some don't have dressing sense irrespective of there exposure or where they resides..... Except you only care about Yankee level , if not you might have loss a Diamond while searching for Stone.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Calapar(m): 6:00pm On Jun 16, 2020
Lol...most of these girls suck at dates. Some won't be interactive while some turn it to interview. To some, it's question and answer session. I don't ask straight questions during dates, I discuss around what I want from you but unfortunately some fall for it but few intelligent ones get the gist
Blackmoran:
I met this babe at my sisters church spoke to her we exchange numbers call her the next day we fixed a date... The D day for us to meet we met at my friends gym. Strike no 1 she came late, when she came she didn't even apologise or give reason why she was late, I overlook am after settling down the first question that came out of her mouth was "WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING" am like I work for lawma, gave one mumu excuse find my way commot.. Later that evening my sister con dey para for me say I just abandoned her friend...

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Munzy14(m): 6:02pm On Jun 16, 2020
McBrooklyn:
Yeah first date and minutes later she dey hustle me for 5k urgently angry
cheesy grin grin

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Blackmoran(m): 6:07pm On Jun 16, 2020
Calapar:
Lol...most of these girls suck at dates. Some won't be interactive while some turn it to interview. To some, it's question and answer session. I don't ask straight questions during dates, I discuss around what I want from you but unfortunately some fall for it but few intelligent ones get the gist
when you on a date and the first question is what she ask... That babe know get interest in you oo, she is trying to gauge your pocket and decide her next move...

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by MPESA(m): 6:14pm On Jun 16, 2020
Calapar:
It might just be a test for the poor girl. The dude pretended to dress down.

Sure , it hurt me to see that she's celebrating to have chop the guy and clean mouth while she might be at losing end .....
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by PoliticallyInco: 6:16pm On Jun 16, 2020
QuinModah:
Ladies And Gentlemen,

Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/Her?

Share Your Experience

Mine: First date: We met in a hotel restaurant, I dint know this guy has already book a room. Saying he wants us to discuss privately as if dat place wasn't enough. And also he was bragging too much. I left him there, since then I stop picking his calls+ He kept looking at my boobs n smiles like an idiot

Hahahahaha.. His intentions were glaring at least. At least let us give that to him.

Few years back. Someone told someone she was interested in me.I had told and forewarned the bearer of the message that it might not go well because I do not live to impress any one. My taste in women is rare. Additionally, I was not the regular "sheep" in the world, influenced by religious, class, gender, race, political view point,tribal, ethnic, blood and other biases. I am also politically incorrect on a lot of things. The person insisted because promise had been made to the lady and also, what was the worse that could happen? I feed, gist and laugh with her to death?

Anyway, met her at a restaurant. Worst date ever. She laughed and talked to her phone all through the date. Typed messages under the table. Took 1 billion photos (perhaps even more) on that single date.Ok clearly an exaggeration. But, men a lot of selfies.Few calls came in in quick succession and based on her responses, I believe she was posting online and sending to friends and reading comments and chats. She would type, laugh and apologize 1,000 times for chatting on her phone. Oh you know you are being stupid, so why continue and apologize and repeat? Could not hold any proper discussion on anything. However, knew how to order a lot of stuff including what she would take home. Hilarious, I thought. At least she knows something about being hungry.

Anyway my type of person, I told her I was only going to pay for what she could eat right there. Courtesy demands this as her host, despite the fact that we had not discussed who would be handling the bill. Besides I wanted this to be my treat anyway. But I was not going to pay for anything she takes home. She could pay for that herself as it was outside the date. Immediately, that got her attention. She was shocked and confused. She asked that but she was told I work with XYZ bla bla bla where the person that introduced us also works, and the person is a big person.I knew where she was coming from.To her she expected that a "big boy" should not bother about that. Her expectation was to come and have a nice time at my expense, take some free meal home. Oh well. Nice time during the date, no problem. I could feed her entire village 3 square meals for life. No offense to her village people. But trying to insult my intelligence, that I won't allow.

Her face changed. Had her meal in silence. Countenance dropped from "giggling high" to "sulking low". Responses became monosyllabic and snappy. I politely asked after the meal if she would like to leave. She affirmed. Drove her to her house. Dropped her off. She wouldn't respond to my "have a good night". Latter heard she said I was a "wicked and stingy" man.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Munzy14(m): 6:20pm On Jun 16, 2020
MPESA:


Some people don't really care about what they put On while some don't have dressing sense irrespective of there exposure or where they resides..... Except you only care about Yankee level , if not you might have loss a Diamond while searching for Stone.
True talk... some of these yankee guys, dress anyhow because they've got cash load.

My friend who has lived in US more than 25yrs, If u see him dressing u will think he is a nonsense person.

But when u see him creep out of his numerous exotic rides, u will think someone owns the cars.


I realized na people weh no hold Money the package pass.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by MPESA(m): 6:28pm On Jun 16, 2020
Munzy14:

True talk... some of these yankee guys, dress anyhow because they've got cash load.

My friend who has lived in US more than 25yrs, If u see him dressing u will think he is a nonsense person.

But when u see him creep out of his numerous exotic rides, u will think someone owns the cars.


I realized na people weh no hold Money the package pass.

Na so brother, what I can I afford conveniently don't move me but what I don't have or afford is what I work towards to get..... Na me be that but I don't know about others.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by callmeRichie(m): 6:39pm On Jun 16, 2020
Munzy14:

True talk... some of these yankee guys, dress anyhow because they've got cash load.
My friend who has lived in US more than 25yrs, If u see him dressing u will think he is a nonsense person.
But when u see him creep out of his numerous exotic rides, u will think someone owns the cars.
I realized na people weh no hold Money the package pass.

Naso oo bros

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Munzy14(m): 9:29pm On Jun 16, 2020
callmeRichie:

Naso oo bros
Money makes one so confident and simple.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Munzy14(m): 9:31pm On Jun 16, 2020
MPESA:


Na so brother, what I can I afford conveniently don't move me but what I don't have or afford is what I work towards to get..... Na me be that but I don't know about others.
Good mindset.


Being real is simply the best.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by McBrooklyn(m): 9:53pm On Jun 16, 2020
nizzy153:
did u give her?
Fück no.. Ah just use style discard her, then started avoiding her completely afterwards..
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Ishilove: 9:58pm On Jun 16, 2020
His breath funked so much, my eyeglasses turned brown. And God, spittle settled at the side of his lips when he talked. Years later I'm still traumatised.

*scream*

*wail*

cry cry

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by Chamber2000: 10:37pm On Jun 16, 2020
Ishilove:
His breath funked so much, my eyeglasses turned brown. And God, spittle settled at the side of his lips when he talked. Years later I'm still traumatised.

*scream*

*wail*

cry cry
Did u discuss it with him later
Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by LegendaryLover(m): 11:14pm On Jun 16, 2020
Ishilove:
His breath funked so much, my eyeglasses turned brown. And God, spittle settled at the side of his lips when he talked. Years later I'm still traumatised.

*scream*

*wail*

cry cry
spittle settled at the side of his lips? yuck...
such people fail to ask themselves this question, 'if i were someone else, would i want to be with me seeing the way i take care of myself'?

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by LegendaryLover(m): 11:30pm On Jun 16, 2020
[quote author=PoliticallyInco post=90739988]

lol... some nigerian girls don't understand the concept of a date. A date sh be about getting to know the other person. But because of poverty, they think a date is an opportunity to eat all they ever dreamed of, but couldn't afford.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by angelfallz(m): 11:36pm On Jun 16, 2020
QuinModah:
Ladies And Gentlemen,

Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/Her?

Share Your Experience

Mine: First date: We met in a hotel restaurant, I dint know this guy has already book a room. Saying he wants us to discuss privately as if dat place wasn't enough. And also he was bragging too much. I left him there, since then I stop picking his calls+ He kept looking at my boobs n smiles like an idiot

Was your dress revealing your breasts?

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by luscioustrish(f): 11:39pm On Jun 16, 2020
PoliticallyInco:


Hahahahaha.. His intentions were glaring at least. At least let us give that to him.

Few years back. Someone told someone she was interested in me.I had told and forewarned the bearer of the message that it might not go well because I do not live to impress any one. My taste in women is rare. Additionally, I was not the regular "sheep" in the world, influenced by religious, class, gender, race, political view point,tribal, ethnic, blood and other biases. I am also politically incorrect on a lot of things. The person insisted because promise had been made to the lady and also, what was the worse that could happen? I feed, gist and laugh with her to death?

Anyway, met her at a restaurant. Worst date ever. She laughed and talked to her phone all through the date. Typed messages under the table. Took 1 billion photos (perhaps even more) on that single date.Ok clearly an exaggeration. But, men a lot of selfies.Few calls came in in quick succession and based on her responses, I believe she was posting online and sending to friends and reading comments and chats. She would type, laugh and apologize 1,000 times for chatting on her phone. Oh you know you are being stupid, so why continue and apologize and repeat? Could not hold any proper discussion on anything. However, knew how to order a lot of stuff including what she would take home. Hilarious, I thought. At least she knows something about being hungry.

Anyway my type of person, I told her I was only going to pay for what she could eat right there. Courtesy demands this as her host, despite the fact that we had not discussed who would be handling the bill. Besides I wanted this to be my treat anyway. But I was not going to pay for anything she takes home. She could pay for that herself as it was outside the date. Immediately, that got her attention. She was shocked and confused. She asked that but she was told I work with XYZ bla bla bla where the person that introduced us also works, and the person is a big person.I knew where she was coming from.To her she expected that a "big boy" should not bother about that. Her expectation was to come and have a nice time at my expense, take some free meal home. Oh well. Nice time during the date, no problem. I could feed her entire village 3 square meals for life. No offense to her village people. But trying to insult my intelligence, that I won't allow.

Her face changed. Had her meal in silence. Countenance dropped from "giggling high" to "sulking low". Responses became monosyllabic and snappy. I politely asked after the meal if she would like to leave. She affirmed. Drove her to her house. Dropped her off. She wouldn't respond to my "have a good night". Latter heard she said I was a "wicked and stingy" man.



Seriously? grin grin grin grin grin
I wonder why some girls do that anyway, shameful.

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Re: Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/he by angelfallz(m): 11:43pm On Jun 16, 2020
Blackmoran:
I met this babe at my sisters church spoke to her we exchange numbers call her the next day we fixed a date... The D day for us to meet we met at my friends gym. Strike no 1 she came late, when she came she didn't even apologise or give reason why she was late, I overlook am after settling down the first question that came out of her mouth was "WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING" am like I work for lawma, gave one mumu excuse find my way commot.. Later that evening my sister con dey para for me say I just abandoned her friend...
So you were angry because she asked about your source of income?

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