Is it right for to have a girlfriend who's two years older than you.cos I think I have a problem with dat. 1 she doesnt know about it and 2. if her family knows am in trobs

proper? what do u mean - this is annoying.

Yungjay:

Is it right for to have a girlfriend who's two years older than you.because I think I have a problem with that. 1 she doesnt know about it and 2. if her family knows am in trobs

you have a problem with the age thingy? then why are you dating her? why are you hiding such crucial issues from her?_{God knows what else you are hiding!}

her family must not know? is her family paying your bills? or do you have a reason/motive for dating this girl ? are you after her family's wealth?

its obvious you don't love her, please free the girl and let her go! shio!

its nt right to date a gurl who is older than u. very very bad!

bubblegum:

its nt right to date a gurl who is older than u. very very bad!

and why is that?
Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number

. . . .especially when she's taller than you

hollandis:

and why is that?
Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number

yeah i kno "age aint nothin but a number" but not like dating a gurl who is older than u. i feel its nt right

Yes, not right at all

Ben20001:


Yes, not right at all

It isn't a crime bros

bubblegum:

yeah i kno "age aint nothin but a number" but not like dating a gurl who is older than u. i feel its nt right

Older could be 3 mnts - 2years.And again their love is skin deep

hollandis:

It isn't a crime bros
Older could be 3 mnts - 2years.And again their love is skin deep

still not proper. even if its a day!

So long as there is no profound physical factor that makes her less appealing to her younger counterpart,I don't see how it really matters. I think that the maturity/stage of life thing is more important than the age number, really. Some people act like kids even through their 30s these days .

anoda girl have mistaken an over grown baby for a man. maybe we need to carry our birth certificates around, too bad

it might not av been an issue if she knew from d start but 4 d mere fact that  u lied and u r still lying about ur age is enuf reason 4 her to dump ur arse.

As 4 me, age has nothing do wit anytin. The poster is nuts!

to me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. it simply a mentality we nigerians have cultivated for no just reason. as a matter of fact, my gf is older than i am, don't ask me how old. what matters is love and mutual respect.

U juys shoulf stop thinking like un-enlightened 'boys'.Go and watch this movie "love and war",then u might have a change of heart,un-enlightened little boys!

There is nothing wrong with it. But you needed to be honest with her.

@ poster

Common my man, if she is older than you and she is all that - who cares. Even if her family jumps up and down doing chris-cross, as much she is into you be happy about it.
Yeah, make una dey tell each other the truth.

hollandis:

and why is that?
Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number

Even if Aaliyah no sang am
che na age you chop ni abi happiness?
na wah for those shallow minded pple sha

bubblegum:

still not proper. even if its a day!

deal with it
jeez!!!!

@NLs

To me, i believe its not right for wife to be older than her hubby. They may be happy together and all that, but what about the sexual aspect

At 70, a man can still be active sexually but can u say that of a woman at 60 Just my own thought o.

@poster,

Lies in relationship can be very bad and dangerous. Be warned

Gigolo

If its just your girlfriend i dont actually see anything wrong with that, but if u are planning on getting married then thats where u have a problem. Mind u we are blacks not whites.

:d

Theres no problem with dat.What if d girl is 5 yrs older than d guy,for me I gat no problem with dat

i sense that you are using this as an excuse, u dont want to continue with the relationship, be a man brother

bubblegum:

its nt right to date a gurl who is older than u. very very bad!

If i may ask, what has Age to do with relationship, if both of them realy love and respect each other.
Afterall Age is just a number,it only whom u tell ur real age will know.

It's a matter of choice really.

Ah kant imagine masef datin a guy younga dan me.

Where exactly do you see this relationship going to? If you aint gon marry her oboy enjoy while it last, but if you are ready to marry/settle down and wanna marry her then you shouldnt have a problem with the age but if you do?bro find someone younger.personally can't marry someone older than me though but no problem if its just a relationship

It is proper.

@essentialB> truth is, it no longer seems to be an issue of proper or improper cause it really has to do with the mindset and level of maturity of both parties.

From the poster's tone he seems to be insecured and so i'll advice he steps out of the game. If he eventually goes thru with it every single move of the wife (if they get married) makes him look like the haunted

its about your mindset

and what understanding you have

my parents as age mates, i mean same year different months

in an age when husband's had at least 5years on their wives