Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Bellotelli: 8:02am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Women are really crazy. What other closure do you want when you are the one that called it quit? And then I moved on only for you to start calling every now and then seeking audience. Trying once again with all ur emotional drama. I don't think I need that.. I've moved on, and so so should you. |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by SamUnbeatable(m): 8:05am On Jun 23, 2020 |
ladies are always crazy, it depends ur attitude will determine how crazy dey will be or act to u... |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by AududuNine11: 8:09am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Edusouls: Yes sister women are crazy, nasty and crazy again, it’s inborn in them.. Your mother is crazy |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by jaxxy(m): 8:12am On Jun 23, 2020 |
PrecioussB:
I had to explain it to the best of my knowledge. I understand all u said. Yes everyone needs or want a closure bt smtmes when u do ur best to get it and don't, don't wait for the dumb ass partner. Gracefully move on learning whatever u can based on ur understanding of the truth and events. Not everyone comes to love u, people have different intentions so what closure will u expect from a nonentity?? It will still be worthless lies or manipulation. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Reex12(m): 8:13am On Jun 23, 2020 |
really? |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by AududuNine11: 8:14am On Jun 23, 2020 |
1 Like |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by AududuNine11: 8:17am On Jun 23, 2020 |
PrecioussB:
Lol. You know me well then As per yabaleft roomies weh una be, ba? |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by nomenclature(m): 8:19am On Jun 23, 2020 |
I know you are looking for attention,here it is snitchbitch: Nigerian girls are not crazy. They are smart and they always go for the best.
You don't have money and you are toasting a girl, what will you give to her? The more money you have the more she loves you. |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by TheSparrow: 8:22am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Emily22(m): 8:24am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Ha....i rem the day a girl told me I don't like the way u use punctuation marks on whatsapp.... She said she can go crazy with inappropriate use of punctuation marks... E.g how was your day - no question mark.. She will go crazy Are we writing IELTS, TOEFL.... Na dat day I know say some ladies dey craze with honour... Not trying to badmouth her but 31(age) now, she no get even bf.......now I know d reason why everybody japa |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nmezor(f): 8:31am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nobody: 8:32am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Dami12345:
Exactly. We are so used to trying to make things work that we KNOW somethings just dont work.
Cold bottle of origin dey wait you bro, thank you for that post. Most women don't understand the effort men put in relationships. |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by skyhighweb(m): 8:38am On Jun 23, 2020 |
oh thought u said lazy lol was gonna shout yes nahhhh |
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Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Pacesetter123(m): 8:43am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Laxy009(m): 8:47am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Women or ladies need more closure than men or guys . Most guys are more logical than be emotional .
I don’t give reasons for ending a relationship. Just wake up and tell you it’s over or I just keep skipping your call or block you from calling me but I won’t go into details.
If things go south in a relationship I don’t ask questions . I just move on and forget it . 1 Like |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by owolabiVal(m): 8:58am On Jun 23, 2020 |
humilitypays: Hmmm, men don't need any closure jareh, if u want to leave biko leave, no do shakara, no de carry your shoulder up! That's how most men are. Men are only angry if they didn't fvck you before you left, but if he fvcked you, my sister you can waka de go like that, nothing mega
And for the ladies, don't expect any closure from any guy that breaks up with u cos mos guys break up with girls because of the below reasons:
1.) All he wanted was fun and he got it while the girl wanted a lasting relationship which was never the game plan of the guy
2.) If you are a girl thats always asking him money for this, money for that, buy me shoe, buy me bag, buy me new wig, pay my rent, my school fees nkor, then be prepared for several break ups with several guys without any notice because once the current or incumbent boyfriend gets tired of footing your bills, he will sempe without notice
3.) If your something is not tight like tiger but, hmmmmm, guys go de run after some do oh, yeah it sounds crazy but that's the truth, and don't expect any guy that is not crazy like Naira Marley to tell you that why him kasala was because your tininini is not tight enough for him bujaajee
4.) If you be chick weh de date 2 or more guys at the same time, just expect sudden break ups without notice or closure and also know that most guys won't even tell u why they ran, once they find out you be Hanty Rukky, they gonna run without notice abi closure
5.) If u are above 27yrs as a girl and u are always asking him when he will go and see your parents or disturbing him for marriage or acting too desperate for marriage, expect plenty break ups without closure cos guys of today hate ladies that are desperate for marriage because most times such ladies dont have much to offer.
This is one reason men seem to prefer girls below 22yrs because they are the ones who even turn down marriage talks, so guys prefer them cos they just want fun and party, no time for marriage or any commitment. So dear mature single ladies, pls stop acting too desperate for marriage, it scare guys away even if they are ready to marry tomorrow, act like a teenage girl who only want fun and attention without commitment and guys will be at your beck and call That no: 1 is just the real truth |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Mandela27: 9:04am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Who cares about closure
No worry na closing ceremony u go see.
closure ni closure ko 1 Like |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Liposure: 9:04am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Sometimes it takes more than closure. Some relationships are complicated |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by AkuOlisa: 9:07am On Jun 23, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color] funmisticqueen2: Both men and women need some form of closure. Most women don't need closure. They just need an opportunity to turn things around by emotionally blackmailing the guy, so that they can be the ones doing the dumping |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Farki: 9:16am On Jun 23, 2020 |
When women say no some will mean yes and want to play stupid and dangerous games.
They will threaten to kill, beat and cut a man's dick off if he's seen talking to another girl or if the woman suspects him of cheating.
They will say that they or women in general don't like something but after a few days they are doing the same thing they don't like. |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by blazingblender(m): 9:24am On Jun 23, 2020 |
really a long speech ..can someone help me summarize |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by juniorstar(m): 9:52am On Jun 23, 2020 |
PrecioussB: Just like the title says. I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.
The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.
WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.
MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.
GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.
Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.
Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .
This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.
CLOSURE is KEY!
Peace no smart guy can be taken by surprise...you see it coming. you either let it slide or you do it yourself. i prefer the gal ending it herself but i would have stopped investing in it b4 she ends it. so later she won't say i wasn't patient enough. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by GRACEGLORY: 9:55am On Jun 23, 2020 |
PrecioussB: Just like the title says. I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.
The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.
WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.
MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.
GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.
Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.
Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .
This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.
CLOSURE is KEY!
Peace It takes a crazy lady to assume that a guy thinks her crazy though. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nobody: 10:00am On Jun 23, 2020 |
snitchbitch: Nigerian girls are not crazy. They are smart and they always go for the best.
You don't have money and you are toasting a girl, what will you give to her? The more money you have the more she loves you. And someone will open thread wondering why men don’t want to marry again |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by dahbosswinky(m): 10:02am On Jun 23, 2020 |
who can summarize this for me |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nobody: 10:03am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nobody: 10:03am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by val4sure(m): 10:03am On Jun 23, 2020 |
PrecioussB: Just like the title says. I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.
The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.
WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.
MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.
GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.
Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.
Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .
This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.
CLOSURE is KEY!
Peace |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Zeuslord(m): 10:42am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Laxy009: Women or ladies need more closure than men or guys . Most guys are more logical than be emotional .
I don’t give reasons for ending a relationship. Just wake up and tell you it’s over or I just keep skipping your call or block you from calling me but I won’t go into details.
If things go south in a relationship I don’t ask questions . I just move on and forget it . you nailed it |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Karlifate: 11:38am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Hypocrit: Shit! I woke up to gender war post... Ona no dey tire? The average nigerian must always look for ways to create war in every peace. Hahahahaha! |
Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Karlifate: 11:40am On Jun 23, 2020 |
DrWhizy: First they said education was the key
Then prayer was the master key
Now closure ? Another key! Pfftttt Doors plenty nau....... That "in my father's house, there are many mansions" thingy. |