yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

You are not a fool and you seem to be a considerate husband... Take the issue of the rice as one of those bad days in marriage. You guys should settle the matter and let it slide before it leads to worst issues.

siofra:


I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women. I'm just happy more women in Nigeria are embracing feminism.

Oponu ni e, u dont have a brain

Film is always different from reality.

Stop spewing nonsense.

Mumu.



I know people like u, people like u are the kind of women that would never allow their male child to go to kitchen with his wife.

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siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

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siofra:


Nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are househusbands and as long as their wives don't degrade them but treat them as their equal.

I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women.

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If I were you, I will allow her to eat but report her straight to her parents with a stern warning never to allow a repeat of such silly behaviour go unchecked as enumerated above.
In marriage, one party has to be the bigger and better person sometimes for things to work out.

Uncle you caused it, do not start what u cannot finish,, at times women are so petty, instead of u to cook, go and get something to eat before coming home or u demand ur food encase it's your right as head of the house, u did nothing wrong to deny her food but expect her revenge, since she has chosen to be video addict, it's right time u seize her phone until she receive sense, brother being cool will ruin ur marriage, I have smashed, seized her phones so many times, if she reminds you that she has her right as you, remind her that Man don't Marry Man and if she wants to have equal right as u, she should find her own house and dissolve the marriage, you need to be a man and exercise your Authority. Tired woman has to sleep to regain strength

You see this food cooking thing, before i marry.....we have to talk about it with any woman i want to marry. I go out and struggle for money, buy food stuff and my wife still want me to cook it for her, how fair is that?

Such thing happens when a wife begin to receive advice from those who have divorced their husbands and from those you want to marry her husband.
That is the spirit of error which will eventually lead to separation of husband and wife.

yinkaOdutuyo:


Ok ma. If so be it. May all your children be the ones to be cooking for their wives.

Amen

@ yinkaOdutuyo, You did the right thing. If she's not interested in the cooking, she shouldn't be interested in the eating. The headache suddenly disappeared abi? Some of us ladies like to take our men for granted especially when they're the soft ones some people here like to classify as "simp". Everybody cannot be tough nuts.

There are days my oga will say don't do anything I'll do everything. I could sit and watch TV or even sleep while he does the cooking. It's an offer from the depth of his mind, no problem. And there are days he wants his food immediately he steps in. No taking for granted, he gets his food.

I guess your marriage is pretty young. She'll come around. Just be checkmating her like you did yesterday so she doesn't grow wings and fly.

Ximenez:

You'll also punish yourself by denying him sex.

Person wey go dey Bleep for outside. That's why she said what she said.

yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

You have a lazy wife. Just get a house help and everyone is happy

siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

split the house chores equally you said? You might end up marrying 4 different husband in your life, if you don't understand more about marriage.

siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

You just got back, and you're beginning to spew rubbish. Sometimes I wonder if reading and comprehending, is your problem.. Why can't you ever be objective. Must you chase clout with everything... *spits*

yinkaOdutuyo:


But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.

Chai brother you messed up big time. Ordinary female format you no fit deliver.

See that mind that's telling you that you were wicked to your wife is the right mind

You failed q love and dependency test and what will be going on in her mind is if you genuinely love her or not. And trust women, she don record am for you. If continue like this eh you'd raise a very callous and " I don't care" wife that you'd wonder where you went wrong

I just dey

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You did the right thing tho..why asking questions?
Was she supposed to taste from the food?
She wasn't interested in the cooking so she shouldn't be in tasting..


Modified:those blaming the man ain't serious tho..why would she wanna taste the food..or did y'all not read where she said she wouldn't even eat from it?
A sensible person should at least participate in the preparation.. switch off the cooking gas..you didn't.. raising your voice at the man instead..

This is the first time in history that u have been sincere to urself. I was thinking that u would be feminine in comment.

Iyaebe:
You are not matured,hope you’ll never ask for sex from her again.If I’m her I’ll deny you sex till I decide to let go for making me starve just because I acted silly . I hate tit for tat partners

This attention seeker again
Take your stinky kpekus and get the hell/Bleep out of this place

yinkaOdutuyo:


But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.

You did the right thing..

siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

Who is wrong? E be like u want make i bite u.

godofuck231:
Just for once you have been in the shoes of a woman and you take disciplinary judgment against your wife so quick as pan, have you seen it from the angle that she could be pregnant, woman became terribly crazy when pregnant, or on her period,
Or at least show your management skills in handling your home and cooking for one night , more a week , and get up in the morning and greet her good morning love and see how her conscience stirs ,
The samurai as fierce as they were were obliged as to some house chores as a relief of their everyday life as feudal lords and warlords, they were involved in literature , acting performance, tea ceremonies and crafts ,
Dont see this as an insult , move on and be at peace

U no hear say e say she go chop that night?

When food done, she stand up wan come chop

yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

Chai brother you messed up big time. Ordinary female format you no fit deliver.



See that mind that's telling you that you were wicked to your wife is the right mind



You failed q love and dependency test and what will be going on in her mind is if you genuinely love her or not. And trust women, she don record am for you. If continue like this eh you'd raise a very callous and " I don't care" wife that you'd wonder where you went wrong


Just want to make sure you heard me

siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

Don't expect us to act like you old man

siofra:


Nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are househusbands and as long as their wives don't degrade them but treat them as their equal.

I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women.

You are just a big fool, and I pity the man who will get married to you.

Abeg shift!

siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

Sometimes I wonder what you ladies take and how you reason!! After all he explained, he is very wrong!!! Na wa oo

siofra:


Nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are househusbands and as long as their wives don't degrade them but treat them as their equal.

I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women.

There is a place for a man and there is a place for a woman, when we mix them we miss it!! God that created man to go out and hustle and made the woman’s help mate isn’t a man like us!! I am convinced some of you females aren’t straightforward

If we learn not to bring our family issues out in public, the world would be less toxic.

You both are wrong. You both didn't act like the matured adults you are.

But I know the cause of this. It's hardship mehn... If a white man face the hardship in this country for just one day, I'm sure he would die in his sleep. (No kidding)

Starving her do you think it's the best way to resolve the issue ? I don't think so. But you are the man of you house, do as you seem fit.

If you continue like this she would look for an alternative to get food and you may not like how she goes about it.

Besides, you are only doing this because she doesn't have anything doing. You can't starve a business or a working class woman.

Follow your conscience and next time keep your private issues private, na u see her, liked her, loved her sotey u married her then settle all your differences as a couple.

yinkaOdutuyo:


But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.

yinkaOdutuyo:


Ok ma. If so be it. May all your children be the ones to be cooking for their wives.

Amennn! A bloody idiotic feminist spotted.

RAVANGE!!! You did the right thing, she even shouted ontop of you sef.
But get ready o, she's going to ravange back, and women ravange na another planet on it's on, right in the middle of a blazing volcano.