Mercychen:


Even your family should be left in the dark on such an important occasion of your life?

You don't seem to get it. It's just like going somewhere without intimating your family on where you're going in case one gets missing. So they know where to go looking for you.
If you just walk up to them and say you are married. Do you think they will believe you? Especially here in Africa. Like it's that easy? No now.

As long as they are not aware, you still remain unmarried to them and if anything happens, such a couple will be treated as mere boyfriend and girlfriend. Even me, that's how I'll regard such.

Let not encourage what is not good on.

The youth will just wake up and the devil will minister nonsense to them and theyll follow without reasoning it out.
Hian!

Mercychen:


Even your family should be left in the dark on such an important occasion of your life?

You don't seem to get it. It's just like going somewhere without intimating your family on where you're going in case one gets missing. So they know where to go looking for you.
If you just walk up to them and say you are married. Do you think they will believe you? Especially here in Africa. Like it's that easy? No now.

As long as they are not aware, you still remain unmarried to them and if anything happens, such a couple will be treated as mere boyfriend and girlfriend. Even me, that's how I'll regard such.

Let not encourage what is not good on.

The youth will just wake up and the devil will minister nonsense to them and theyll follow without reasoning it out.
Hian!

gulfer:
Null and void, where are the parents

aanuoluwami14:
I love this they need money to do other things. Congratulations

Magnoliaa:


I am getting your points, though. Perfectly getting it. I don't think she called it a secret wedding, though, just private? Her parents might be aware, but not in sitting. Both of them might have been acquainted with each others' families and friends before now, and would have let them know their plans. Or they did not only tell them the date.

Wo, different people with their styles, abeg. Not for me.


@topic, what will happen to all my Disney-inspired dreams? And Cinderella-styled Ankara gown? Or my Harlequin-themed majestic and grandeur atmosphere and frenzy? Ah. What a waste of childhood dreams. Mba.
And like someone said up there, the African society is very communal. Party jollof rice has taken me to heaven and back, made love to me, vanquished hunger many times, gotten numerous souvenirs... it'll reach my turn, I wee now deny others from eating rice and the same experience? Haha. Money or no money, we'll survive, joor.

If future boo is kuku here, he should better be taking note. I go spell clearly for am too, sha, so no shaking.

emorse:
It's no longer private now, is it?

Mercychen:
Why are they hiding?
At least, I still hear that of low key wedding with just family members but which one is ""secret" wedding? .

Not even a witness from the family. How will anyone view them as a couple?

What if the man decides to cheat her off a joint assets or property and get rid of proof of ownership, Or even dump her without benefits?
How will she be able to claim it as a legit wife?

Some women need to receive brain in this 21st century. And stop letting their emotions becloud their sense of reasoning.

I also hope it's not a case of stealing someones man or Vice versa? Hm.

Prenonjebose:

The picture shows three people. Can we come to the conclusion that the parents are unaware? Can we also believe there was no previous traditional wedding, which may also have been small? I believe the couple are showing what they want, inorder to pass a message of small wedding and generate comments.

emorse:
It's no longer private now, is it?

Cyphar:
I would love to have a wedding like this too.

daviesmania:
After finishing oda people's rice, u go and betray us... See ur life?

Mercychen:
Why are they hiding?
At least, I still hear that of low key wedding with just family members but which one is ""secret" wedding? .

Not even a witness from the family. How will anyone view them as a couple?

What if the man decides to cheat her off a joint assets or property and get rid of proof of ownership, Or even dump her without benefits?
How will she be able to claim it as a legit wife?

Some women need to receive brain in this 21st century. And stop letting their emotions becloud their sense of reasoning.

I also hope it's not a case of stealing someones man or Vice versa? Hm.

See ur reasoning, is there any wedding done without signing abi wedding register abi certificate as proof.. so if them go court na people weh withness de come to testify that dem been don marry?

d33types:


I can imagine the pain in your voice/head. So pathetic of you to think this way. I'm also wondering where you sighted "secret wedding".
Private wedding here meant only family members of both couples,as well as few friends were present.

osamz007:
PRIVATE LITTLE WEDDING. U COME AM OUT FOR SOCIAL MEDIA

osamz007:
PRIVATE LITTLE WEDDING. U COME AM OUT FOR SOCIAL MEDIA

jaeyking:
Private wedding
Yet you post am for social media.

Ayam not understanding

emorse:
It's no longer private now, is it?

Mercychen:


This is not even a case of elaborate or low key. It's private. Secret. Hidden from everyone. Even family members are not aware they are married. No witness except the priest. So, how does that spell low key?

Anyways, their choice but not really a good one because if anything happens, who are they going to confide in?
Who knows them as a legitimate couple?

daviesmania:
After finishing oda people's rice, u go and betray us... See ur life?

Guyman02:
How can it be private when it's all over social media, very soon she will post private baby shower, private naming ceremony, private honeymoon, they are deceiving themselves. It's not private

Mercychen:


Even your family should be left in the dark on such an important occasion of your life?

You don't seem to get it. It's just like going somewhere without intimating your family on where you're going in case one gets missing. So they know where to go looking for you.
If you just walk up to them and say you are married. Do you think they will believe you? Especially here in Africa. Like it's that easy? No now.

As long as they are not aware, you still remain unmarried to them and if anything happens, such a couple will be treated as mere boyfriend and girlfriend. Even me, that's how I'll regard such.

Let not encourage what is not good on.

The youth will just wake up and the devil will minister nonsense to them and theyll follow without reasoning it out.
Hian!

d33types:


I can imagine the pain in your voice/head. So pathetic of you to think this way. I'm also wondering where you sighted "secret wedding".
Private wedding here meant only family members of both couples,as well as few friends were present.