Mind your business

Righteousness2:
Talk to her and warn her about such evil Directly or through someone.
If you see no changes, inform your brother immediately and Ensure you have concrete evidence.

Also your brother going oversees and leaving his wife here is not a healthy one.
Because only a woman with a Genuie fear of GOD will not misbehave in such circumstance. Advice your bro on that.

Don't try to warn her else she may implicate you. Just send your brother the evidence you have and tell him that no one else in the family is aware. Then lock up it is up to your brother to decide what he wants to do with the info.

Righteousness2:
Talk to her and warn her about such evil Directly or through someone.
If you see no changes, inform your brother immediately and Ensure you have concrete evidence.

Also your brother going oversees and leaving his wife here is not a healthy one.
Because only a woman with a Genuie fear of GOD will not misbehave in such circumstance. Advice your bro on that.

...especially considering the unthinkable types of danger it poses for his brother.

Righteousness2:
Talk to her and warn her about such evil Directly or through someone.
If you see no changes, inform your brother immediately and Ensure you have concrete evidence.

Also your brother going oversees and leaving his wife here is not a healthy one.
Because only a woman with a Genuie fear of GOD will not misbehave in such circumstance. Advice your bro on that.

You want to put OP's life in danger. No amount of warning can stop a cheating woman

Mind ur business.

They will fight and make up.

U will become the devil later.

Zonefree:
No Nigerian girl can stay 4 weeks without sex. Your brother staying out of the country for a year expected his Nigerian wife's kpekus to be rusty



No lies here.

Women are naturally born for sex. A broke man hardly think of sex, but, you'll see a broke and wretched girl feeling hornyy and demanding for marathon sex.

A man can never divorce his wife cos she's bad on bed. But, you see and hear stories of women divorcing their husband cos of inadequate sex or short dick.

Don't allow any woman deceive you that she will wait for you...she's getting the dick already with or without you.

my brother you spoke nothing but Facts on facts on facts most guys are busy deceiving themselves thinking their Babes are waiting for them hahahahaha No woman born of a woman will wait two full months for you no matter how much she loves you, once the itch becomes too much she’s going to Scratch that shit most men are too insecure and naive to believe this

If your brother can swear with his life that he has been faithful all through, then she's guilty, if not, birds of same feathers. I think you should mind your business. Women are designed ovulate every month. Don't kill her with sexual depression Abeg.

Tell him with an evidence or else them go use you settle all pending issues.

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

I once made a mistake of not letting my elder brother know his wife (then girlfriend) was cheating on him, I mind my business, but today she had a son who looks very different from people of our lineage, only one child a baby girl looks like us.

Don't mind your business tell him because there is dangers ahead either for the wife or the husband.

Just gather evidence bro, simple. Send the evidence to your brother let him decide for himself

ukaface:
your head is paining you for that general assumption you made in your comment.
Be like your female relatives are always on heat.

I believe you know I hate you.

Oro pesije Oro din hun �

A cheating married woman can kill you for knowing her secret especially when it has to do with marriage.

lawrenzooo:
When you have evidence and proof, confront her with the proof then sit her down and talk to her like you would your own sister.

If She refuse to change then you can inform your brother.


Guys traveling abroad biko take your wife with you. It's not easy for a woman a married one at that to stay without her hubby. Body no be firewood. Stop putting your partner in tight corners.

Tell him....cos if she get HIV NA BROS BE D FIRST PERSON TO CONTACT IT OO

Please advice her to stop, but if she still continue, then tell your brother because his life is at stake. And again you have to be careful about it because if you if catch a thief without caution the complainant can become the accused ooo. you know what i mean. Be careful.

He is your brother he is family he is your business

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

If he is truly your brother, you will not e asking the question. You would have been telling us the outcome of your actions by now.

Kobojunkie:
Here's a question. What happens in a case where he is also aware that his own brother is also cheating on the wife? Does he also gather evidence to share with the wife then too?

I don't understand the type of people that are on nairaland any longer.
Nawa for you

I am a married woman and in strong terms condemn cheating. Please since you are sure, gather enough evidence and tell your brother.
Meanwhile I am Obediently Kwasofied. I heard that a merger talk is ongoing between Obi and Kwankwaso. Abeg make it work.

Last but not the least, I am kinda broke this weekend. Someone should roger me small change make I take hold body. Salary never come

Mind your business unless there is voilence or death threats.

Let them go see a counsellor or consult God for solution.

If you step in, they might end up blaming you for the dismay. When couples or relationship gone sour. There is still an underlying unity between them.

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

if you talk you go die if you know talk you go still die therefore,my brother TALK and safe your brother from early grave

we have women that can stay but 3 out of 100

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

Please, I beg these women in the name of God, stop disgracing us. I feel so bad anytime I hear such things about married women. It makes everyone become a potential suspect especially those whose husbands are not around. It's so sad that these days, there's no more trust in marriage.
Flee every appearances of evil. Temptations will definitely come but please resist it with conscious efforts. Both men and women should consciously protect their marriages including me. Let's not allow the devil to win the battle over us.
Whatever is bad is bad. Please, my fellow women let's stop this evil act. It's a very very shameful thing.

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

I think you are stupid your brother wife is cheating and you didn't tell your brother, you are evil brother.

They are all dogs most especially Yoruba girls. They prefer to be in there parents house with there children and fucking outside. I am a victim. Tell your brother ASAP and send her away before she brings a cause on your family

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

Talk to her about it. If she does not stop, then spill the beans.

This is the new trend Nairaland wants to milk for coming weeks? Small small, to leave this place dey sweet me for mind.

As much as I don't support infidelity, we all are human beings. A whole year and counting..... All of una jst dey shout tell him! Tell him!! he without sin should cast the first stone

If you want to tell, tell. If you don't want to tell, don't. Even if the husband is in the country if she will, she will. You just need to be in the streets to know how these things go.

LadyTara:
why are people such cowards though. Why does he have to hide and tell?

Why ,just why? You want to report ,then come with your full chest. Only cowards throw stones and hide their hands. If he is sure ,let him tell his brother and stand by what he said .

Because people in love are usually stupid. If the husband finds out, if he's the type with a weak character and the lady manipulates him, he will reconcile with the cheating wife and both of them will see the person who told him as an enemy of their marriage.

That is why i have a personal policy of not interfering in cases of domestic abuse. Women will always go back to their abusers and download whatever advice you gave to her.