M M M:

op
my dad has alot of money, i mean he is money himself.

And he wants 2 marry a 6th wife,

will u marry him?

BABE!:

haha! Did you take your medication(s) this morning?

upendo 98:

Its a crzy world.

Backflash. At 19 I was out of high school and thinking about what course to study.marriage never crossed my mind.
What on earth are you talking about little girl?

@Those in marriage want to pop out cz what they saw while out is not what they discovered on getting in.
@Those that are out like you want to jump in there yet you are still,emotionally,financially,spiritually,socially,unstable!

My 2cents worth of Advise?

1.' NEVER EVER GET MARRIED TO TRY AND PROVE A POINT TO ANYBDODY.
You only prove to the person you are marrying. and that is 'you love them enough to marry them'

2. Get a life. Be busy.get a job part time or study. Dont stay in house whole day.What you are feeling is normal 'teenage rebellion' I also felt that way too.
We all did i think.

3.For heavens sake! don't scream and shout that you are desperate to get married!! You will attract flies that will suck you up and dump you like poo.

Why? cz they want your young body only but you are not yet 'wife material'. It takes a while to build and make a 'wife material' Its not just automatic becz you are a girl!! Not every girl can make a good wife.
Allow yourself to grow dear.Enjoy your youth for now otherwise if your gonna throw it all now then when you hit 50 you want to behave like a teen coz you missed developing that stage!!.

4. DO NOT GET MARRIED NOW.Try get a life dear.

Oh God!!

9jafetish:





i really took that comment to heart and i guess your right i should probably rethink my life.

but how can i show my parents i am mature?

9jafetish:

@deniyor
can i send you a pic of myself to you in private message,  i don't want my family members coming here and finding out it was me, they will lecture me and  probably beat me.
yes i am done high school,and i am in university now.

lets see uhhh i am a virgin, i can cook, i can clean,and i can have babies,also in a few years i will have my university degree and will be able to have a career.


my life already sucks my parents don't let  me do anything, all throughout high school i did nothing just go home and do homework i had only 3 frds they were losers so all we did was study.


i go to university then i get used and abused by sum guy,and now i wanna get married.



but since i am somewhat sensible i will take your comment into consideration, i guess marriage isn't all that.


but then why do people like getting married?

9jafetish:

ppl do die very early these days  so far five women i know died in their forties.

cancer is becoming more and more rarely,anyone survives it.

Ekpoma1:

BABE bawoni?

sugar pp:

you are 19 you haven't really dated and yet you think you will be able to keep a husband you are bored of your 19 years of existence what makes you think you won't be bored of the remaining 50+ years. Marriage comes with a lot of challenges e.g. what if you find out you are infertile? or your in-laws don't like you? or your husband starts to cheat? do you think you are emotionally mature to deal with all of that?
also what have you got to offer a man? why would a guy want to marry a girl that her main reason to marry is to earn the respect of her parents

BABE!:

No!

BABE>> FORMS TOO MUCH

upendo 98:

Hoax or no hoax, Smbody could be in the same dillemma sooner or later so  whoever it helps well and good.

Orikinla:

Poster, you are not really desperate to marry, but actually tired of being a virgin and mistakenly think getting married is the surest way to escape from being laid before you marry.

Go and get a good education first.

franktolk:

@Poster,
I know you and everything u posted is true.I wonder why your Parents dont want to know you're a grown up girl. I just dont like the way they belittled u the other day. Let me know if you'll be willing to share your mind with me. Let's rub minds sweet girl. x

Rhea:

This is all the advice you need. Marriage is not just some blackberry phone you buy today and return next week when something better comes by. Once you're in, you can only get out as damaged goods.

So please get a good education. Your husband will come at the right time

9jafetish:


i am the last born , [b]my bloody parents [/b]should just have another kid geez,