cooooooks:
You know she wants to fvck him right?

lol. Unless she's wise if not such stories ends in pregnancy and premium tears

If he dumps you please dust yourself and forge ahead,them no born you because of him

To raise a girl child is not easy.

Even in this perilous times, they will still want to put their parents in trouble.

athaboi:
allow that puna to rest...the one wey him collect when you were still serving in Lagos is enough... keep the puna for your husband

Abi

1Sharon:


OK will she employ herself?

Some of you are just funny . A graduate should think out of the box. One day a young beautiful lady walk up to me for a chat. I taught she came to beg for money for transport ...she told me sir I want to be snapping all this car's you display and advertise for u ....you go dey pay me commission ....I was so happy to see a lady not asking for money but for something reasonable to do...to cut the story short she sold more than 10 cars for us cos I linked her to other dealers ....on one ocvassion the person she sold car to started dating her ...to God be the glory they married ....she is in USA with the man but do send me cars for sale ....I love people that are creative ....

athaboi:
allow that puna to rest...the one wey him collect when you were still serving in Lagos is enough... keep the puna for your husband

U can talk straight oh..

OP are you ready to settle down?..is you guy ready to come see your parents..?

Are you the one stopping him?

What do you want from this relationship? Can you tolerate him with his flaws?

From service time till now is enough time for u to figure out his intentions torwards you..

Tell ur man what u want, u're done with service for Christ sakes..

Ur parents are strict because they love u. nd want the best for you.

#Do what you know will make them proud of you...!

clive2u:
lol. Unless she's wise if not such stories ends in pregnancy and premium tears

She will join the long line of Yoruba girls pregnant while in their father's house.

Lol. Only if you lose your head.

At least i know that our education système teaches about contraception.

As long as she doesnt think she can fvck him to the altar, no premium tears are necessary.

clive2u:
lol. Unless she's wise if not such stories ends in pregnancy and premium tears

you should obey ur parents

That guy wants to use u and cashout sharp....... Coz am nt understanding why he angrily wants birthday surprise u like he's ya father...... If he really wants to surprise let him cum meet ya parents.... Rubbish.... Pls say no to untimely death.

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together.

Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august. He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them (parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend (girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy.

Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

he should come formally to see your parents

victoradey:
OMG! Though I didn't know you but your write up shows the guy only want you for sex.
You are still very young consider the fact that you are a graduate at 22, there are many profitable things you can still do with this your age that will make other ladies look up to you and give you a glorious future.
Thank God for your strict parent who don't want your destiny and glory to be battered and butchered on the altar of sex, listen to them the more and be more close to your creator to know why you are here on earth so that your route and journey life can be defined. Being bothered by boy enemy is a distraction to you now and a poison to your moving forward.
Make meaningful use of your time on something profitable, not in pursuit of men that is only around to empty you of your glory.
Let the guy go and have a close relationship with God for the best.
Listen to your parent, don't be bothered by the word lust that rapped as love, make meaningful use of your time for a glorious future and have a close relationship with your creator for your self discovery.
I see a glorious destiny!
I see a brighter future!
I see a world changer!

I am astonished. Nairaland is still filled with many positive influencers and great would-be parents.

Thanks for your contributions Chief. I got some nuggets too..

From all indication, this babe really made up her mind to visit that clown called bf. Konji na bastard.
Nothing we say here will make her change her mind.

mutter:
Honestly at that age after your youth service you should be old enough to visit friends and spend the night.
However, you have finished your youth service what stops him from proposing?
My dear don't be left behind when the marriage wind blows.
If he is not ready let him keep his distance so that serious men can come forward.

as ur own dickk dey close abi?

E be like say we d build d same house ,, cos my own roof d leak as ur own.

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Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together.

Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august. He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them (parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend (girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy.

Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

The man is selfish and inconsiderate.You have to maintain your stand and that of your parents.If he wants you to visit him freely ,he should bring his parents to do the introduction.

So you want to put your female friend in trouble by lying that you want to visit her and end up in a man's house ? If anything goes wrong who do you think will be compelled to produce you if you go missing ? And did you see the way a corper like you was sobbing and downcaste before fsars officers fee weeks ago ? Turned out her man , whom she just met is a wanted armed robber . Think of your parents please .

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cooooooks:
You know she wants to fvck him right?

That's how one 'bro' on nairaland was busy arguing that women have little to zero sexual urges few days ago.
Till he hears the extent some ladies have gone just to get the D
She herself that is lying to her parents because of a man also wants the D

cooooooks:
Lol. Only if you lose your head.

At least i know that our education système teaches about contraception.

As long as she doesnt think she can fvck him to the altar, no premium tears are necessary.

abi. why I said unless she's wise.

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together.

Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august. He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them (parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend (girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy.

Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

So you mean to tell me you never heard nor read about the girl whose dad was former Deputy Governor whose boy friend KILLED her for money rituals...she left the house on the pretext of going back to "skool" and ended up at the boyfriend's house who killed her and almost succeeded in using her corpse for rituals...
So you really want your life to end in tears for you and your parents all because of a "boyfriend"....are u fking kidding me? So while at your age..your mates are STRUGGLING to get good jobs your own na boyfriend..chai see wasted sperm

GOFRONT:
Not only selfish but self centered.....

He must be a cynical egocentric sociopath for getting angry over such childish issue, as if he has even paid her bride price. Nonsense and its ingredients..

.Most of you girls not yet married, reasons with their anus instead of their brain. Your parents gave you an instruction not to travel and you want to disobey your parents 'cus of a guy who don't reason with his brain, but his legs.

Op, I pity your stupidity.

Same stupidity lead a promising young girl, to her early grave. She lied to her parents that she was travelling to see her girl friend in Ogun state, but parents never knew she was going to Abuja along with her girlfriend. Their bus had an accident along Abuja road, she died but her friend survived.

Op, a guy who cannot reason with you and count himself lucky to someone like you whose parents are stricts, doesn't worth a human being.

Op, have you asked yourself a question? What if something goes wrong on this journey?

There’s something called accident. Please don’t go. Don’t let accident happened to you o. That guy will deny you. Nothing serious in your relationship with him. It’s all about sex. Don’t get carried away

Lool.

Many guys allow this false info to create false expectations that could harm real life relationships.

They should go and check polls thay measure how many women fake satisfaction and other related questions.

When they meet real life and realise that the konji they think they have hook their girl more than them, they begin to feel emasculated.

Chii59:

That's how one 'bro' on nairaland was busy arguing that women have little to zero sexual urges few days ago.
Till he hears the extent some ladies have gone just to get the D
She herself that is lying to her parents because of a man also wants the D

Tell him to come marry you. All this things will end

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together.

Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august. He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them (parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend (girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy.

Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

How can you bring this simple issue to NL ?... U will not passed out o , inshAllah , Just tell him to come see your parents, if he is truly in love and want you to come for days visits... Don't visit him him, if he is not ready to come see your parents .. what about if u go visit him in lag and come back same day ?, Its not far , you can go early morning , get to lag by 9:am , stay for 6hrs hours and return back before 6pm... But the issue is that he will fvck u, and what about if u get belle(pregnant) will he be man enough to go see your parents and Mary you , that he cannot do it now ... Use it sense oo, Na pandemic we dey o

andyanders:
Good advise. Most of you girl not yet married reasons with their anus instead of their brain. You parents gave you an instruction not to travel and you want to disobey your parents 'cus of a guy who don't reason with his brain, but his legs. Op, I pity your stupidity.

Same stupidity lead a promising your girl, who lied to her parents that she was travell

I can't agree less with you. That lady is quite jejunely stupid. The guy thinks with his third leg, not even his legs..

If truly he loves you, he will understand you enough and even be the one to encourage you.

I think, he wants you to be around him often so that he can fulfill his sexual desires on a regular basis.

Yield to your parents advices, don't go visit him, and let him quit the relationship himself if that's his wish.

You're still young - build your self up:, if possible go further your education, get yourself a job, chase your dreams and believe in God and yourself.

Do not trying hard to conform to the societal demands of having a boyfriend by all means, as if, it's one big lifetime achievement, to avoid emotional rollercoaster.

Let him be aware, that if he wants you to be coming over to see him and sleeps over, he should come see your parents. if he stands his ground, my sister, break up with him as soon as possible, so that you won't turn a feminist overnight and join the bandwagon of those ladies that says "Men Are Scum ", because that guy is a wrong choice. Have a wonderful night.

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together.

Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august. He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them (parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend (girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy.

Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

The only plan he had for you was how he is going to sleep with you multiple times. He was disappointed his evil intentions were boycotted.
If you listen to your parents and make sure you don't just throw yourself at any man in the name of love.. You will Thank them in the future.. If he is serious let him come and visit you in your parents house, introduce him to them.. You're 22.
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