people are weird in this world.. someone asked for advice and instead of giving the advice, na so so abuse full the first page.. mtcheeww

back to the matter...this is normal because you are just sexually attracted to the first guy and it doesn't mean you are in "love" with him, pls don't tell him or let him know how you are feeling because the guy will only exploit it to keep having sex with you. And it's like that because you lost your virginity to him, that's why it's best to keep yourself till marriage or lose the virginity to someone you are sure you love
everything still lies in your hand to get control over your body and get over him

first you need strong will
two, it might help to stop talking to him or lose contact with him for a while to be sure about your feelings
three, you need to take your mind off sex and stay away from things that can refer your mind to sex (porn, movies, sex etc) and instead back to God, Bible/Quran and anything that can keep you grounded
four..

Juliusmomoh:
"Nigeria girls are useless"...

I repeat

"nigeria girls are useless".

#Case close

ah bros relax na, this one no useless like that,

Depressed101:
ah bros relax na, this one no useless like that,

Oga depressed
How far na?
Longtime oo

Juliusmomoh:


Oga depressed
How far na?
Longtime oo

your boy dey o, boss

Depressed101:
your boy dey o, boss

Na u de call me lazy untop my own thread ba

Doja2000:
I don catch u na. Oya let's go back to nairaland.

I will tell my mummy for you

Lilpen3758:
I will tell my mummy for you

mummy's boy.
Oya go and call your mummy,make I arrest her too.

Doja2000:
mummy's boy.
Oya go and call your mummy,make I arrest her too.

Doja2000:
mummy's boy.
Oya go and call your mummy,make I arrest her too.

you dey very wicked

You re delivered!!!!

Anakan20:
Please don't judge me. I created a new account to post this.

I just got into a new relationship 2 weeks ago. A week prior to that I lost my virginity to a guy I love. But I know he isn't a relationship kind of guy. He claims he loves me and even asked me out after having taking my virginity but I refused.

However I accepted the proposal of a guy friend that I've known for many years. I love him too. He is more relationship oriented. We've not had sex yet.

The problem is that I'm so attracted to the first guy. He doesn't know I'm in a relationship and he still talks and flirts with me. I'm afraid that if I tell him I'm in a relationship he will stop talking to me and that will be the end of our friendship. I've been avoiding him because I don't think I'll be able to control myself around him. I get very wet down there when he stands close to me and I fell a strong urge to kiss him when I look at his face.

I don't know what to do. It's been 3 weeks since I last saw him face to face and that was the day I lost my virginity to him.

useless thing

My own be say if una like make una advise op heaven to earth she go still Bleep the first guy again
Una dey waste una advise

Lilpen3758:
you dey very wicked

i be wicked person

Lilpen3758:
My own be say if una like make una advise op heaven to earth she go still Bleep the first guy again
Una dey waste una advise

chai....!!! See how you finish op. I don dey cry for her ooo

Lilpen3758:

kontinue laughing. U and your mummy go sleep for station today

My dear,forget about your heart and follow your wetness

Anakan20:
Please don't judge me. I created a new account to post this.

I just got into a new relationship 2 weeks ago. A week prior to that I lost my virginity to a guy I love. But I know he isn't a relationship kind of guy. He claims he loves me and even asked me out after having taking my virginity but I refused.

However I accepted the proposal of a guy friend that I've known for many years. I love him too. He is more relationship oriented. We've not had sex yet.

The problem is that I'm so attracted to the first guy. He doesn't know I'm in a relationship and he still talks and flirts with me. I'm afraid that if I tell him I'm in a relationship he will stop talking to me and that will be the end of our friendship. I've been avoiding him because I don't think I'll be able to control myself around him. I get very wet down there when he stands close to me and I fell a strong urge to kiss him when I look at his face.

I don't know what to do. It's been 3 weeks since I last saw him face to face and that was the day I lost my virginity to him.

tesuto1:
My dear,forget about your heart and follow your wetness

Don't follow any yeye wetness. If you don't want to cry.

Anakan20:


20

This is the oloshism/hoeing stage of your life where you Bleep men for money,take alcohol and smoke cigarettes,commit series of abortion and jumping from one man to another all in the name of money..l am certain if you are advice to change you will not listen so there is no need, all I can say to you continue your wayward lifestyle till you clock 30 something when you will start to visit churches looking for husband whom you will deceive to marry you after you might have repackage yourself without him knowing your formal lifestyle...I just pity the man because he will not be aware that the married repackage olosho as wife..

Juliusmomoh:
"Nigeria girls are useless"...

I repeat

"nigeria girls are useless".

#Case close

Habib101:

Your name sound as if you are from kogi

Doja2000:
chai....!!! See how you finish op. I don dey cry for her ooo

no waste your tears na dey truth....

Lilpen3758:
no waste your tears na dey truth....

yes boss

Girls are always attached to the first guy they lost their virginity to whether they love him or not. What you are feeling for that guy isn't love but lust so why don't you try having sex with your new boyfriend if your heart is there so that you can forget about the guy you lost your virginity to and not ruin your relationship

Juliusmomoh:

Your name sound as if you are from kogi

nah am in kd

cosmos2000:
Ah to the best of my knowledge, I think you are seeing him as a sex mate, I'm also having that expression of seeing my new gf as a sex mate and that was because she told me she is after the fun part of our Just-begining relationship but it seems she is just looking for ways to get detached from her virginity-taker. This relationship of a thing I would advised should be handled with Wisdom and not feelings.

This guy relationship has ended