Ms. Potato:

Eyah pele

Goldieluks:

^^yeye potato

desholah:

Madam Potato/Salad
What you meant  . . . .I meant Nigerian ladies ''most'' have stiff brains.

REALITY101:

Lol @op that's so true. Your post reminds me of one of my ex (white chick) I had s ex with her n when I got up I told her is a breakup s ex guess what? She left n that was it.

desholah:

Ms potato
What i meant is very simple here ,   , I said when both sides should abide by the situation and let it go off but Nigerian ladies won't still get the signal . . . . .
I have travelled around europe and it's just too easy to pick up a  girl ''Not prosty'' have fun together and just leave . .No prb with that ,
Though that's never possible with Nigerian ladies except the prosty.
D-sense

desholah:

Yeah.You got me right bro.
That's exactly what i'm talking bout .BUT I'm 100% sure that trying such act with Nigerian ladies is definitely hard and probably impossible. . . . .
It seems Ms Potato is browsing right from Japan and guess what . . The nuclear explosion is affecting her already

Ms. Potato:

Well my dear. U cannot compare between an Oyinbo Lady and an African lady its because both were brought up in different ways when it comes to relationships.

Oyinbo ladies are use to one night stands and getting dump the next day and they are use to short term relationships and also their divorce rate is vry high. Its all so normal and natural to them that they dont even realize that the world would come to an end with the way they are behaving (No offense to some of my family members whom happen to be Oyinbos) but thats how I see it.

Unlike Africa, in Africa, African ladies doi not just get dumped that way. There is a traditional sense of dating where two people go out together and they meet each other's parents and the parents itself is a little strict compare to those Oyinbos' whom dont really care.( To them its a free world to date who) and u know African people is not up to theconcept of dating and break ups and dovorce and so on so forth.

I hope u catch my drift?

desholah:

Yep!!! . . .Now we are talking . , Now you hit the point.
But why is is that some of African ladies that were born or were raised up outside the Africa still feature this african mentality and could not engage to the enviroment the were raised up from?

Ms. Potato:

And as for you boys. Boys will be boys. Ive always said it from before. Its very rare to get a guy to actually listen and follow his family's tradition. Guys tend to go astray and tend to follow exactly on how the environment changes. They always want better things and enjoyment in life not knowing that actually those so called better things are doing them bad in a long period of time

Thats why you became what you became.

desholah:

You are right bout that . . .And i noticed is becaus we like to live big and proud,dON'T CARE bout what is right and what is wrong . .though we are aware of the difference but not ready to engage . . .
So what you meant by . . . . .That's why became what you are?

desholah:

And what to do in order to upgrade their understanding upwards this particular issue? . . hmmm

BABE!:

@OP, why are Nigerian ladies so stiff?! look at your stiff mouth! (lol) nonsense,,
the answer to your why why why why why ranting is CULTURE yo!

Mrs, Chima:

desholah:

The girls ofcourse
We need to introduce the mentality where by you can date some1 for couple of hrs then a breakup comes in.

Is the weather of your location too high/hot for you to read a simple thread like this one?

mama-gee:

Yeah, I know. . .

Some posters really don't make much sense sometimes.