Hyerin:


They're all the same with their tired, ad nauseam arguments. It's like there's a factory churning out these bots. Not a speck of individuality

jeromestarks:

No sensible man would marry a woman above 23.

soundforce:
I weep for you and your level of ignorance. You're likely not married and know nothing about you are arguing. It's not compulsory to comment on all topics. At times, just learn from people's comments and shared experience. That's how to grow in knowledge. What favours a man,may not favor another; so, don't judge every man by one man's success.
Funny enough, at 23, many girls can't handle the stress that comes with some marriages. Send a 3 year old clever child to kg 3; he won't cope. Women/mothers in the house can testify to this

cooooooks:
Keep telling yourself that.

Go to any couple retreat and the elders will tell the ladies how to control their husbands.

It is very blatant.

Evolutionlove:


It takes a "Miserable, Loser, & A Bitter Person" to recognize the aforementioned, Which means you are even Worst than being A Loser, Condemned, Bitter & Hopeless.....

JESHAL:



False, No matter your delusional logic, a younger woman between 18-25 would always be a man's preference regardless his age bracket,the opposite is true for women, why, evolution, men are attracted to youth, fertility,softness ,beauty and feminity, older women especially in their 30's think their degree, maturity, experience, intelligence,money, status is what makes them attractive to men , big no, rather these what women find attractive in men and it takes time for a man to get these

No wonder marital rates are Declining, since women became more career oriented thinking their intelligence and ambition arouses men, and the scientific literature showing men don't find women with high IQ and socio-economic status appealing is sound, your beauty and sexuality primarily gets the attention of men not your money or PHD, no Masculine man wants a masculine woman

Hyerin:


Men aging like fine wine is a myth. You lot bald, have gut bellys and start having issues with your health then chase after young girls for them to play role of nurse for the elderly. The only people aging like fine wine are those who groom themselves well which isn't exclusive to one gender.

Hyerin:


Women don't go to school and get degrees for men to find them attractive. They do that to make life better for themselves. Nobody cares if men don't find intelligence and ambition attractive. Beauty and fertility isn't going to put food on anyone's table.

DEMZEE:


Baba we are not gynocentric and will never be

Men in Nigeria are first class citizens and women are second class citizens period!

Marriage is an honorable institution in Nigeria, traditional gender roles are upheld daily.

Men lead
Women follow

November24:


Well,baba,me I'm a God-fearing woman o.
I lost my virginity at 28.

I was just a naive girl.

My immediate ex is late. He had heart disease,I stood by him for 3 years before he passed on..

People are different sir

adambeatz:


I havr just 2 things to say:
1. Estrogen
2. Testosterone

1. You see by the time you hit 35 to 45 my dear, and your landlady come to collect her dues (menopause), the ovaries no longer produce much estrogen and estrogens mainly come from fat tissue. Estrogen being the number 1 factor that make females who they are is now in rapid decline which then come with so much health risks i cant even begin to list out.

2. With men, its a total different game instead of the rapid drop of estrogen females experience its a gradual decline of testosterone in males hence when compared I'd say the man is far off better.

Now for arguments sake lets put a male and a female who do regular exercises and ate healthy right from their teens to their early 40's. You see the likely scenario that'll play out would be that the female would cheat the landlady for a while to extend her stay (menopause would be delayed but still eventually catch up with her no matter how hard she tries) whilst thr guy would only make his landlord happy (as thr male testosterone loves having the muscles worked up and would bless your physical attribute to last longer) no to mention when that the estrogen drop in women is a rapid decline and a testosterone drop is a gradual decline in male.

Now lets have the reverse, should both the male engage in drugs and abuse their physical bodies whilst in theit teens down to their early 40's first off the female is a out of the picture cause..........(You get should get the picture already) whilst the man as your rightly put it would look for young girls to play the role of nursing the elderly.

Do more research and you'd discover estrogen is more of a curse than a blessing in female's in their early 40's compared the the testosterone which is more of a blessing than a curse to a male in his early 40's.

Why do you think men, especially our fathers married women who were way younger than them, its because they had to make a balance between their physical looks when landlord comes calling (estrogren and testosterone).

Here's a tip, only a few men know that women who have a bit of testosterone in their system seem to retain their looks way longer than a female who doesn't. When you come across women who have hairs on their arms and workout like hell, they tend to retain their physical appearances.

Do you have a bit of testosterone in your system dear, hit me up i might be your soul mate dear.

JESHAL:


Are you saying women are not leveraging them these mordern era , [s]the bitter pill that most women can't swallow is that without us you can't survive,but we also can't propagate civilization as a species without you, virtually all the inventions were from men, you can say it was Patriachy fault, but these mordern era where women in most nation's have educational, voting, working rights, why are women not interested in maintaining and advancing civilization,not interested in technology and, engineering, mathematics, you can't give excuse because women dominate sciences ( medicine, nursing), women don't venture into bricklaying, carpentry, mechanics, electrician, plumbing, coding, engineering,mining that are essential in maintaining civilization[/s]

Hyerin:


Beauty doesn't put food on anyone's table. Except if you work in the entertainment industry then possibly but that alone isn't sustainable nor is it long-term because looks fade and banking on it alone makes you easily replaceable because there's so many beautiful people in the world which doesn't make you special. You'd need something else that makes you stand out.

What is fertility if you don't have the resources to care for your children? Any woman carrying fertility on her head like gele without having the means to provide for said children is foolish.

I've said my piece on the crux of the argument. I don't have time for your shenanigans thus, refuse to be baited into exchanging lengthy texts with you.

Hyerin:



I've said my piece on the crux of the argument. I don't have time for your shenanigans thus, refuse to be baited into exchanging lengthy texts with you.

Hyerin:


Women don't go to school and get degrees for men to find them attractive. They do that to make life better for themselves. Nobody cares if men don't find intelligence and ambition attractive. Beauty and fertility isn't going to put food on anyone's table.

AmazonTopaz:


My dear you are too intelligent to stoop so low arguing with that deluded thing that can never learn

Bekind123:
Really, you bitter souls don't have any thing to do with your time than creating useless thread all over nairaland about women who you claim to hate, disgusting! You should be ashamed of yourself. Women will keep rejecting psychopaths like you losers for a nobleman.

November24:


Well,baba,me I'm a God-fearing woman o.
I lost my virginity at 28.

I was just a naive girl.

My immediate ex is late. He had heart disease,I stood by him for 3 years before he passed on..

People are different sir

JESHAL:


Ok
Just some concise points on fertility women specifically in western Societies receive;
1) welfare programs for single moms
2) 90% of child support is paid from men to women, meaning they don't have the means to sustain their children, infact 90% of alimony is paid from men to women after divorce even educated working class women are included in the statistics

On sexuality/ beauty
Onlyfans,olosho, pornography,video vixen, modelling, bank marketers, beauty pageant,even beautiful secretaries , you don't understand the power the Halo effect(beauty) and pussy has on men sha

AmazonTopaz:


My dear you are too intelligent to stoop so low arguing with that deluded thing that can never learn

Hyerin:


Thanks dear. I try my best. I keep telling myself not to reply him yet still go for it. I'm stubborn, I guess.

Hyerin:


1) If father abandonment wasn't rampant, then single mothers wouldn't be the biggest beneficiaries of welfare. It's hard for a single mother to survive on just her income alone thus, the need for assistance in absence of the father. There's multiple factors responsible for this. Parenting takes two to tango. Why are men absconding from their fatherly duties? Just goes to show you lot hate responsibilities.

2) because women generally earn lower than men and are mostly the ones devoting time and energy into child rearing. If the woman is the higher earner in the relationship then she pays alimony to the man.

3) only fans, pornography, video vixens, pageantry all fall under entertainment so my point stands. Being beautiful isn't a criteria for prostitution so I really don't get the point you're trying to make. Poverty, sex trafficking are the main drivers of prostitution.

Being conventionally beautiful is also not a criteria for modelling. Have you not seen some unique-looking models who arent necessarily deemed as beautiful? Having striking features, tall and slim are characteristics of models. These however, do not necessarily translate to conventional beauty.

The secretaries and bank marketers... Were they given the job because of their qualifications/skillset or beauty? Will a beautiful illiterate woman be given an accountancy job by virtue of being beautiful? You act like beauty and having skills are mutually exclusive which circles back to my earlier point, beauty and fertility does not put food on the table.

The halo effect isn't just based on physical attractiveness.

AmazonTopaz:

I understand but that one is irredeemable I believe he is highly disturbed.

Hyerin:


Same thing I think. I don't know how psychiatric ward escapees get access to phones these days because no sane man with gainful employment gets a kick out of arguing with women on NL on end

AmazonTopaz:

Not just the arguing,the problem is the nonsense he argues about he went on the internet and found solace in the midst of unfortunate miserable men so he comes on nairaland to vomit the nonsense pill.

Evolutionlove:


Men will keep Rejecting & Avoiding Mentally deranged, Slacked Coochie, WombLess & Expired Products like you Losers for a Young Vibrant VIRGIN Ladies.

PS:You think you have bad mouth, Obviously you haven't asked of me around.....

Bekind123:
Well, to disappoint you, I am a happily married woman with three beautiful kids. Behind every king there is a queen and I am the queen of my king (my hubby). Who in the hell do you think you are to decide for women on what age they should be getting married and how they should live their lives.