ceeplus:

Nowadays,people really believe  that real love is something of the old

reason No.1.Girls heardly think of  what they will give, rather they think of what they will recieve.

No.2.Any little thing they do,they anticipate for immidiate reward.

Now,the general question is,apart from sex which both party enjoy,what can girls open heartedly offer in a relationship?

MRbrownJAY:

do YOU also believe in real love or not?! let us hear what is your concept of REAL LOVE.

what does THAT have to do with love?! just because some hungry gal is asking for presents DOESNT in any way says that she loves you. open your mind, pls.


again, what does that have to do with real love?! everybody wants rewards for their deeds cause i doubt you would pay for dinner for NO reason! the question IS: are you silly enough to believe that this is real love AND reward these hungry rats?!


may i ask what A MAN can offer that a woman cant?! i mean, if you were dating a financially stable woman (not the hungry rats out there)

iice:

Same question, different day.

*dhtml:

Hola mi amiga hermosa. Es been a long tyme since we chatted en NL. . .

IZUKWU:

in summary ,you mean what a woman can offer in a relationship depends on her financial stability and her love for you.

MRbrownJAY:

if a man dates poor/hungry damsel and expects them NOT to ask for help/handouts then he surely has lost the plot AND THEREFORE should start dating financially secure women for peace of mind.

this man should look at women as his equal therefore compare himself with women who are equally stable in life as he is, AND ask the question: what can they offer him? and also what can HE offer them?

OF COURSE, this woman must love you to even think of offering you ANYTHING or even respecting you. these gold diggers (who has NO love for you) have only sex to offer and should NEVER be compared with true r/ship.

livedit:

"Girls" wouldn't have much to offer since they are not "women" yet. Most real "women" have alot to offer a man. Since women were made to be a real "man's" help mate. I never went into any relationship thinking selfishly of what's in it for me. A relationship, should be mutual giving/receiving unselfishly. I am a very independent woman. And through the love, grace and mercy of God who can and have held her own down so I don't need a "man" to take care of me. When I sought a partner, it was for just that, a "partnership". Someone to spend the rest of my life with, to be each other's back bone, a companion, someone who I can share and show my love to. I don't alway's seek my "reward" with my mate. I look to God because he has and is my "rewarder" and know's how to take care of His child. If you find yourself dealing with "girls" who always seek "compensation" for any "good" they do or not holding up their "side" of the relationship, then maybe you should stop dating "girls" and upgrade to a "woman".

Mrs, Chima:

Hey Mrs. Livedit! How we say in the South, "Yanno girl, tell 'em"

campbell05:

@190 see You loud Mouth,

1) constant sex
2) clean house, Few of them sabi clean house.
3) good cook, Few of them sabi cook but they can eat enough fast food.
4) intelligence, Not Sure.
5) confidant, rare cases.
6) supporter, Not Sure.

You don chop life frog before

IZUKWU:

how them do we get into true relationships.